What do you do if you like somone but you dont want to? And you really think he likes you cause he alwas flirts with you, but your not sure.I'm 13 and a female
WinkWink2380 answered Saturday October 23 2004, 2:30 pm: well every1 has had ur same problem b4!! its happened 2 me b4 too!! if u like them and dont want 2 like some1 that u do like or go out wit a guy that u like and then u will 4get about the other guy!! but if u reallllly do like him let him no and maybe u could try goin out!! [ WinkWink2380's advice column | Ask WinkWink2380 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday October 23 2004, 12:39 pm: Ooh, I had that whole "like someone but don't want to" problem last year...I ended up dating the guy 'cause I couldn't get rid of the crush I had on him.
Take into account his every tiny little flaw and blow them waaaaaaaaay out of preportion. Make yourself so disgusted by the flaws that you can't stand him.
If he always flirts with you, chances are he does like you.
Of course, if he doesn't have too many flaws that you can see...you may have the same trouble I did. Lol.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
XxRockon answered Saturday October 23 2004, 12:03 pm: well if you don't wanna like him just keep telling urself that he is just a friend and that you don't want to think of him that way. although, he could turn out to b e a really great guy and maybe a bf, so maybe you cud give him a chance and see what happens and if u wanna persue it or not [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
MyPainIsReal answered Saturday October 23 2004, 11:48 am: Yeah, I am 13 also and I have been there done that. You can't really control who you like. If you like him then you must not hate him but so much, right? If you think he likes you, ask him. Maybe you could have something together. Best friends, friends, boyfriend, girlfriend. You never know. If you have these feelings for him then you got to do something about them. Find out if there is anything between you guys. If there isn't, well then just be friends. :) [ MyPainIsReal's advice column | Ask MyPainIsReal A Question ]
pinklemonadestand answered Saturday October 23 2004, 11:05 am: yeah this has happened to me once before and i was freaking out because of this situation! I liked this boy that i always hated and he was okay looking but i liked him and for 3 years i hated him and i said to myself how am i going to deal with this? He seemed intersted in me but i thought he didn't like me because he was always mean to me everyday but it turned out that i grew to like him but i really didn't want to like him at all! So you probably just grew to like him and maybe sit down and talk to him get to know him better and maybe he is a really nice guy!
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