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Getting that first date.
I am a male, I'm 17. I really like this girl in my grade - I've liked her for over 2 years now, but I've never had the courage to tell her. Just recently, I finally got the courage to ask her to a movie - but I realized that she had plans for the evening so that didn't work out. I phoned her the next day, asking for another movie, but this time I got the answer that she had "plans" I just don't know what to do. How can I find out if shes trying to ditch me, or if shes actually busy. I don't know what to do. Please, if some one can help. I just - I think of her at every moment, I see her eyes all the time, I don't find anyone attractive anymore, I've started to write poetry - What can I possibly do?
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i think that it is really sweet of you to like her that much. maybe she is busy or maybe not, so you are going to ask her out again, only this time you ask her what day or night she got free so the two of you can go out. if she didn't respond to you or say "i am a very busy person" than you will know she is ditching you. you will learn to get over her in time, but she regret letting you go because guys like don't come everyday.
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Aww... that's so sweet of you.
To find out, stop chasing after her. If this girl really did have plans, she'd call you back at some time when she's not busy and tell you that she can go to that movie. If the girl doesn't call you back or mention it at school, she wasn't busy.
If this girl doesn't call back, I'm sorry. She doesn't deserve you if she does this anyway. You sound like a very friendly, affectionate guy that deserves better. Trust me, the girl's probably the one missing out on something good.
If she does call back to say she's free, take a shower. Dress normally. No tuxedos.
When you're at the movies, put an arm around her. Buy popcorn and tickets for her. The girl will appreciate it, and she'll be more attracted to you. If you're going to watch a horror movie, hold her hands at the scary parts. If a romance, look into her eyes at the make out scenes or something.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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keep trying. if you get 4 "i have plans" it might be time to give up. also, if you get a "ok, but call me back right before to confirm" thats also a really bad sign. you can also try flat out asking her if she is just trying to be nice. good luck.
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