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Yeah, help me please!!!! My boyfriend used to smoke, drink, and chew. He told me he has quit all of them just 4 me, but I don't know if I should believe him. He's a really good boyfriend and a good person, but I mean, I don't know if he quit or not. I love him so freekin much, but If he does that stuff I don't want to be with him. Wa should I do?
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it takes time to quit smoking or drinking, but if he said he has quit all those things for you, i think you should believe him. give him some time i know if he love you too he will sure to come around.
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Dear friend,
k well hi
i think that u should confront him with this question ask him if he quite and if he askes why you are askin even though he toldyou he quite just tell him that you care for him alot and make it really lovey dumby and dramatic don't quite or brake down till you get your answer !!!!!
sincerielly ur friend
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You can usually tell if he's smoking, drinking, or chewing by smelling his breath. Simple, really. Mints can't really cover it up, because alcohol and tobacco and stuff are stronger, so he won't be able to hide it. If you go to his bedroom, you can tell by the smell of the atmosphere there as well.
If you find that he does smoke, drink, or chew, talk to him about it. Plead him not to deny it, and explain how you care about his health. Tell him you really like him. Understand how hard it is for him to stop any of the three. Something really hard may be going on with his life, so ask about it. Tell him to trust you about his troubles. If he likes you enough to lie to you about not doing drugs and stuff to keep you, he really likes you. He wants to keep you, so he'll try hard. If he doesn't even try to, break up with him. Your boyfriend doesn't care for you enough to stop doing drugs, then tell him how upset you are of how you can't stop risking your life on these harmful substances.
-Jenny ♥
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I dont know peronaly I think its hard to stop. But find out how much free time he has and what he does in that free time, I started joging. But for real moniter that kind of shit
hope it helped
nathan
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