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Hi i'm 14/f
There is this boy that i absolutely love he is just so nice and great in every single way he really likes me too he even said he loves me in person.
I'm a really like 'good' girl and i'm asian so you know how family is like really important and you can't get a boyfriend you can only get married once your 25 or whatever.
I really want to go out with him and i know this realationship will last but i hate going behind my parents back but i really love him what do i do?
Thank you so so much (link)
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it really good that you're in love, but do you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this guy, if yes then tell your mum am sure she will understand, and you don't know, you might need her in time to be there for you if thing don't go right. good luck.
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My ex boyfriend is coming back to my neighborhood this summer and all i can think about is whats gonna happen.But also i like someone in my school and my friends say he like me back but whenever it's me and him or getting ready to be just me and him i always get scared and run or stop talking cause i don't wanna get hurt again.so how can i get my ex out of my head and the guts to handle my crush? (link)
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Getting over your ex is hard, but you have to try harder, think about what he did to you, why you two broke up in the first place, and i will tell you that he don't deserve you. Handling your crush is not that hard, all that you have to do is relax and say to yourself he likes me and i like him that all that matters, if you're scared that he will hurt you, don't make plans with him for the future, live everyday as it comes and have fun. Good luck
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I can't seem to stop comparing myself to my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends and old "crushes." I know he loves me, but I just can't seem to stop thinking, "She's thinner than me," or "Wow, she's so much prettier than I am," and "She's so funny, do I make him laugh as much as she does?" The irritating thing is a lot of them are still his friends, and he sees them when he's away at college. He's completely against cheating, but I still worry that something will spark between him and one of his exes and he'll leave me.
Incase it matters, I'm 19 and female. (link)
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It is ok to think the way you do, but also keep in mind that he love YOU, he choose YOU over them, and there is nothing to worry about. And just because this girl/girls is thinner than you does't make her more prettier, and just because she is funny does't make her more fun to be with, so trust your man if he love you, the other girl are nothing more than a friend to him. hope i help.
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[so its the same story as the last one]
I like this guy named ryan,but i think he only likes me as a friend(i think).is there any techniques i can do to flirt with him so he will LIKE me LIKE me? (link)
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1. you have to be yourself, boys don't like someone who is a fake or wear too much makeup, guy seen to like a girl that looks nice and makes an effort.
2. if you want to flirt with this, make eye contact, smiling, laughter, conversation, make eye contact with him when you talk, give him a little smile once in while, laugh at his jokes (make sure they are funny), If things seem to be going well - a little light physical contact can't hurt. Touch him on the arm while talking for instance. But don't get too touchy - especially at first. It can freak him out.
3. Guys don't like to have all of the pressure resting on their shoulders. Many suggested that girls should make the first move. Sometimes they are a bit clueless. Help 'em out a bit. maybe he likes you for more than a friend, but just to scared to say it first. so i suggest you ask him out to something that the guy would want to do. For example: If he's been talking about wanting to see the latest action movie - ask him if he'd like to go. But they hate scenes if they say no. If this should happen to you, play it cool. Sure it hurts - but as one guy said "Sometimes things come up and you just can't go. If I say no, but she's really cool about it, I may ask her out next time". best of luck.
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First of all, I have been in a very calm, steady & fulfilling relationship. The person I am involved with completes me. I am emotionally dependent. I centered my whole 4 yrs. never cheated, always thoughtful and caring. However, just two days ago, we had a heart to heart talk. We both feel it is time to move on. No 3rd party involved on both our part but I guess we both feel it is time to move on. The hard part is that I want to cling, remain & continue but I know in doing so I will completely lose myself. Right now, I am suffering. Have anxiety attacks & feel like my stomach turns upside down. Part of me died too.
Please don't ask me details why do we have to part ways... All I am saying is that it is time to do it. My question is --- what should i do to feel once more... What should I do to stop the nervous attacks? What should I do to stop being emotionally dependent. I am tearing apart. Anyone??? Please... (link)
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moving on from someone you love is not easy, it takes time and lot of it, first you have to feel the pain, because that the only way you can get over it, you will feel that life is not worth living, but you are wrong, you alway have to remmeber that everything happen for a reason. cry if you feel like it, don't hold it back just let it all out, you don't have to move on so quickly, take the time off and think about yourself, and all the other people around you, and once in while tell yourself it okay, you did the right thing and that there is someone out there waiting to meet me, to love and share my pain, and someone i can love in return. like they say "time heals all things".
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He says I love you to some other girls but he told me he means it friendly and like he loves a lot of people in general.
I told him about how it kinda annoys me because I'm not used to things like that.
He told me if it bothers me then he'll stop but i don't want to be controling.
I've had trouble in one relationship but controlling him from other girls because I'm kinda jealous easily but not extremely jealous.
its only when he says I love you or when these girls flirt with him because obviously I can tell and i hate it.
Is telling him to stop kinda controlling because its what it feels like to me but I'm not sure.
He can talk to them but i don't like when he says I love you to them or when they flirt because I know he'll do nothing about it
Thanks :] (link)
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telling your boyfriend your feeling doesn't make you controlling, you don't have to tell him to stop saying i love u to other girls, just say i don't like it when you tell other girls that you love them, it make me feel jealous, if he care about your feelings he will stop, without you telling him to stop, and about the other girls flirting with him, that u got to work on it, bcoz if your man is handsome, other girls will always be there to steal him away.i hope i help.
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of course this is about a boy. hes totally adorable and right now i like him so so much. but heres the thing. when im hanging out with him or talking to him online or on the fone, i totally dont like him. but wen we hold hands or watevr, or wen im just thinking about him, i totally like him!! hello whats the deal? why cant i like him all the time? (link)
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it seems to me that you like the boy because you think that how your boyfriend should look like, because anytime you see him you like him more. but if you like him like you say u do,talk to him about it or when you two are talking on the phone, talk about something that you are interested in. hope i help.
