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my friend ........ likes me and i dont like him and i heard from my friends and alot of other people that he is going to ask me out but i dont like him. i dont know what to do i dont want to go out with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings because he really likes me and a laot of people say i should go out with ........ but i dont like him what should i do ????????
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OMG that's like the same thing that happened to me tonite!
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IF you don't like him, don't go out with him but don't lead him on or give him any ideas. Tell him straight up that he's not what you're looking for and he's not someone that you see yourself with. Be honest, while trying not to be mean.
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Let him down easy.. You don;t want to ruin the friendship, you value him in your life, and you want him to stay there!
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be honest.
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Don't go out with him.
There are ways of turning someone down politely but you should fucking ignore what "all your friends and alot of people" say. They are not you and they aren't going to have to live with your decisions. Quit being such a manipulated little beastie and do what YOU want.
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Explain to him that you value the "friendship" too much to want to jeopardize it with "romance". Or simply tell him that you don't feel like you're ready for a relationship at the moment and it wouldn't be fair to either of you for you to enter into one knowing this. That should keep everyone happy and not hurt anyone's feelings too bad.
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You shouldn't do something that will make you feel uncomfortable just because your friends says so. Just simply tell your friends you don't like him and will not go out with him if he asks you out. If they are your real friends they would understand and will not force you to do anything that is against your will. This is what you call peer pressure and the way to handle this kind of situation is if you think you're right and they're wrong then follow what your heart and minds says and not what other people tells you to do.
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Well you do have the right to make your own decisions. Let him down easy and be sure to tell him that you and him can still be friends.
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Just be honest, I know you don't want to but it will get a hell of a lot worst if you wait to tell him because he will continute thinking you like him. Why not accept the date and explain to him that you don't want to be more than friends im sure he will understand.
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If you don't like him don't date him. Explain you don't have those feelings for him and suggest staying as friends.
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