Q: i am with a guy that i am completely in love with and he is in love with me.we are going to have sex for the first time and i want to know what to exspect. does it and will it feel good the first time? will i be okay if i use the condom properly?
if it hurts what will make it hurt less.

Q: sometimes when we're making out he'll pick me up off the couch and put me on his lap and i was just kinda wondering is he getting hard? do all guys get boners? how will i know if hes getting one? thanks

Q: Is it wrong to do sexual things with someone you are dating, but aren't going out with? Is that slutty? We've been dating for about a month and a half now. He is the only guy I'm seeing and I'm the only girl he's seeing.

And also if you're dating, are you considered to be in a relationship, or are you defined as single?

Thank you =)

Q: i'm 14, and i have this boyfriend, that is extremely rich. and christmas is coming up. and he is going to be getting me all these expensive things my friend told me, and i'm not at all rich. my single mom makes an average pay. so, whatever i get him i'm scared he's going to be like "oh, thanks." like as in a way like 'oh-i-could-buy-this-anytime-i-want' kind of way. so what should i get him, that would be nice. even if they are separate things. i just really don't know what to do. so if you any suggestions, ill be fully considered to them. thanks.

Q: this is kinda long, i suppose =P
okay, well last may i met this boy..he was like everything i could ever ask for. in june we got serious.. i really did love him. it was like a perfect relationship. at the end of july we broke up because his mom was kind of a lunatic and like tried to put him on house arrest. then middle of august we got back together and that was pretty good. then we broke up because it was the school year and we go to different schools and it was hard. then in february he got a girlfriend. they were completely in love. they lasted for like 7-8 months and then he broke up with her because she was a control freak. now, he is trying to get me back. and i mean i did love him and part of me still does.. but he did things before that made me not trust him. like he would always "talk" to other girls and it bugged me. i dont care if he is friends with girls, but he would tell them he likes them and siht. it buggged me. well now he wants me and he like poured his heart out to me. told me he was thinking about what we had and he knows he messed up but really wants to try it again, im thinking about it. and then i didnt know if i could deal with it again. then i decided to message him ex girlfriend and piss her off.. HAHA but she used to message me and like tell me all this stuff aboout their relationship and it bugged me, ha. but i go are you two together she goes no y i go because his friends told me he liked me and stuff, i lied to her by saying his friends bc i didnt knnow if they were talking or whatever..she goes yeah were talking i go like talking talking she goes yes so i texted him and flipped out and he otld me that they arent together and are only friends but she has the impression there like together basiscally. then today he said im the only person he wants to be with, he told her that there is no chance between them. and i dont know what to do. it seems like he really does care for me, but im confused because im afraid of getting hurt again. any advice? (:

Q: 17/f

so 2 weekends ago i was at a party with my best friend "bob" and his close friend "joe." i had liked joe for a really long time but we were never really friends.. we had a few drinks and then hooked up that night but after a while he said that we had to stop because bob, our mutual friend was "in love with me." i didnt believe him at the time but then bob walked in on us and got really upset and mad.

i still hang out with bob, and bob and joe are still friends, but joe hasnt talked to me since. if i see him in the hallway he says "hi" but i think he either feels guilty for hooking up with me, or just regrets it because he was drunk and really doesnt like me.

i really want to talk to him and either be friends or more, but what should i say? it has been almost 2 weeks. he is pretty shy.

Q: my boyfriend pointed out that one of my nipple is bigger then the other one...is that okay?

thanks for letting me know!

Q: 16-f
dating a 17-m

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and i want to get him something amazing for our one year since he's bought me nice things i dont have much money and i dont want it to be something of his interests i want it to remind him of us together not just something he likes.
some things we've went through in the past year to maybe help/or bore you are:
-lost the car at the mall and walked all the way around the mall to find it & felt retarted because it was right where we started
-took 3 months to kiss we waited an hour in his car after everytime we hung out to work up the courage to kiss and i finally got the guts after awhile
-Our song is Collide by Howie day (i sent it on his facebook saying i liked it and we listened to it for awhile and it reminded us of eachother so ya)
-we havent taken many pictures only 2 and they arent very good looking at all! im gonna try and get good ones and maybe get a picture frame to go along with the gift.
-he likes to hold me down and lick my face and make it so i cant wipe it on him lol its fun
-and the other day i chased him around with a worm cuz he hates them & he kept picking me up and putting me in puddles

theres alot more but ya im sure you are bored.


