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Q: I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do?
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Well i think you should sit your boyfriend down and talk to him about what he wants to do in your realationship.... sometimes you just have to give him time, maybe he isn't ready for anything more just right now.... i know my boyfriend seems to want to just do the same thing (hug, kiss, hold hands, and cuddle) well it seems that way but you or i won't really know unless we ask and fine out for ourselves! Well keep me updated on whats going on.... Good luck :)
-Katie-
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Q: Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.
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Well i think you should tell your boyfriend what you did and not keep anything from him!! He is your boyfriend and to have a realationship with someone you should not lie or keep any secrets even something like this! Just tell him and tell him your sorry and if he really loves you like he says he does then he will forgive you! Good Luck
-Katie-
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Q: umm do you have a boyfriend? what do you and him talk about and what keeps your love burning?
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Yes i have a boyfriend, we have been together for 1 month and a half. You ask what do we talk about? well i talk to him about anything i feel i want to ask, tell, or say to him! And what keeps our love burning? Well i guess it is the fact that we would do anything for eachother and we both love eachother so much! I am just myself around him and you should be to if you have a boyfriend. Boys don't like fakes... they like YOU for YOU! So that is a clue to be YOURSELF around your man!
-Katie-
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Q: ok well im going to lucnh with a boy today idont kno wut to talk to him about plz give me alotta ideas i dont wanna bore him!! hes sweet cute and popular!! plz help ill rate a 5!
signed- confused
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Well Confused....
This is what you do.... be yourself and ask him how his day was so far! Just see what he is interested in and ask him about it! Don't be neverous and be yourself! Ask him questions that your interested in to know about him!
*I hope i helped
-Katie-
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Q: well i asked you about my boyfriend cheating on me from the other day! Well my friend saw a girl at his house! What do i do?
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Well this is what you do.... not make a plan to walk in on them together in bed! Maybe he is cheating on you but then again he could have a tutor for school or maybe it was a friend of the familys! Just talk to him about it and clam down everything will be just fine!
-Katie-
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Q: Now i think my boyfriend is cheating on me! How can i find out...? Should i ask him or should i have a friend of mine to watch him? What should i do? We have been together for 1 month and everything was fine... so i thought! Then all the time i am around him he is never the same! Like he is doing something behind my back! What should i do?
Thanks
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To really find out if your boyfriend is a cheater NEVER EVER have some one watch him for you, because they might be the one he is cheating on you with! Be a really women and find out yourself if your man is a cheater or not! Go to him and ask him yourself! Hey who knows maybe the real reason he is being weird around is probably because he has something planned for you because the holidays are coming up!
-Katie-
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Q: my boyfriend tells me how much he loves me about everyday and i feel the same but i think hes tryin to make me break up with him...always tellin me about other girls and them kissin him and its juss soo rude! what do i do?
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I think you should tell him about how you feel because it is not a good thing to feel that your boyfriend is lieing to you about loving you! My ex boyfriend was like that and he pushed me to the limit that i did break up with him and then he tried to get me back! It is just a game that some guys play on there girlfriends just to be entertained by the fact they are lieing to you and your beleiving him! So my advice to you is to just talk to him and if you really love him then you would do this! Set him straight...... talk to your man!
-Katie-
Good luck
.....if you need anything else just ask me!
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Q: Okay, i'm freshman and i like this guy who's a junior. he's really nice and seems flawless except for one thing. He's a huge pot-head. You can tell when he's high and he's always making an *ss of himself when he is. Should i forget him or give him a chance? I rate...
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I don't know if you want to here this but this is what i think and this is sorta the truth! I have a friend that does drugs and once you start you really can't stop doing them. So to your pot-head crush he probably won't be able to stop doing pot if he has done it for so long! And for the, should you or shouldn't you give him a chance, i think you would probably be wasting your time trying to change him from being a pot-head to an innocent boy that doesn't do drugs. I think you should probably forget about him because there is someone else out there that is better for you! And plus if you do give him a chance there is also a good chance that if you and him are in a fight and he has been doing pot and get mad at you, you might not make it out with out any bruises.... i've dated one before and that is what happened and i don't want that happening to you!
-Katie-
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Q: I dont know if this is love life or friendship but I have a huge crush on here and he dosnt know it I want to tell him but Im afraid, I dont know if he knows me , what do I do I really need help , my heart pounds everytime I visit his coulmn, what do I do?!!!!
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Well get his screen name and talk to him on AIM or YAHOO and get to know him more! Once you think the time is right to tell him you have a crush on him then tell him!
