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Romance a Mess
well like a month ago, me & my ex were arguing reallly bad , he was cursing & i was cursing back at him & he told me i was fucking stupid & that he was done with me & he dont need all my bullshit & he's happy in his relationship & he wants me to take my ass & leave & get out of his life so im like watevver i dnt need him ... & after awhile i miisssed himmm like craziii but i aint trynna begg him to be my friend soo a month went by & on my birthday which was yesterday he IMed me & said happy birthday rena! & we had a lil convo. but im confusedd! why he hurt me & yell at me then is all nice!! is he pretending to like me. his gf which is my close friend told me that he told her that he was gunna tell me happy birthday. i dont kno what i should doo. cz im gettin mixed feelings from him & dat makes me get mixed feelings for him..
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first off forget him if he was stupid enough to ruin he relationship by telling you all those things then he doesn't deserve you you sound sweet and you need something way better than him
second of all maybe he relized what he did and was trying to sound nice to try and get back into your world as a "frien" and not and "enemy" try thinking about it in that sorta posative way!!
sincerily
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Most likely when you guys were fighting, you were both so taken over by anger that you guys believed that you hated each other and just said anything that your rage made you say. But after you guys were apart, and cooled down, you guys realized that maybe you two should at least be friends again. Start with just a smile at him as you pass in the hallways. If he responds with a grin, move on to waving to him and saying, "Hey, what's up?" If he responds negatively, like he rolls his eyes or looks away from you or something, just avoid him for a while. Maybe he needs more time away from you to know he's missing out on something good. ;)
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C ♥
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well, this is a tough situtation...in my opinion, if he said all those hurtful things to you, you should stand your ground and stay strong and not let his niceness ("mixed signals") be confused for anything than what they are..because if he said that stuff to you, then that is not respecting you..and you need someone who respects you completely...and even though he may be acting nice right now, and you both are becoming friendlier, he does have a gf and he did treat you poorly...dont forget about that just because things are looking up now...approach this with caution..that is my advice to you...and just know that you know best about what is right for you and the kind of person that you need...i'm always here for you if you need me <33
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Ask him. Ask him if he is putting on a birthday mask and trying to get you back and cheer you up. or if he still thinks your effing stupid. or if he is for real. If you dont like him then screw him... i mean forget about him, but really if he just wants you ass forget him
hope it helped
nathan (happy birthday)
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