-he's very cuddling and emotional
-i love him and have loved him since the day i met him seems cheezy but i couldnt see myself with anyone else
-give me your best ideas im begging i want it too be amazing for him he's spent so much on me to get me a white gold ring for v-day and a necklace a cute frog for my b-day/christmas.


PLEASE HELP
sorry for the size of this message just wanted to get it all out
thanks in advance

Q:
somepeople tell me that my friend is trying to make me jealous and/or test me if i still like her. she tells me that guys hit on her or crushes on her and ask her out. but she doesnt go out with them. i cougar her to go out with the guy who ask her out but she tells them that she is busy every week but she always see me on the weekends or the week days sometimes.(yes she might not like those guys) but when i ask that question before of "why she doesnt except to go out with the guys and rather spend the time with me". they relpy that she is making me jealous or testing me. why is she doing that when she doesnt like me in that way? i told her i like her more than a friend but she doesnt. its kind of like she want to ask me "do you still like me?"

i am a girl bisexual. i dont show my feeling much up front but i show it when i am not around that certain person.

Q: 18/F

I dated my current boyfriend for almost a year before, but he broke things off, and we were apart for a little over six monthes. We had a lot of problems the first time, but when we got back together this past August my boyfriend seemed to have cleaned up his act. He was much more apreciative, respectful, responsible, and attentive. He said that breaking up with me was the worst mistake of his life. Things were great for around six or seven monthes, but especially in the last month or so he's been slipping into his old habbits: not calling me all day, calling me back two hours after he said he would, showing up late, taking forever to do anything, calling me names(mostly jokingly, but it still bothers me), hitting back when I smack his arm or something(also pretty much jokingly, but still), etc. He also lost his job not too long ago, so he's always broke and when he does come into some money he blows it on stuff he doesn't need rather than pay some bills or buy parts for his truck that's falling apart. He's not working very hard at getting another job either. He's been so good to me up until recently and I care about him so much, I just don't know if I can put up with his bs for much longer. I really feel like I need to brake things off, but it feels wrong, like I'm going to leave him just when he needs me most. I don't want to loose him forever or cause him to do something stupid(he's not the most stable person), but I can't take anymore of the stuff he's pulling. There's also another factor, my bestfriend. He's this amazing guy who's been right in front of my eyes for the past year, but I'm just now relizing how good we are together and what a great boyfriend he would make. I've been having a lot of feelings for him lately, that I probably shouldn't be having, but I can't help it. He's such a sweet guy, he's never taken advantage of me in any way, he's there for me when I need him most, he's a great listner, he makes me smile, and he always keeps things interesting. Best of all we're always in sync, and we can never stay mad at eachother for more than a milisecond. Lately when I'm with my bestfriend is the only time that I feel comfortable, and can relax. With him there's no pressure what so ever. The only problem is that I'm scared that if I do break up with my boyfriend and things do go past friendship with my bestfriend I might mess everything up and lose the best friend I ever had, plus my boyfriend used to be very paranoid about something happing between my bestfriend and me, so he'd probably freak out big time. Not to mention my bestfriend would feel incredibly guilty if he thought he was even one of the reasons why I broke things off with my boyfriend. Help!

Q: hello, a few weeks ago i was dumped by my girlfriend and i hardily ever get to see her, i brought her a valentines present and its a neckless.
i now hav found somone else i like but she has a boy friend and its her birthday friday and i was wonderin if i should give her my ex's preasant or wait until i see my ex and give it to her. if i choose to wait to give it too my ex i wont see her for months anyway. but it might be pointless giving it to this new girl i like because she has a boy friend

hope you can help thanks x

Q: My wife is at least 50 pounds overweight. She has tried numerous diets. Although some of them work, she invariably gains the weight right back. Whenever I mention that she is overweight, we get in a big fight. I would like her to lose weight for her health (she's 42 years old) and also to make her more attractive. Advice please.

