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Friendship help
Me and my best friend Krystal want to ask you this. Theres this girl, Holly, she keeps butting into me and Krystal's friend ship. I mean coming between me and Krystal. I feel that she wants to take my place. Its really getting me mad because she is really annoying to! Anyways she already slept over krystal's house once [ i was there to ] but shes that type of person that you get sick of quickly and Krystal doesnt want her to sleep over tonight. How can we let Holly down gently??
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You cannot if she does not get a clue by now she never will. Just do not talk about your plans together and changed the subject if she does. Sounds to me like she is lonely. Nice of both of you not to want to hurt her.
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tell her that you guys are best friends and that you need a night alone. aybe find another one of your friends that does like holly, and ask them to take her off your hands, eventually she'll find someone else to hang with, and she'll be out of your hair. hope i helped. good luck.
sierra(arlo)
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Why let her down gently? She's doing this on purpose although she'd never admit to it. Just tell her to p**s off but make sure Krystal supports it and that she's there when you tell Holly where to go.
I went through the same thing but i didn't do anything. Now i'm completely out of the picture and although i sometimes wish i'd done something i have new friends now.
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all u do is tell her! i no its hard but theres no other way!! jus say holly me and krystal r best friends and no 1 will ever come between us!! it seems like thats wut ur trying 2 do and we dont like that!! maybe we could jus be ( o k a y ) friends not best friends!! just tell her that and c if it works...
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introduce her to other friends so shell leve u and crstal alone
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well same with me and my frined..there is this one gurl in class who calls my frined her rol model..yeah well just tell her that your frined is not aloud to have two people over at once and that you and your frined krystal alredy made plans so..and if she dont uinderstand..then tell her how you feel about her ..i mean it will only get worse ..soon enough she'll start to dress like you 2/..happened to me and cus ..so just tell her that your frined can only have 1 frined over and it was you..and if she doesnt uunderstand then just tell her how you an frined think about her and how annyoing she is..hope i hleped
-tasha leigh
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tell her to but out.. and shes gettin in the way of you and krystals friends!
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