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help please i rate high
i really like this boy, and my friend found out that i liked him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true and she found out that the boy i like has alot of common things with me and she is trying to be his perfect image which is me i recently found out that they are going out what should i do
i dont understand why she didnt want to tell me to see how i feel about it
and now the person that i found out that she thinks there is something going on between me and him
i really don't kow what to do
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i know exactly what its like to be stabbed in the back and i knwo that its one of if not the worst feelings in the world u should jus talk to her face to face an tell her that yall friendship is over i know that sounds hard as anything but a real friend wouldent do that to you. i know thats alot of info to handle u might wanna give it a while to settle and then go talk to your supposed "friend" but other than that jus pray for that dude who got stuck with her.
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thats mean of her to do that can you really call her that good of a friend if she would start rumours about you...
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talk to your friend and find out why she did that, she must be jealous of the fact that you and this guy have so much in common and she doesn't have as much in common with him.
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Well i think that you should stop being friends with this girl if she is tying to be like you and trying to take away the guy that you like. She should stop and let you take care of things and not letting her spread rumors about you.
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Well, first off. She is NOT a friend. Friends do not go behind your back spreading rumours. Friends do not find out you like a guy and set out to take him from you. Friends care and will not do things to purposely hurt you. She did all of this on purpose. She planned and plotted and has now gone out with the guy. She knows she's not what this guy thinks she is. THAT is why she is paranoid that you and him are together behinde her back. I say find out who your REAL friends are. Guys are notoriously stupid when it comes to women, so I'm not sure if you'll be able to cold bloodedly take him away from her. Even though she isn't a friend though, there is an old saying that makes great practical sense. "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer." This basically means don't let her realize you know she's not your friend. Keep her in your circle to be able to keep a close eye on her actions and to know what she's saying. This is a difficult thing to do. Some people can't manage it, if you can't don't worry too much. Just drop her and make sure you are the truest friend to the people around you that you can be. Loyalty does count in this world. As for the guy, hopefully he'll learn quickly what a fake she is and dump her. Stay close to him, be nice. Flirt a little, but don't bad mouth her. Bad mouthing tends to make guys stubborn and will work against you rather than for you. This is a tough situationa dn I wish you luck!
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shes not a nice person att all ! dont be frineds with her if shes doing that to you you really like him so tell him how you feel tell him all that was you but shes sayin it ! well hoped this helped !
good luck
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