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I really like this guy. I've never had a serious crush on anyone, but with this guy I do. We talk and flirt sometimes, but I think my friend is trying to hook up with him. She even knows I like him. I want to flirt with him on instant messenger, because we barely talk so there is awkward silences. I also want to flirt with him more in person. I don't know who he likes, but I really don't want him to like my friend. What should I do?

Okay, you need to straighten things out with your friend first. If she won't stop flirting with him, she's not a great friend. As for the guy, have more confidence! If you're confident, that's really attractive to guys. Hope I helped!

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There is a boy I think likes me, but I cant tell.Here are some things he has done or done for me:Starring(for a very long time now),saving me from from being embaressement,and muble somthing when I pass by.Do you think he likes me?what are some ways to tell?And how can I make him just tell me?

I am so confesed

P.S his friend smiles at me.Plese help me:)

Haha this guy likes you! It sounds like he pays a lot of attention to you, so that has to mean something, lol. And since his friend is smiling at you, then that's a sign!

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Okay- Ready?
I am going to make like a powerPoint for my boyfriend!
Like with all of our pictures, and little things offline that say stuff like "I Love You" and things like that. We have been together over a year. Do you guys think that that would be cool? like with all of the memories and stuff??

:)

What do you think?
or anything else i could do to it to make it even more AWESOME!!

*-KeLs-*
Thanks!

That's too cute! Not to mention it's a creative idea. I'm sure any guy would love it.

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I have a major problem. I'm best friends with this guy. The only problem is I have a crush on him. Do I tell him and risk losing our friendship or do I not tell him at all? Please Help!

If it seems like he likes you, go ahead and tell him. If you're not sure, then bring up a dream that you had, where you two were boyf & girlf. See what his response is, and then take it from there.

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Ok, so there's this kid at my school that is obsessed with me, and we talk on the phone and internet and hes asked me out several times already, everytime i said i wasn't sure, what my question is is that do you think it would be smart to get to know him better, or is it "bad" to have an obsessive boyfriend? I don't really "like" him yet, but hes one of the sweetest kids i've ever met. Okay.. sorry it was long thanks

ashley

Yes! It's bad to have an obsessive boyfriend. Obsessiveness can lead to possessiveness and possibly violence. He's too persistent and that can be a bad thing.

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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!

It sounds like he likes you, but is too shy to admit it. I know a lot of guys like that. Like, I talk to my neighbor a lot outside of school, but in school he completely ignores me.

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alright i am a 13 year old male and i am friends with this one girl. She already has a boyfriend but he goes to a different skool and she doesn't really get to talk to him. And i like the girl sooo much... What should i do ask her out??

Don't ask her out. Wait till they're over and then go for it.

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therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge?

Show him that you're happy without him. That'll be pure torture. Look for a guy that respects you and doesn't just see you as a sex object.

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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you?

Here's a few signs..

1) He doesn't call you as much as he used to.
2) He stops asking you to go places with him.
3) You haven't kissed or hugged in over a week.
4) His friends tell you that he's getting bored with you.
5) He starts being mean to you.

Those are just a few.. I could think of so many more.

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my boyfriend is supposed to hug me on valentines day and it would our first hug ever... but i don't know what to do... this may sound stupid but please helpp.... i love him soo much... also im afraid my arm pits will smell because lately my deoderent hasn't been working... any suggestions on good deoderents and no spray because i have a reaction to it... thanks... 13/f

Ban works really good, and so does Skin So Soft roll-on deodorant by Avon (it doesn't appear on clothes or anything)

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Okay, sorry i know everyone is asking questions about Valentines Day and all but me and this guy started going out just today not too long ago and i like him and stuff. But valentines Day is in 2 days and we don't go to the same school so i wouldn't see him ON valentines day-maybe just tomorrow. But should i get something for him anyways? and if i do when can i get it without him being there (if he does go tomorrow) and if i get it tomorrow how do i give it to him? and what should i get if i do?? thanks

Get him a cute stuffed animal or something small like that. Since the two of you aren't serious, don't buy something lavish & over the top.

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i wanna know whats da differents between puppy love or love?

Puppy love is a lot like an infatuation. But love is when you are in-love.

