Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


hes whipped!


Question Posted Tuesday February 12 2008, 1:12 pm

im 14/f ok
and my current bf is 14/m. ok so we have been going out for about 2 weeks now and so far i have seen him every day! i usually go out with guys from other schools so i don't have to see them every day bc that makes it mean more when you do see him. and its almost valentines day and he wants this shirt but to tell you the truth i could care less about what he wants! im not really in to him. hes not my type at all.. i don't think im over my ex Patrick ether! witch sucks even more. bc he was the first kiss first love and what not! it hurts not to be with Patrick. every time i am with andy i end up thinking about Patrick and it pretty much makes me cry! i can't be with andy any more bc im not over Patrick at all.. but if we break up then theres no friendship bc he isn't friends with any of his ex's witch sucks bc i want to be his friends but he hates them!ah:[ it makes me cry even though i don't even like him like that!
so how do i break up with him or should i give him a week or two?


[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?


DramaQueen63 answered Thursday February 14 2008, 5:59 pm:
If I were you, I would break up with him. Because if you wait 2 or 3 weeks, he will take it harder. But I have a question for oyu
Is PaTrick going out with anyone?

[ DramaQueen63's advice column | Ask DramaQueen63 A Question
]




lizzielovesyou answered Wednesday February 13 2008, 9:10 pm:
a week or too.no one wants to be broken up with right before valentines day.
lots of love,lizzie

[ lizzielovesyou's advice column | Ask lizzielovesyou A Question
]



Razhie answered Tuesday February 12 2008, 5:30 pm:
No, just break up with him now.

Giving it a week or two will only make it worse and more painful for him, and it's pretty damn difficult to 'fake' you way through vday.

Save yourself, and him, the agnst and money, and end it now.

Just be kind and use your still being hung up on your first guy as the main reason. Then just hope for the best. If he is the immature type of person who automatically 'hates' all of his exes, there is nothing you can do about that. Not now, and not in a week or two either.

[ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question
]



imissy0ux3 answered Tuesday February 12 2008, 5:29 pm:
Break up with him now, it will get worse if you dont. Also, my ex bf was my first love/kiss and what not, and he never stayed friends with his exs, and i had to wait a long time to get over him and i avoided him, then about 4 months later we were friends. Now we are really close, and i love having him as a friend, hes like the one i go to for love advice! So i hope i helped
good luck! xoxo

[ imissy0ux3's advice column | Ask imissy0ux3 A Question
]



Brandi_S answered Tuesday February 12 2008, 5:29 pm:
You should just break up now. Otherwise, you are stringing him along, and that isn't fair at all. Not to him, nor to you either.
There is no easy way to do it. Just tell him that you don't think its working out, and you think you'd make better friends.

ygs-29/f

[ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question
]



junebug93 answered Tuesday February 12 2008, 5:18 pm:
If you are this sure that this guy isn't right for you, it's better to break up now than lead him on further. Yes, it is approaching valentine's day, but it's better anyway to just get it over with than keep hanging on to something that you really don't want to have.

Explain to him a little of what you wrote here, but be nicer about it. Something like "I'm really sorry, but I don't think I'm over my ex yet. I don't think it would be fair to you if I keep dating you." Then try to avoid him for a bit so you can both move on.

[ junebug93's advice column | Ask junebug93 A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: breast enlargement
Next Question >>> Ant Farms....Long Live the Queen!

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker