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lost respect
I could get into detail, but I wont.
Im in love with this boy
and he used to be nice to me.
He has lost total respect for me , becuase I let him take advantage of me [dumb idea, i know]
He's rude to me and mean and etc.
I still like him no matter how mean he is!
No, im probably not going to be able to get over him anytime soon.
Does anyone know how I should try and get his respect back and be friends again?
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Dear lost respect,
I know exactly where you're coming from, i liked someone alot and I let him pretty much take complete advantage, and after that we just stopped talking, he became prick and i wonder why, i figured out that he's just nice to you until he gets what he wants and moves on to the next girl. Unfortunatly he seemed to have hooked your feelings along the way. Don't worry you will get over him, it may just take alot of healing and time. But if you want to gain his respect back, talk to him and tell him what is on your mind and what happened. So pretty much tell him what you asked me. If it turns out good i geuss he just had a bumpy spot, if it turns out bad he was just using you.
-Beanie
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Any boy who is rude, mean and takes advantage of you is unworthy of your attention.
And I highly doubt you're in love with him, asssuming that you're between the ages of 13 and 17. Most young love is just infatuation. I don't know anything about you...you could be an exception, but you can't base life on exceptions. Would you still "love" him if he put 300 pounds? Would you give up everything you've worked for just for him? Would you die for him?
But either way, I can tell that this post is not going to be of any use to you if I keep going on like this. You're a teenager, and crushes are uncontrollable, even if the boy is mean to you. The saying "love is blind" is very true. I'm sure that telling you just to forget about him because he's a jerk is pretty much futile, because it's not going to happen. I've been in your situation before, and I know what it feels like to be trying to win back a boy who treats you bad.
Don't meet eyes with him, like the person below me said. Just avoid him altogether for a good bit of time. If he starts acting like an SOB, flip him off like he's just a speck of dirt on your sweater. Do whatever it takes to prove to him that you don't give a sh*t what he says, you've moved on and that you've got a great life without him in it. If he really likes you as a friend, he'll start to miss you and want you back.
Hope all goes well.
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When you talk to him dont look him in the eyes.
Ignore haft of what he says
basicly give him the respect that he gives you.
Then like 90 percent sure he will ask you whats wrong and more than likley be nicer.
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if you want him back then you have to work for it, don't be too needed he will think that you don't have a life, act like you don't care about him so he will see what he is missing out on. but my advice to you is if he lost his respect for you after taking advantage of you, he will sure to do it the second time around, and you should not let that happen to you twice with the same boy. i don't think he is good enough for you.
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wow, this is exactually what i was like. Hi my name is trisha and my bf was very rude to me and he didnt respect me at all a very controllin bf. i dated him for 7 months. i took a break for like 4 days and i figured out that i could do better with out him. i was with my friends again and i could talk to people with out first thinking "will he get mad at me if i do this.." but i think what you need first is a break so you can see that you will be fine just hang out with friends on your freetime and then if you want try and go back out with him see if he will change but if not i say dump him because girls should be treated like princesess. hope it helps
~trisha~
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