Why do i always have problem. AArrrrrrgh. Yeah it's another
Question Posted Monday May 16 2005, 8:37 am
Ok, I just wanted to thank me ppl for their advice. I found out the she is having a relationship behind my back. This is the new one. I just went to our senior prom and met this girl. She is the bomb, I mean everything about her is perfect in my eyes. I almost hooked up with her and found out that one of my friends like her,but she doesn't like him that way. I'm in some trouble on this one. LOL. What should I do on this one. Arrrrgh, why do my friends and i like the same girl.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? calamityz answered Thursday June 9 2005, 2:22 pm: Why are your friends your friends? Probably becuase you guys have stuff in common and are similar in some ways. Clearly you have the same taste in something (maybe music, movies, video games), and now girls as well. How good of friends are you? Realize that if you go out or hook up with her, it may be the end of your friendship. Is it worth it? If you ask him first and explain stuff and he says that he's fine with it you may have more permission to go after her, but be careful becuase he may not want to upset you or let you find out that he is upset about the situation. The safe thing to do is to let the girl go (there will be others), no matter what your friend says. [ calamityz's advice column | Ask calamityz A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 3:40 pm: Well, your friend really can't make her like him, and since he isn't dating her I think you should be free to ask her out.
If he were dating her it would be one thing...you don't take girls away from each other. Friends often like the same things...that's why they are friends. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
W8n2saiGoodbi answered Monday May 16 2005, 5:20 pm: talk to your friend find out how much he really likes her. How much do you like her becuase if you think she is perfect maybe she is perfect for you but you wont know until you try and see how things end up. Become friends with her and see how you feel with just as friends and then think about how much you care what your friend has to say. It all depends on how close you and your friend are and if they say ok go ahead theyll get over it you got a chance with her but if they say no you might have to risk their friendship but 10 to 1 he will get over it and be happy your atleast talking to him about it [ W8n2saiGoodbi's advice column | Ask W8n2saiGoodbi A Question ]
pinkxice143 answered Monday May 16 2005, 10:53 am: yea i have this problemm all the time.. after a while one of you will start liking someone else and it will all work out .. trust me !
Van_10 answered Monday May 16 2005, 10:47 am: hi there
if you have an respect for your friend you wouldnt go out with that girl even though she's perfect in your eyes. think about it is it worth it to sacrifice the friendship, for this girl is not like you are going to marry her
think about it, i cant tell you what to do, but if ts going to cause problems in your friendship ask yourself is it worth it
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