-Katie-
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Q: 13.m.fl(8th grade)
i like this girl a lot that goes to the other jr high in our area. i met her a couple weeks ago from her friends that ive known for a few monthes. i recently asked her out but she said she doesnt think she knows me well enough and is now going out with sum1 else from her school. im afraid she has a bad reputation of me from rumors about wut me and my friends do. wut should i do
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I think you should call this girl up and talk to her and tell her your not an bastard or whatever she thinks you are! Tell her your a really nice boy and you like her alot! Say hey maybe we can make it together, but we won't know unless we try it out together! IF she doesn't listen just give her more time and plus get to know her better and maybe she will learn that you are an awsome boy and your not just some kid with a bad rep. that goes to a different school! Your something more!
-Katie-
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Q: What do you do if you like somone but you dont want to? And you really think he likes you cause he alwas flirts with you, but your not sure.I'm 13 and a female
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yeah this has happened to me once before and i was freaking out because of this situation! I liked this boy that i always hated and he was okay looking but i liked him and for 3 years i hated him and i said to myself how am i going to deal with this? He seemed intersted in me but i thought he didn't like me because he was always mean to me everyday but it turned out that i grew to like him but i really didn't want to like him at all! So you probably just grew to like him and maybe sit down and talk to him get to know him better and maybe he is a really nice guy!
-Katie-
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Q: Today I found out that my boyfriend played dares at the weekend and tongued a girl for 12 seconds. He hasn't tongued me before. I play the same game and have kissed other guys before but not with tongues. Should I be mad?
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Yeah hun i would be mad if i found out! Just sit him down and talk things out with your man!
-Katie-
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Q: I have never actually made out with someone and i can tell mi boyfriend and i r gonna do it soon. Plz if u have any ints or tricks i would realli appriciate it!
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OH another question about making out..... well first of all it is just alot of kissing and do whatever you think is right and what comes natural to you when you are making out with your boyfriend!
Well first of all, put your hand on his back or his neck and he will probably do the same or put his hand on your leg. Just kiss and keep doing that... kiss with the tonuge and maybe he will french kiss you sometime through that. But give him time.... once you do this (making out) once your bound to know what you are doing the next times..... he might put his hand up your shirt in the back or something like that! You will definitly have fun doing this!
Good Luck Hun!!
-Katie-
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Q: I have a boyfriend who I adore, I'm only 13 so I don't wanna have sex or anything but what are some good intimate things that we can do? We already put our arms round each other, kiss, hug and he puts his hand on my ass but it's getting boring, any ideas?
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Maybe make out.... your really to young to have sex and plus you shouldn't give him head or have him finger you unless your ready for that. But your 13 years old and huging kissing arms around eachother and his hand on your ass is good plus making out on top of that so there you go! Keep in touch on this with me if you want....
-Katie-
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Q: i was in a serious relationship, some things happened and now we cant be 2gether, how do i let go? how do i get over some1 i luved so much?
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Well it took me alot of time to let go of my boyfriend and it will take you alot of time also. So just give yourself some time and you will be over him in a few weeks. Try not to think so much about him and you will be fine. Try not to talk to him so much or maybe not at all. Good luck
-Katie-
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Q:
i'm in eighth grade and my mom doesnt think girls my age should have boyfriends. im not really close with her either. and ive never had a bf either. i dont know what to tell her if i get asked out..? please help, thx !
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Well i'm in 9th grade and my mom is the same way but i kind of just don't tell her but you must sit your mom down and talk this out with her. Explain to your mom that your reasponsible enough to be in a realationship and just talk to her about how you feel about this problem with your mom not letting you have a boyfriend! Good luck...
-Katie-
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Q: Ok..Me and this guy lets just say his name is Bob.Well,me and Bob talked for a month and we eventually went out.I have really strong feelings for Bob.Well,we broke up 2 months later because he thought I cheated on him because one of his friends said I did.Well,we still were best friends after we broke up and we can talk about ANYTHING!Well,after me and Bob broke up I started talking to his brother(i know thats SO wrong)Well,me and his brother talked for about 3 months and we eventually went out but we only lasted for 2 weeks.After me and his brother broke up,Bob called me out of nowhere.I didnt realize it was his # and so he got on AIM and I asked him why he called me?He said because I missed talkin to u and I want to be in a relationship with u and I want it to last this time.I've been with a lot of girls but ur the only girl who has been there for me through everything and I want our relationship to last.I asked him if he really meant that and he said he did.We're not exactly goin out again yet but were about too.Anywayz...to my question.I've always had feelings for him as the b/f type and I can actually picture myself marrying him if thats crazy!But...ever since he said that to me,hes ALL I ever think about!!!He calls me his "boo"all the time and tells me he loves me.Could this be love?does it sound like love to u?I've known him over a year.I have been there for him through everything.I know everything about him.Please help me because I'am not sure if I'am in love or not!I RATE!Thanx!
