ok so I have this friend who I can't stand. (she isn't really my friend) She is so screwed up and I can't stand her. 1. She is a patheloical lier and 2. She snjoys screwing peoples lives up. So anyway my best friend recently started dating her and I can't fiure out why. She's mean, ugly, dramatic and really hurts people. No one likes her. So we were at a concert and he had his arm around me and I turn around and he was making out with her! How do I tell him how I feel about their relationship? Thanks. 14/f
Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy answered Monday May 16 2005, 12:11 am: I think you're being a real bitch. You are not in this relationship, it your friend and the girl you cannot stand. If you don't like her, why do you hang out with her? Or even considered her a friend? So what if he made out with his girlfriend in front of you? It is his girlfriend after all, DUH! She may be different with him then she is with you. I think you should just butt out. [ Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy's advice column | Ask Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy A Question ]
danceonme answered Sunday May 15 2005, 8:37 pm: No offence, but it's none of your business who he dates. Even if you can't stand her, she's HIS girlfriend, not yours. If you don't want to hang out with her, ask him if you guys can have your own alone time. Eventually, he'll figure out that she's not so great, but in the meantime, it's none of your business who he likes or why he likes them. [ danceonme's advice column | Ask danceonme A Question ]
ShYbl0nD3 answered Sunday May 15 2005, 7:44 pm: im sorry to say this but i think your guy friend is just in it for the sex, so maybe thats why he likes your girl friend...
but just tell him how you feel. Bring something up about it and then go from there.
good luck! [ ShYbl0nD3's advice column | Ask ShYbl0nD3 A Question ]
fragileivory answered Sunday May 15 2005, 5:19 pm: The only thing to do is just tell him. Write him a note, email, call him, have someone else do it for you. Or you can just ignore him and let him make this huge mistake.
The only advice I have is to wait until he brings her up and say something about it. You might seem jealous if you're the one to bring it up. Good luck. Let me know if you need anything. [ fragileivory's advice column | Ask fragileivory A Question ]
Van_10 answered Sunday May 15 2005, 5:15 pm: hi there,
i totally know where you are coming from, i believe that they are some poeple that are mean and end up going with the nice guy, maybe she doesnt act that way wheb shes's with him, i have a so called friend that is exactly like this, i don't think you are jealous , you are just looking out for your friend that's all , beware that if you tell him, she might put ideas into his head and say that you are jealous, but you arent
all i can say it just be there for your best friend when it gets bad or the relationship is over , think about it her true colour are going to have to come to light sooner or later
VanityScore answered Sunday May 15 2005, 5:02 pm: Ok.. it kind of sounds like you like your best friend.. but that's just my opinion.
First off, I wouldn't say anything about not liking the relationship. That might get your best friend pissed off at you. I mean, you can have an opinion and all.. but don't share it unless he asks you to. This is his relationship, and even though you care about him... he cares about this girl for some reason, and it wouldn't be cool to go and and all-out insult her... I wouldn't do it, but the best way to talk to him about it is to get around to it casually. And don't say she's mean or ugly or anything like that... [ VanityScore's advice column | Ask VanityScore A Question ]
cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Sunday May 15 2005, 4:53 pm: heyy .. this sounds to me like your jealous of her and so isnt evreyone else so the best advice is to get over yourself and face the matter that your friend goes out with her and because you say she is mean then the break up for them wil probably be coming soon if what you said is right sorry if its not exactly what you wanted to hear
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