Ok, everyone thinks that I have the perfect life. people are always telling me that i am a dumb blonde who never has any problems. They think that i have always been rich and always have been perky and all that stuff. That is not my life storym there is so much more than that. How do i get them to understand without telling them that i had a bad life?
Blondie
Here-To-Help answered Saturday February 7 2004, 12:58 am: I know what you mean...I'm not blonde but I know how people act when they're around blondes...they think that some are ditzes (no offense to people who are blonde...because I don't mean everyone is a ditz)
Well, you certainly don't have to tell someone about your life unless you choose to. If they say your life is perfect, just simply say "Nothing's perfect." and move on. Or say something like "I'm far from perfect." But say it like you mean it but with a SMILE on your face. Because then people won't think your conceited, and they also won't think you lack confidence if you say it with a smile...do you understand?
Also, if people think you are just a "dumb blonde"...prove them wrong. How? Help people out, be nice, don't hold grudges, don't always follow the crowd...it's good to be different to a certain extent.
Just have fun and help people because that really does make you feel a whole lot better.
EvilQueen answered Monday February 2 2004, 8:42 pm: Cut yourself and show them the scars.
Kiddin.
Does it really matter what people think? Ok, just show them you are not dumb. And since you are not, I'm sure you're gonna figure out some way to do that.
About the blond hair... I believe you can go to a beauty salon and they can do something.
Simple and plain. [ EvilQueen's advice column | Ask EvilQueen A Question ]
shay*shay answered Monday February 2 2004, 7:53 pm: That means that they look up to you as a role model. Try to bring something up about how bad your life is in a conversaition if you really want them to stop. [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
nachoxqween answered Monday February 2 2004, 6:02 pm: Welcome to my world. Everyone thinks that I'm totally perfect, like I'm just a ditzy blonde (even though I'm a brunette) with no problems at all. I think you should do what I did a few weeks ago, and that's to show that you're not perfect. If you mess up on something, talk about it. Be happy that you aren't perfect! [ nachoxqween's advice column | Ask nachoxqween A Question ]
Whatever answered Monday February 2 2004, 1:25 pm: If you're always gonna think of what others are thinking of you, you will never be happy and will be miserable for the rest of your life. Stay away from those people who makes you feel bad. You shouldn't waste your time worrying what others think of you but rather focus on your happiness instead. Do things that makes you happy rather than doing things that will make you look good to others. [ Whatever's advice column | Ask Whatever A Question ]
Cspinoza1 answered Monday February 2 2004, 9:42 am: First of all you shouldn't care what people think of you. And you can't make people believe anything esecially that without giving them a reason and at that they smill mnight not believe you.
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