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Okay first of all HI!
Second of all, to me it sounds like your in love! If he is what you think about day and night and think your going to marry him and you see that happening then your in love! Love is a really great feeling but if you trust him like you just told me then give it your all. But i am not saying love is ALL that and i bag of chips because it isn't love is like heavan but then again it hurts like hell. Trust me... i thought i was in love but it only caused me heart ache in the end! But like i said your in love! Good Luck and be careful! Keep in touch with me about this!
-Katie-
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Q: Ok. I like this guy (his name is Felipe) and I think he likes me back but I'm not sure because he comes over every single Sunday (to go to church at night) and we hang out (a lot), do stupid things together (climbing trees then jumping down), and basically have a lot of fun. He jumps on my back to give him piggy back rides (even though he's 18 [turning 19 in November] and I'm 13). But then when we go to church, he completely ignores me (not during church but after the mass ends and everyone talks). What's up with that? Does he like me or not?! Please answer quickly! !~*CoNfUsEd GiRl*~!
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It sounds to me that he likes you a little but not alot! Don't worry give him time and maybe he will come around to liking you more and talking to you after mass. Maybe get up and go talk to him (that lets him know your interested in him!) Good luck!
-Katie
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Q: oh my gosh! thanks so much for the advice! it was really *GOOD* but one more thing, how should i let him know that i wanna be felt up...like say we are making out & im ready to go to the next step...what should i do?
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He should do it in time... don't tell him because he might get mad or something! He will do it on his own
-Katie-
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Q: hey do you have any tips on making out? how long does it usually last? will the guy usually feel you up? please answer my questions! thanks a bunch
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Well making out... mine usually lasts about 5 to 10 minutes but it could be longer or shorter. It depends if you keep kissing. Well the guy might feel you up or just keep his hands in one spot on your body, maybe your back, your neck, or your leg! You usually kiss using your tongue, maybe a few french kisses here and there (the guy does all the work!) Maybe sometimes he might try to take your shirt off (let him if your ready for that) he might put his hands places like maybe run his fingers up and down your back. That is usually what happens, and usually after you two are done making out he is really nice and i really like it when the guy kisses me on the neck and this one time i was really tired after making out with my boyfriend and i fell a sleep on my stomach with my shirt off (bra still on) and he kissed up and down my back and my neck! So the guy is usually happy after words! That is it for making out.... I hope that helps you out!
-Katie-
....if you need anything else just ask and don't be afriad if it is a weird kinda question, i probably have down mostly everything there is to do with a boy!
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bio
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I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them like sex with my boyfriend if i think it is right and if i am ready for it right now. That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.
ABC's about ME!
Age: 15
Birthday: 01/16
Color: Red and Pink
Dream Guy: Heath Ledger
Eyes: baby blue
Fears: being alone in the dark and heights
Greatest love: Victor
Hair Color: Blonde
Intrests: sexy boys, cheerleading, and PARTIES
Joys in Life: see above
Kisses or Hugs?: X's and O's
Love Life: Taken and happy
Music: country, rap, r&b and other
Name: ::*::*:Katelyn:*::*::
Obsession: skaters, music, fire, shopping (not in that order)
Preference: Guys
Question: Why label me when you dont have a label yourself?
Role Model: Paris Hilton
School: MP
Talent: erm...I'll get back to you on that one...
Uniqueness: I love to stand out in the crowd...so i'll try anything once
Very Best Friends: Madeline, Kelsey, Cassie, Meagan, Michel, Brittany, Jasmine, Kayla, Jessica, Heidi, and Amanda
Worst Thing I've Done: ...well, there was this one time...
Xtra Sturf 'Bout Me: I'm 5'4 I love to party and when your with me you will have a REALLL great time!
Yum-Yumz in Mah Tum-Tum: I love CHOCOLATE, smoothies, and strawberries! I really LOVE Chocoalte covered strawberries
Zodiac Sign: Capircorn
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: PA Occupation: Mount Pleasant High School Student Age: 16 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: August 2, 2004 Answers: 224 Last Update: November 1, 2005 Visitors: 16159
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