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I need advice on getting a guy
I need advice on getting a guy.Well, i know things take time and that i need to wait for the "One" and all, but i need an escort to a friends ball. and a date is requed. Is there anything i can do to make a guy a i like like me? i need to know wht kinda stuff guys like.
Oh and i am 14 and a female.
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First, you have to see if he already likes you, or might kind-of like you(if he does, then he would go out of his way to do you a favor or to see you, or laugh at all your jokes, or something(not necessarily, but they tend to do that.)) If he does, then you should kind of play hard to get, but not too much. Then, send signals back.
If not, then you should tease him, but also play hard to get. For example, if he IMs you, maybe you shouldn't respond, or don't pick up the first time he calls. But you should keep talking to him(if that makes any sense). Talk to him 50% of the time, play hard to get 50%. This will get him thinking about you. Once he starts to act very friendly, then you can stop playing hard to get and send signals that say, I LIKE YOU.
hope i helped babe.
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Well, guys tend to like when girls smile a lot and show interest in them. You need to put yourself out there and let it be known that you are a likeable person. I know everybody says, "Oh, just have confidence," and "Oh, just be yourself," and yes you do need to do those things but there is always going to be more to it than that. Make sure you let your good qualities be known and really put yourself out there if you want to be noticed. And worst comes to worst, you make a new guy friend and ask him :] just be casual about it... don't make it a huge deal or anything. Well, hope I was able to help :] xxo Hannah
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okay i know ye prob want a guy but maybe you should ask a close guy friend or a friend of a friends or sumfing lyk that
nd ye never no maybe something might happen between you nd him
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Whoever told you that you need to wait for the "one" didn't do you any favors! Snow White lied to us; your Prince won't come if you just hang around and wait for him.
Want to know the best way to attract a worthwhile guy? Here it is: JUST BE YOURSELF.
I know, that's terribly cliched and useless advice, but hear me out. The part of that advice that some people don't realize is that you get to define what "yourself" is. Think about the kind of guy you want to attract; what sort of qualities would you like him to see in you? If you want to attract a guy who likes intelligent girls, then get an encyclopedia and start learning. If you want a guy who likes athletic girls, start jogging or join the basketball team. Make "yourself" into someone who you feel is worthy of attention.
That's only half the picture, though. You also have to get out there, and not just sit back and wait for them to come to you. Get to know guys as friends, get into activities that are co-ed, and don't be shy about letting the ones you like know that you are available.
Now, since you're in a hurry, you may need to take a shortcut for this one event. Matchmaking is a time-honored tradition; in other words, you might consider having a friend set you up. Also, if you know a guy who is currently "just a friend", consider asking him. Maybe sparks will fly and maybe they won't, but even if you remain simply friends, you'll probably have a good time.
There's one more thing I should mention: Fourteen is what many would consider too young to start dating. Check with your parents to see how they feel about it first; it will help you avoid potential embarrassment if they say "no" after you've already gotten a date.
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one, you can't make someone likes you if they don't, but if you need an escort to a ball then ask a friend that is a boy of coz,to come along with you, by that you will have a good time and also be yourself. hope i help.
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