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Ok..Me and this guy lets just say his name is Bob.Well,me and Bob talked for a month and we eventually went out.I have really strong feelings for Bob.Well,we broke up 2 months later because he thought I cheated on him because one of his friends said I did.Well,we still were best friends after we broke up and we can talk about ANYTHING!Well,after me and Bob broke up I started talking to his brother(i know thats SO wrong)Well,me and his brother talked for about 3 months and we eventually went out but we only lasted for 2 weeks.After me and his brother broke up,Bob called me out of nowhere.I didnt realize it was his # and so he got on AIM and I asked him why he called me?He said because I missed talkin to u and I want to be in a relationship with u and I want it to last this time.I've been with a lot of girls but ur the only girl who has been there for me through everything and I want our relationship to last.I asked him if he really meant that and he said he did.We're not exactly goin out again yet but were about too.Anywayz...to my question.I've always had feelings for him as the b/f type and I can actually picture myself marrying him if thats crazy!But...ever since he said that to me,hes ALL I ever think about!!!He calls me his "boo"all the time and tells me he loves me.Could this be love?does it sound like love to u?I've known him over a year.I have been there for him through everything.I know everything about him.Please help me because I'am not sure if I'am in love or not!I RATE!Thanx!
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Ummmk..this sounds difficult, so sorry, if i go rambling on(teehee)...anyway, back on topic. love is a very complicated thing. and it will be our whole life. you say that you can your imagine yourself having a real life with him, well i dont really know, but it sound like u DO have VERY strong feelings for Bob. Think of this what you will but, this is one of my "theories" MEN and WOMEN are attracted to eachother through sience. the urge for him and/or you to get back together could be sexual..even if you dont recognize it yet.but then again, i dont personaly know the situation. you could be madley in love. and this is not mean...this is advice...but another reason could be jealosy. bob you could be enviouse because you went out with his brother. so i know i was probably No HELP AT ALL, but this is one of those things that we have to learn from on our own, and obviously i havnt expirienced anything like this yet. so im REALLY SORRY that i couldnt really help, but i hope some of my ramblings kind of helped. REMEMBER: WE ARE STILL REALLY YOUNG!!! WE HAVE OUR WHOLE LIVES AHEAD OF US!!! i really hope i could help!!! good luck!!
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I believe that you have love for this guy or you wouldn't still be his friend and you wouldn't be thinking about where this could go in the future if you didn't have love or at the very least strong feelings for him. But, are you in love with him? I don't know, only time will tell that for sure. You need to spend some time with him and see if those feelings grow and if they do great and if they don't at least you will know for sure. I would date him for a while and if it turns out that your feelings are getting stronger then make it an exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and then see where it leads after that. This very well may be love but you will never know for sure until you give it some time to find out. Let me know how things progress and remember this, one way or the other being in love will come. Enjoy the ride on the way there and don't let things become physical until you are sure where this trip is going to take you. Best of luck!
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ok well a hem... first off... if u really dident cheat on him i would kill the friend who said u cheated on "bob" but thats just me...
ok the whole love thing? would you give your life for "bob" i mean like die? when u die u wouldent never come back no more life..nope nope...
I really like this guy to lets call him " Kirby " well see i really like "Kirby", i pretty much do anything for him, all i think about is "Kirby", i even once thought of havin a life with him.... but the more i though of it, the more it seemed impossible, you know why? because, where all so younge, we all have a HUGE life ahead of us, some of use dont find our soul mates till we are like, 30-40 years old... but... lol thats a different story, you are talking about love, it is possible to have more than 1 love... but you only have 1 true love, and i am sorry hunny, hes might not be it... cause there are MILLIONS of other guys out there, he might not even be it though.
Cause, things will change, he might even find anouther girl, you guys will probley date for a few months to a year or so, and he might say, its not working out, or we need 2 take a break, or it could be the other way around...
than one of you guys will get your heart broken... but hey! you know what! you will find a great and wonder guy! your 1 true love! when you are like older! but hey.. who knows... i'm a blonde... i'm a dumbass.... i could be wrong.. and he could be the one.. just follow the flow chicka ^_~
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Okay first of all HI!
Second of all, to me it sounds like your in love! If he is what you think about day and night and think your going to marry him and you see that happening then your in love! Love is a really great feeling but if you trust him like you just told me then give it your all. But i am not saying love is ALL that and i bag of chips because it isn't love is like heavan but then again it hurts like hell. Trust me... i thought i was in love but it only caused me heart ache in the end! But like i said your in love! Good Luck and be careful! Keep in touch with me about this!
-Katie-
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If your thinking about him all the time, if you wakeup, go to sleep, thinking about him...if you dream about him...those are signs of love. You could be in love...I say you should go out again! he said he still likes you and you still like him. And after a while of going out you'll be able to tell on your own if you love him! Hope I helped..any more ?'s, ask!
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