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umm theres this guy that likes me alot and he is def. not my type...... but my friends tell him i lik him bc they feel bad for him... But i dont like him... Im going icekating on my birthday and soo is he.... he is giving me this real diamond ring and asking me out... what should i do?

Welcome to my world! LOL. Anyway, I think you should tell him that you like him as JUST A FRIEND, nothing more. It may hurt him, but he'll get hurt even more in the long run if you don't do anything now.

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My boyfriend & best friend are very close. My best friend even hooked us up. The thing is, my best friend is always messing around with my boyfriend. They always play fight and laugh about it, but to me it's flirting. I get extremely jealous but try to play it off thinking they're just good friends. My best friend is the kind of person who if I told her about it would think I'm crazy but then flirt with him even more! I love them both, but I can't help feeling that they have some sort of feelings for eachother. He tells me he loves me and my best friend is just a friend, nothing more. Am I crazy for thinking this? Could there be something going on between them?

You should confront your friend & ask her why she's flirting w/ your guy. Say that it bugs you & that you wish that she'd stop. If that doesn't work, either try hooking her up w/ a guy or else maybe it's time to end this friendship. Hope that helps!

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hi..im 14 and i still havent even had my first kiss yet. Nor even a boyfriend...ive been asked out before and i just get to nervous to respond. Also, i dont know what to do when im with a guy. Like when i liked this one dude and i sat by him on a charter bus and he was holding my hand and i just was like freaking out and i didnt know what to do...i turned around...what do i do??

**tHaNkS**

It's ok that you've never been kissed or had a boyfriend. I've never been kissed either, and neither has my best friend. And we're 14, too! Anyways, I'd just have to say try & be comfortable around guys. True you can't act like u do around ur girlfriends, but just try to be outgoing. If a guy holds ur hand, just smile & keep holding it.

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When i was 7 my brother and i sucked each other's dicks and felt each other in the ass and we both liked it. we did this like every night and one time we were caught. we still do it anyway. now im 14 and so is he (were twins). is this normal?

Dude, that's messed up!!!!!

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HERE IT GOES!!
I answer Questions but its time for YOU to HELP me.
I know this guy "Keagen" and I totally like him! I THINK he likes me but I can't be sure! I don't know of I should tell him how i feel or not. we can't date til' were 16 but thats not the problem. I mean we have been alone togather before and stuff but its hard for me to really know. when i think of him i feel as if im floating and there is nothinkg better in the world than thinking of him! i have this feeling at pit of my stomic when ever ithink of him i can't get rid fo it! i think of him even if im trying not too! when he see's me he is allways watchinkg me and when he looks at me its different then when other guys look at me. his voice sound TOTALLY different when he talks to me. its like he is be EXTRA sweet to me! and he is guy that goofs off ALOT! i just don't know what to do! last year i sent him a valentine marked and "the cat" well the next time he saw me he said "hello cat" well i lied and said that i didn't send him a card but when told him that his face just fell! like he was dissapointed! so I REALLY need some advice! PLEASE help! should i tell him or not? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sincerely
KATHLEEN

Tell him how you feel! He might like ya back!

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my friend ........ likes me and i dont like him and i heard from my friends and alot of other people that he is going to ask me out but i dont like him. i dont know what to do i dont want to go out with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings because he really likes me and a laot of people say i should go out with ........ but i dont like him what should i do ????????

OMG that's like the same thing that happened to me tonite!

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Ok, everyone thinks that I have the perfect life. people are always telling me that i am a dumb blonde who never has any problems. They think that i have always been rich and always have been perky and all that stuff. That is not my life storym there is so much more than that. How do i get them to understand without telling them that i had a bad life?
Blondie

Welcome to my world. Everyone thinks that I'm totally perfect, like I'm just a ditzy blonde (even though I'm a brunette) with no problems at all. I think you should do what I did a few weeks ago, and that's to show that you're not perfect. If you mess up on something, talk about it. Be happy that you aren't perfect!

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Why do boys have ask girls out and why cant girls ask boys out. It make it so much more complicated for the boys. And the boys will never have a girlfriend if they are to shy to ask out the girl they like.

Girls can ask out guys. My friends have done it before.

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