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I need advice on getting a guy.Well, i know things take time and that i need to wait for the "One" and all, but i need an escort to a friends ball. and a date is requed. Is there anything i can do to make a guy a i like like me? i need to know wht kinda stuff guys like.
Oh and i am 14 and a female. (link)
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one, you can't make someone likes you if they don't, but if you need an escort to a ball then ask a friend that is a boy of coz,to come along with you, by that you will have a good time and also be yourself. hope i help.
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I think I am scared to have a boyfriend. This has happened like two times already, I will really like a guy, he will like me to, we will talk and hang out then when he asks me out, I say no. I don't know why I am scared, but I think one reason is my family. Like I don't want to tell them cause I will be embarassed or something. What should I do? I really need to get over this or I will never have a boyfriend and i will keep hurting the guys I care about! (link)
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going out for the first time can be scary, so you want to advoid it by say no to guys. so the next time when someone ask you out, don't think of it like a date, just think of it like you two are just hanging out like you do with your friends. and i know how families can be when you tell them you are going out, they are like oh.. ah, but that what family do they laugh and make jokes, but in a day or two they will forget all about it. hope i help
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I am a male, I'm 17. I really like this girl in my grade - I've liked her for over 2 years now, but I've never had the courage to tell her. Just recently, I finally got the courage to ask her to a movie - but I realized that she had plans for the evening so that didn't work out. I phoned her the next day, asking for another movie, but this time I got the answer that she had "plans" I just don't know what to do. How can I find out if shes trying to ditch me, or if shes actually busy. I don't know what to do. Please, if some one can help. I just - I think of her at every moment, I see her eyes all the time, I don't find anyone attractive anymore, I've started to write poetry - What can I possibly do? (link)
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i think that it is really sweet of you to like her that much. maybe she is busy or maybe not, so you are going to ask her out again, only this time you ask her what day or night she got free so the two of you can go out. if she didn't respond to you or say "i am a very busy person" than you will know she is ditching you. you will learn to get over her in time, but she regret letting you go because guys like don't come everyday.
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I could get into detail, but I wont.
Im in love with this boy
and he used to be nice to me.
He has lost total respect for me , becuase I let him take advantage of me [dumb idea, i know]
He's rude to me and mean and etc.
I still like him no matter how mean he is!
No, im probably not going to be able to get over him anytime soon.
Does anyone know how I should try and get his respect back and be friends again? (link)
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if you want him back then you have to work for it, don't be too needed he will think that you don't have a life, act like you don't care about him so he will see what he is missing out on. but my advice to you is if he lost his respect for you after taking advantage of you, he will sure to do it the second time around, and you should not let that happen to you twice with the same boy. i don't think he is good enough for you.
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i can get sort of nervous around guys. so i tend to stay away or just not really talk to them unless sometimes i just let my gaurd down and everything is fine but i still laugh nervously. the other day i was with this guy i like and i think it was okay but i still dont know. what do you think i should do about my nervousness???? (link)
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it is nomal to be nervous around boy especially the ones you like, but as soon as you start talking to him you will find that you have something in common with him,than you will forget all about your nervousness and start being yourself with him.this things takes time but as time go on i am sure your nervouness will go away.
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To start im 13 and im a girl.
Ok well I was really good friends with this guy. We will call him C. So he was like my best friend, then I started to like him a little. so after i startedto like him I was determinded I was not going to go out with him cause it would ruin our friendship. But he was always playing with my hair and flirting with me then one day he wrote me a really sweet note about how he had always like me because Im nice and Im easy to talk to and stuff like that. The next day when we were on thanks giving break he asked me out over text message so I said yes.
Then later it was so weird going out with my bestfriend that i dumped him after only a week by writing him a note. It made him mad that I didnt say it to his face even though he asked me out by text msg. Well I moved on and forgot about him, but it has been a month since we broke up and he is still writing things about me on his myspace about how he only went out with me to make someone jealous and how im annoying. He wont talk to me anymore either.
what does this mean? what should i do? (link)
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he is still upset with you for breaking up with him, so he dealing with it on his myspace. write to him telling him that you are sorry for what happen and that he is so much of a good friend that why you wanted it to stay that way. if he doesn't respond to your letter than you move on or even forget about him.
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Okay , this is the thing.
I have this boyfrind we've been dating for almost a year- we're pretty close. His bestfriend hits on me ! Not just a little flirt but a lot. He always has his hands on me... and gets me in trouble durning class. HE also tickeles me , sometimes and makes me laugh a LOT ! AND WAIT FOR IT.. WAIT FOR IT.. He's dating MY BESTFRIEND ! ITs all a big mess, you see i would never leave my boyfriend for his friend.. its just i dont know how to approah this situation. My boyfriend deffinetly suspects something. How can i settle this without runing my relationship and my bestfriends?? Thanks in advance. xoxo (link)
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you should try talking to this boy and find out if he is hitting on you, or maybe that way he is with people, either way tell him how you feel and that you don't think your boyfriend or your friend will like the way he act towards you, and that he should stop because you like your boyfriend and your friend and you don't want to loose them.
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Yeah, help me please!!!! My boyfriend used to smoke, drink, and chew. He told me he has quit all of them just 4 me, but I don't know if I should believe him. He's a really good boyfriend and a good person, but I mean, I don't know if he quit or not. I love him so freekin much, but If he does that stuff I don't want to be with him. Wa should I do?
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it takes time to quit smoking or drinking, but if he said he has quit all those things for you, i think you should believe him. give him some time i know if he love you too he will sure to come around.
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