There is this guy that I see around and whenever I see him he always staring at me. When I catch him he looks away very fast but if he thinks I'm not looking he will stare longer. There have been some instance where we have made eye contact for a long period of time. He doesn't say much to just small talk. But there are some days when he ignores me like I'm not even there and that confuses me. I want to know if he likes me and why he keeps staring at me but wont say anything. Should I make the first move?
He could like you, but it could also just be that he thinks you're pretty. Ask him about it, don't beat around the bush, just go up to him and ask him why he stares at you all the time, but ask nicely. Yeah he might be a little embarressed, but that's what he gets for staring. If I were staring at some girl I would expect her to come up and see what the deal was, and if you do go up and ask him straight up, that could be you actually making the first move. Him staring might be his way of showing you he is interested and wants you to make the first move and it's his way of getting your attention. So my advice is, ask him why he is staring at you, and go from there.
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Ughh, whats the best way to get over someone. I can't take it anymore..
Yeah, dont even attemt what nonameboy70 said, it doesn't work. What I do is I start looking at other people and eventually i just forget that i liked the other person. Its different for everyone so this may or may not work for you, but it works for me.
Hope I helped
-musicissoul301 13(m)
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Ok, I love my boyfriend to death. He is so amazing except for one thing; he's TOO honest. I know, I know it sounds stupid but I don't know...sometimes we play this little question game like if we're bored or something and we just ask each other questions. I know I probably shouldn't ask questions if I'm so afraid of the answers but I don't know...I guess I just expect him to answer all of my questions nice and sweet for some reason. Ok, for example: The other day I asked him if he thought he would get tired of me if he hung out with me for too long and he said "yeah, probably...I have to have time for hobbies and stuff" and it's like I know that logically, what he's saying makes sense, but would it have really hurt for him to just say "No, of course not!" or something? :( It just seems that he doesn't really think about how sometimes his honesty can hurt me...I mean part of me feels ridiculous for even being upset about this because all anyone ever wants in a relationship is honesty right? But on the other hand, this isn't the first time he's done this...and then after he says it and I explain that it hurts me, he's just like "Yeah, I can see how that would have hurt you"...I don't think he understands how much it hurts me? I don't know...what do you guys think I should do? Or should I just drop it?
He's honest with you and that is a characteristic you won't find very often, so be happy about that and don't let him go. Since he is hurting you, I think you should talk to him about it and tell him that you like that he is honest, but that you would appreciate it if he would lie every once in a while just to make you happy. Whatever you do, I would suggest it, not order him to do it just suggest it and suggest it with a good attitude. Also I wouldn't suggest, suggesting it alot, only call attention to it if you feel the need to. And when he says that he would probably get tired of you it's not that he is trying to hurt you or not pay any attention to your feeling it's just that he is probably at a higher maturity level and expects that you would have the logical thinking and that it wouldn't hurt you, but rather make you happy because he's telling the truth and he probably thinks that if he lies about a question like that then you will be mad at him and that you would only expect lies from him and that would make your guys's relationship complicated. So, in a way it's not that he's not thinking of you' but that he's thinking completely of you and your guys's relationship! So, don't drop it, talk to him, but relise that he is probably honest for you and your guys's relationship.
Hope I helped
-musicissoul301 13(m)
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There are these two guys both of them recently broke up with their girlfriends. One of the let's let's call him b I have liked for a while and I thought he seemed interested. Now though I think I am wrong he told me right now he dosnt want a gf but he didn't tell me he dosnt like me. Yet he still fliers so much with me. Goes to where I am before class and talks to me when Im not around his ex he walks with me. I really have feels for b. My heart says to go to him but my brain says no that he will only hurt me. Then there is guy c. He seems interested in me. Since he broke up with his gf he sits with me at lunch. He texts me sometimes and gangs out with my before school and whenever I see him. My brain tells me to go for him he is a really sweet guy but my heart isn't their. It's thinking about guy b. I'm so confused and what sucks even more is that all my friends hate guy b because his ex is one of my close friends and they are upset about the break up. Idk they are wired like that. On the other hand they see guy c as a cool friend. Ugh I need help what would you do?
