Q: Ive been with my bf for 7 months. Ive met his parents and talked to them a bit. Im a shy person at first. His moms 50th bday is coming and i want to get her something and surprise her and not tell my bf. Any ideas would be great? Please help.

Q: There this boy that i like and he knows i like him. Ive been liking him for awhile now. You see there this other gurl that also like him and so they been hanging out for awhile. But he stills talk to him and stuff and be messing around. And from what i heard is that he really dont like her but i be seeing him with her.
So what does this all add up to, is he doing this to make me jealous or what.

Q: recently my boyfriend has been lying alot he has cheated on my once by kissing another girl but he was drunk.

he lied to me and went into a girls house with two other girls. and he is making a movie for school with 3 girls but he only told me one.

i figured this out and he says he will never lie to me again. we have been together for two years. were both 16.

do you think i should break up with him or stay with him. i love him and i feel like i cant live without him yet i cant trust him and i know that you cant have a relationship without trust. but i am trying. i broke up with him when he cheated on me but i was misrable.

should i give him one more chance? what would you do.

Q: ah okay. my girlfriend and i have been dating for 9 months, it'll be 10 months by valentines day. but shes in college so we have a long distance relationship.
we wont be together on valentines day but i still want to do something sweet for her, whether i mail it or whatever.

any ideas?!

Q: Well, ive known this guy for years but ive never really been great friends with him, a "hello" in the corridors at school is as much of a friendship we have. The other day he added me on msn instant messenger and he was talking to me and flirting, he asked me if i wanted to go for a walk with him, i said i was busy (which was true) and i was sorry. I dont know if he was asking me out or just being friendly. I dont know if i like him like that either. ( we are both 16)

What should i do if he asks me out?

Please help!!

Q: There are two really cute guys that like me and i like them but I cant decide!!! There both friends and on the same team my friends say go for the cuter one and my other friends say who you like more, but i dont know who!!! And worst of all i'm a cheerleader so i see them after school and cheer for them both how can i know who to pick.

Q: When a guy goes to second base and is feeling your boobs, is he getting something out of it or doing it for you?

Q: okay me and this guy were going to hook up in the summer?but he said to wait till school started.eventually it started and we didnt talk as much as we used to..should i tell him how i feel or just wait for him?

Q: ok well I've had a crush on this kid and then it turned into me liking him. but from the first time we talked he told me he had a girlfriend and I was ok with that because just being friends with him would be ok for now. but then I one day he told I'd he liked me and then I just thought that he would break up with her for me. he said that he liked me but he likes her alot too. I mean I know were just sophomores in highschool but I don't know. I'm really confused because he's like the nicest guy ever and he doesn't play with girls but I just feel like giving up on this. she's a freshman but he talks to me all the time and tells me I'm cute and that he really wants to hang with me and when I asked him if this was all a joke he said I do like u, let me put it this way if I wasn't dating my gf right now I would be dating you. and I think that means he wants to date me in the near future. but I just don t want to get my hopes up and then he never breaks up with her. I need big time advice on what to do!!!!!!!!! HELP PLEASE!!!!!!

Q: About two weeks ago I asked a girl out who I was very close with. She said she didn't know yet and that she would like to hang out more first. We have been hanging out ever since almost every day even though we both work and have other responsibilities, we have made time in the day. For the past few days all of our friends have been telling me to ask her out again. I'm not sure what to do. Is the a certain period of time to wait before asking again? Since the first time I asked in kind of an extravagant way should i do something better this time? Is there anything she will do to let me know she's ready now?

Q: ok. im the one who has the ex bf issues. -lol- but n e ways.....i have a new bf. I like him ALOT, but 2 days after we started goin out, he had to go on spring break early to wisconsin. Im okay with it, but it goes to our situation.lol

Ok. Thursday night, 2 nights after we started goin out,I was bored and asked him, if you could say one thing to me right now, what would it be?" And he said, I can't tell you right now, but you tell me what you would say. I said I would say 3 things. 1) I miss him. Cause it's a longer story. ( we've been friends for a year, and just now started goin out.) Ok. So then he tells me what he'd say. and he said that if he could tell me one thing right now, what would it be? And he said , " I love you". Now realize, I said that we had been friends for a year in the making, so my mouth dropped. ( But in a good way.) Cause I kinda knew he was ganna say that. So then I told him my other 2 things. 2) I was xstatic to be his gf. And 3) I think I love you. He said sweet, then we had to get off the phone. Now I've talked to him since, and he seems like any happy bf would. But he aks like it never happend. And I mean, as the obnoxisious friend Allen, he would be a jerk, and purposlly forget. But as a bf, he's a COMPLETELLY diff. person. and I don't know what he thinks. But was hoping you guys could help me out.-lol- i just think it's cute cause, i've liked this guy for the longest time, and he asked me out. And he likes all the things I do. It's like he's perfect. But in the majority of ways, the " i love you feels right, and i could love him, " but in another way, I don't wanna say it to soon. And I think he's the same way. But if so, then WHY DID HE SAY IT FIRST? -lol-

Q: should i turn down one of my bestfriends that is going to ask me out?

