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my friend ........ likes me and i dont like him and i heard from my friends and alot of other people that he is going to ask me out but i dont like him. i dont know what to do i dont want to go out with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings because he really likes me and a laot of people say i should go out with ........ but i dont like him what should i do ???????? (link)
Let him down easy.. You don;t want to ruin the friendship, you value him in your life, and you want him to stay there!


i am so confused. i have never met my father or any of his family. My mom has told me the story of how they met and has given me a picture, but that just isnt enough. i want to go to sacremento to find my family from his side. should i travel across the country alone? who should i tell? i dont know what to do. where do i belong? (link)
I'm sorry that you feel you don;t belong anywhere, but that's not true. Your mother loves you enough to raise you as a single parent, and believe me that's hard! It seems like your mom is willing to talk about your father, maybe when the time is right you should ask her what she thinks. Although we may not see it at the time, your mother has your best interests at heart. She may know things about your dad that you don;t, but that you should know. EVeryone has a right to discover their roots, I just advice against going it alone. This is a process you will need friends and family to help you through.


Okay so here it goes!*Greg* keeps teasing me like playing around.He tells me im a stalker and he says he doesnt know where he got it from he just says its funny.So he goes to my church,school,and hes in my carpool.Today he told the girl in my carpool*julia* that I asked him out.Shes like "*mary* how could you"! And then she told me and I like looked at him and he started cracking up!And when we wait for our parents to come pick us up he takes my backpack and puts it somwhere.He also looke through it when im walking with it on.

So acouple of weeks ago I was at *julias* house and *greg* was there. Cuz julias brother is friends with him. We mostley were in julias room for the time so he kept coming to the room and talking to us which julia said that he NEVER does. So we all played uno attack wile we were there and he never won so he told me that i jynked him.

Oh and hes one year older then me. So im not sure of anything really.

And whenever im wearing a sweater he decides to pull my hood and send me back and he LOVES to flick me! Its kinna anoyind, but I'd like to know Does he like me or what?
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PLeazhelp,
I'm not sure of your age but I would guess you are still quite young.. Let me tell you this right now. You will never understand men of any age. It's a fact of life, sorry to be the one to tell you. However, older women like myself have had some experience in this field and can somewhat help. This boy absolutely likes you, 100%. Now you have two options. If you like him, you can wait patiently until he makes the first move. Or.. if you don;t like him and find him rather annoying you can say things like "Wow you must really be in love with me" Trust me that will scare him right off. Good luck, and remember, school first!




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