For guy c, just don't even bother. If he just had a break up and he is already chasing another girl, obviosly showing he didn't care about her, how do you think he will feel about you? Plus you even said that your heart isn't for him! If your heart isn't there then it's not true. When it comes to love and relationships, I say to follow your heart, not your head. Your heart obviosly wants b, but b is just not ready for another girlfriend, that I think shows he was one for the relationship, unlike c who didn't care. I say that you wait for b to recover and then ask him. Also help b recover to get closer to him and build a stronger relationship. Since b is your best friend's ex then you should prabably talk to your best friend about it. And don't think about what others think just think about how you feel, would you rather feel bad and go out with c to look cool, or do you want to be happy with b and tell others that they should just go and fix their problems and not worry about yours.
Hope I helped!
-musicissoul301 13(m)
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im 13/f
hes 13/m
i like this guy so much i think i might be in LOVE with him. but IF we ever get together, how do i talk to him?
Whenever i see couples in the halls, there always kissing and hugging. And i hate PDA (public display of affection) I just dont want ppl to see us kissing and making out. So what do i do? What do i tell him. PS: we arent together.......yet.
Please help. Thank you in advance.
Just tell him the truth. Tell him that you like him and that you would like to go out with him. Also let him know that you want to take it slow wich means no PDA for a little bit. Trust me if you really like him you won't care about PDA anymore(thats why I said a little bit)!
Hope I helped!
-musicissoul301 13(m)
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DETAILS****i told her i liked her about a week ago,and things arent really awkward wich is awesome.But i dont know where to take it from here,i need someone that has experience to help me.thank you
,Declan
I don't have much experience, but I feel I have a good answer. Now that she knows that you like her, than you should get to know how she feels about you. Tell her that you would like to know how she feels about you and if she does then ask her out! If she doesn't then it's good that you took a risk and let her know that you hope that it doesn't make your guys's friendship awkward.
Hope I helped!
-musicissoul301 13(m)
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i know its sounds disgusting but i really need help.I think its kind of nasty and i dont want to do it anymore lol so please help me! and im only 14 and im a female
When you get the urge to masterbate, catch yourself and pick up a book to read or watch tv or talk to your friends. Just go do something to get your mind off of the urge and you should be fine. Hope I helped!
-musicissoul301
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The last two guys I've liked (One I liked for seven months, but I'm over him. The other one I've only liked for about two weeks and I'm not totally over him) have liked me "as a friend."
Yes, I know it's good to have guy friends (So don't go on and on about how good it is, please. I know!), but I don't want to be JUST THE FRIEND forever! It hurts seeing my friends get guys so easily when I can't even get a guy I like to like me. What should I do?
its not entirly true that ALL guys like girls who put alot into their apperence(like the prson before me said), some guys just like girls who put a little intrest into their apperence not her just goin "i need to brush my hair a strand is not even!!!! ahhhhh!!!!!" Give him some signs that you like him. Also dont hurt him to show your affection because a girl liked me once and she hurt me and after a little while i exploded in her face and never talked to her again! Instead of hurting him to the max (you can hurt him a little) show more affection a flirt with him more so he gets the idea. have him carry your books to your locker or class(if you and him go to the same school or even school.) Make him want you, make him jelous like he cant have you. Another thing, when you drop off signs be looking for him giving you signs back like him maybe holding his shirt in his fist or him allowing you to touch his hair and shirt (without invading his space.)
Im 13(m) and dont judge me on my advice if its bad, i was just giving some sugjustions. If you need anything else send a message to my inbox!
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I've liked this guy for a really long time(2 years) and known him 4 that long too.But he never gives me the time of day.He always makes fun of me and is always rude to me and not my other friends.But I feel like I love him.And on the other hand, I like this other kid but he lives far away from me and he treats me better than the other kid.What should I do?I really like both of these guys.
What I would do is, if a girl I like treated me better, but she was far away and then the other girl that I like that lives closer, but she treated me like he treats you, then I would go for the one farther away because there is a better CHANCE(I'm saying its likely but could not be true) that she will like me back.
Hope I helped by the way I'm 13(m)if it matters.
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