Q: my gam(grandma) died in 12/10/07.
On my 17th birthday I'm allowed to get a tattoo. And I want it for her. Now I want it on my rips(going up the sides) I really can't find anything like that. I did find some things, but it's not what I'm really looking for. My birthday is in June. I MIGHT Get it early bc I'm going to Florida around my birthday wih my friend. And I want my tattoo to be PERFECT and have it ready whenever I go to get it. Can anyone on here maybe draw a picture if I explain what I want to you? Or even do it on the computer? Please and Thank You Soooo Much!!


What Im looking for.
-Maybe Stars, or flowers going up the side and having RIP Gammy in it somewhere. I really don't know what I want. Anything really pretty. Please and thank you

Q: i just have been going out with this guy for like a day now. and we act more like really good friends but we like each other more than that. any advice on um showing him we should act more like friends?

Q: Ahh. Please help. There is this guy who tells my friends im cute and wants to get to know me better and we've hung out a few times. the most we have done is hugged and he's put his arm around me. and i feel like he really likes me when he does stuff like that.

We talk online every night until like really late about a lot of things. He isn't one of those guys who is corny at all. And he doesn't put it out there directly that he likes me. But says he wants to hang out a lot and stuff...

I don't know... maybe its just because he is a guy and guys tend to not like tell their friends as much stuff or let their emotions show, at least in the beginning. But like... I'd like to know he wants something to happen. He just won't say anything.

And I don't wanna mention anything to him because I don't wanna seem crazy you know? We've only been hanging out for like two weeks.

Okay I know that was long but pleaseee tell me what you think! THANKS!! =]

Q: OK well i have just caught the eye of this really cute guy who works at the supermarket near my house. I mean he is so cute I can't stope smiling when I see him. *blush*
But idk how to talk to him. I have a really low self esteem. I'm 5'0" and 169 pounds....... a bit much for a girl my hieght..... so i am always worried that a guy is only looking at my face and not me..... also i am just to shy to talk to him. so any ideas on how i can break the ice?

Q: 16/f and I'm really like one of my best guy friends. The only problem is that he's in love with another girl. I can't just let my feelings go. I'm happy for him that he found somebody that he loves but I get all confused around him. What do I do?

Q: im 14/f ok
and my current bf is 14/m. ok so we have been going out for about 2 weeks now and so far i have seen him every day! i usually go out with guys from other schools so i don't have to see them every day bc that makes it mean more when you do see him. and its almost valentines day and he wants this shirt but to tell you the truth i could care less about what he wants! im not really in to him. hes not my type at all.. i don't think im over my ex Patrick ether! witch sucks even more. bc he was the first kiss first love and what not! it hurts not to be with Patrick. every time i am with andy i end up thinking about Patrick and it pretty much makes me cry! i can't be with andy any more bc im not over Patrick at all.. but if we break up then theres no friendship bc he isn't friends with any of his ex's witch sucks bc i want to be his friends but he hates them!ah:[ it makes me cry even though i don't even like him like that!
so how do i break up with him or should i give him a week or two?

Q: 16/f. 15/m. my first boyfriend's getting to be REALLY kinky...and it's okay, to some extent. but i've just had enough.
i have a kind of ..a fear of male genitalia..its not a fear..more like a disgust [because of events that have happened previously..to me ..when i was young] and..my bf (lets call him A)
well, A showed me his penis. and i wasn't exactly turned on or anything. we're much too young. and whenever i reject looking at it, or touching it or anything, he gets PISSED at me. and he goes...so you have peniphobia now? WTF?
he ALWAYS finds something wrong with the way i act-how i'm disgusted by certain crude..sexual acts - IN PUBLIC.. WHO touches themselves in public? Please tell me..? Am I insane or -what..?
He takes pictures of his penis and gets upset when I refuse to see it. He doesn't respect my irrational fear...no matter how stupid it is.
Worst of all, he forces some acts on me...he grabs me by the crotch and forcefully grabs my boobs. I liked the making out stage...But it's just getting too retarded now. He's way too horny. And I tell him I love him..because I do. But I can't be with him anymore. I feel like he only uses me for my body. That's all he wants.
Can somebody PLEASE tell me ..whether or not this relationship could be worth saving? Or..?
There's also no intellectual attraction - We have nothing to talk about. It's all physical. And I don't feel like I can tell him anything.
I have no experience with boyfriends prior to this one. So I don't know what to do. Any help would be GREATLYYY appreciated.

Q: So there is this guy. He is really nice and funny and he is in a lot of my classes. He is in plays, musicals and he is really good at writing poetry. I always thought he was gay. He acts like a little girl too so I thought he must be gay. I am not trying to be mean I am just wondering. Because he got his ear pierced in the left ear and that is the one that means you are straight. What do you think about this? I don't want to ask him because that would be rude. He also made a joke about a gay person being gay. I was like what? My friends are not to sure of it either and one of them likes him and she didn't know if he was gay or not. Do you think he is?

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