Q: My husband and I have been together for 9 yrs. Like every relationship we've had our ups and downs mostly downs but I love him[I must love him if it hurts this much to be without him] you see he just asked me for a break I felt my world crashing down the day of our seperation I still feel horrible and don't know how to deal with it.
I'm a female and 24 my husband is 34

Q: I'll try not to confuse you all.
Well My ex boyfriend *bob and i went out for 5 months anyways while we were going out his cousin asked him how's your girlfriend and he said good and so on the he said what nationality is she he told him and he said nah you can't be with her or marry her she's not one of us and we are basically the same we only just speak a different language anyways bob ignored his cousin,bob told one of his friends what his cousin and his friend said your cousin is right then a lot of his friend started saying it and he got really confused so he broke up with me because he was just really confused,then he realised he really liked me and we got back for one week and he broke up with me ebcause he lost feelings he said he thinks hw lost feelings because of the first break up and now no one tell me to move or whatever i don't know i just want to know how do you make your ex boyfriend like you again i really really love him =[ and i honestly need him back please any advice would perfect.:(:(:(:(

Q: Okay, well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months(as of today!), and well i guess you could say i love him.. But i've still kinda liked one of my best guy friends, i've like him for almost 2 years now, and i can't seem to get over him, and he told me that he liked me, which probably wasn't the best idea, but he said he wanted to tell me cause it was bugging him from me not knowing. And well sometimes i think i like him more then my boyfriend, but then other times i can't really see him more then my bestfriend. And last week i thought i REALLY liked him, and me and my boyfriend almost broke up(nothing to do with my friend), and i was kinda hoping we would have.(i know, bad thing to say) but now, i'm glad we didn't. And my friend is in Flordia right now, and i havn't talked to him in like a week, and i don't like him as much right now, but when he gets back, and we start talking alot again, i have a feeling that i will start liking him. Like he's ALWAYS there for me, not matter what, and he's such a great friend, and he's like everything that i'd look for in a guy. But i don't really want to end things with my boyfriend because it would kill us both. I don't really know what to do, if there is anything, and i've tried "following my heart" but that just confused me even more. Sorry for this being so long, any advice would help. Thanks. :)

Q: 18/f and 20/f

My boyfriend usually knows when I am on my period and knows to stay away from anything sexual during those few days. I'm supposed to be on it right now but I'm running a bit late. When I tried to well...start things with him today he questioned my period. I simply explained that I was a little late but it's no big deal because it's not unusual for me. Well, that didnt help at all and now his is over his head in fear.

I know I'm not--but he won't be satisfied until I get my period. He wants to tell his mother about it and I cant seem to talk to him out of it. I asked him to give it a few days before saying anything but he won't listen.

I dont want his mother to think we're being irresponsible when nothing is certain. If in fact we are pregnant, I will certainly go to both sets of parents with him--but not until then. How can I get him to understand?

Q: 13/F

ok.... so i yesterday i could see it in my friends eyes that she was keeping something from me. So I calmly talked to her about and she told me that her boyfriend (my x'friend) made fun of her two best friends. He said that I was fat and he said that Melonhead was a lesbian and had bad hair. He was already a jerk but I just couldn't take this anymore. I was going to talk to him about it but I cant because Katie promised him she wouldn't tell that he made fun of us. So now, pease dont judge me but i told her that she had to choose... would she rather have a friend or a boyfriend. That sounds rude but I am just offended that my best friend would go out with a creep that makes fun of me. I am sorry that this is so long but please help me.
thank you

Q: hiiya! there is this girl that i met in august...we have been friends at school all year and i have started to like her(i kinda want to date her) and im sure she likes me back (friends asked)...the only problem is that i am very outgoing and she is kinda shy soo i feel like i would have to initiate everything...u know like kissing, holding hands...watever and im also afraid that she might be too shy to break up with me if she is unhappy...do you think after we start dating she will get used to it and start initiating things or will i always have to do it? she isnt EFFING shy, but you know...enough to have me worried

ooo also i like to smoke sometimes and she dosent (she said she would if she had access tho, but i think she was just trying to be cool or something) do you think it will be a problem?

...any opinions would help :>...

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