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So I like this guy and I think that he likes me back but I'm 16 and he is 18 about to turn 19. I have never dated an older guy before so I don't know if that is weird or not. We know each other pretty well. I was a freshman and he was a senior last year. He is really cute and nice and I really like him but I don't know if the age difference is weird or not. Is it? (link)
Hi, well think of it like this. You're 16, would you date a guy who is 13? 14? Once you realize that, consider that your maturity level is much different than his . He has 3 more years of life experience than you do. Also, he is an adult, you are a minor. With that being said, he has to be careful about what he says and does to you. Do what you feel is right. Hopefully he is a nice, respectful, gentleman. ,good luck and god bless


He never treats me like his girlfriend, he pretty much treats me like his sister. But its like he's a whole different person when he texts me. What should I do? (link)
Are you his girlfriend? Have u made that official together? If so, maybe he's just nervous around you. Guys say a lot of things while texting but fewer things in person sometimes. Just confront him and simply ask why he acts different when around you. His answer may surprise you. It's better to know than to wonder. I'm pretty sure it's just his nerves though:)


i need to know how to get someone interested there is two guys i like and want them to like me back but how ?
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Be yourself! :) that's all that matters. Talk to them, show that you're interested by commenting on their outfit or compliment them. Smile at them, laugh at their jokes. Ask them out . Good luck!:)


i was texting my boyfriend last night, and he texted me so i texting him back, and after i texted him back...he didnt text me back for an hour...i waited and waited but i fell asleep. he texted my bestfriend shortly after(shes our wingwomen) and told her that i was ignoring him, when really i was just asleep, i woke up with 6 new text messages and 2 missed calls, i told him this morning that i wasnt ignoring him and that i fell asleep...he hasnt texted me back and i'm worried...do you think i'm over reacting? (link)
Nooo you're not:) seems to me that he is! Lol . He is being a bit dramatic don't you think? You're boyfriend should be patient with you no matter what. Every woman is worth the wait, even I'd it is a little thing like a text message. He should have simply expressed to you that he was kinda user you didn't reply the next day, but he was Immature by going to your friend about it and ignoring you. So now he is ignoring you trying to teach you a lesson to never fall asleep on him again. Sounds dumb right? It is. He shouldn't be acting that way. All I can say Is wait it out. Hopefully he talks to you again. If not, you'll find a man that treats you with respect and is patient with you no matter what. Good luck !


14/f
Does anyone know a Pimp in New York thats looking for hoes. I want be a prostitute, but I cant find a pimp. Please dont judge me. Thanx (link)
Is this a sick joke? Go babysit, mow lawns, clean cars to earn money. Don't sell your body. Why would you want random men taking advantage of you? . Eww


Hi, Im Blake, im 12 years old and i just moved from London to America. When I first got to school my teacher Mr.Rein always smile at me and wink at me.Like a when we read our books, there he is staring at me winking and I wink back. He always cares about me a lot. One time I was really sad and started crying but then Mr.Rein took me out to the hallway, then he made me sit on his lap and gave me a kiss on the forehead. I gave him a big hug then he said everything is all right and ill be here for you.I really like him and he really likes me. Every day when we leave he givs me a hug. I want to know if this is ok because i have feelings for him. Please reply
-Blake
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It is not okay for your teacher to do that to you. Go tell your parent or guardian about this or your teacher is going to jail.


plz tell me that my boyfriend become my life partner or not (link)
Ask yourself that. Ask him that. We do not know:)


My boyfriend is always telling me i'm having sex with someone else because I feel looser than normal and I have been with no one else. So is it even possible for a man to be able to tell by the feel of the vagina? Now i'm curious (link)
Uhm if your boyfriend is telling you that he is a jerk!


I think my boyfriend has been cheating on me. He has been acting very strange around me lately and he is very weird about me being around his phone he hurries and snatches it up as if im going to find something. (link)
Don't jump to conclusions. Ask him if he is cheating on you. If you don't like his answer leave him. If you are having doubts, you should reconsider your relationship. Faithful guys don't hide their phones from their girlfriends.


Okay, so my name is Allison and I am 13/f. Well there is this new guy named James 15/m that just moved to my town. Well me and James have been dating for abot 3 weeks now. And i think he is wanting to have sex. When its just the 2 of us he always makes remarks about how sexy and stuff he thinks I am. But he seems to kinda force me to do things with him like let him finger me, blow jobs, etc. I want to know if I should go through with sex and stuff. Oh, by the way he does drugs and steals and does other things I am not proud of. So, thanks:) (link)
No. Please leave him.


a guy friend asked me " what are you up to tonight"? after he saw me with my friends like he saw me and he said hello and i replied back and I kept on talking to my friends and then he asked me " what are you up to tonight"? and I said just with friends and he said oh okay. So what did that mean? what is the underlying meaning of that particular question? Why do guys usually ask this? And this was at his work, just so you know. And def not a conversation starter.... so what did he mean and how should one answer this particular question? Did he wanted to do something or why did he really ask> what was the point? Why did he care what I did or do with my friends? (link)
I answered this question several times for you hun.


Giving someone head
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I agree with the person below. If you don't know then it shouldn't be done. Also, your risking getting sexual transmitted diseases


Hi,
I am in a relationship with a guy form last 2 weeks. We never talk to have a sex in this period. In this weekend he calls me in and hotel for a diner. After diner I come to know that he booked a room in that hotel for us. I refuse to go with him. After that he can't make any call from last 3 days. Is my decision break our relationship? Sex is essential for any early relationship? (link)
No. What you did was perfectly fine. You should never feel pressured to have sex. If a man cares for you he will wait. Don't talk to him ever again he is a disgusting dog.


Did you ever have sex
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That's a personal question. I'm not going to answer that.


Yes but you still did not answer my main question... what did it mean by him asking me what are you up to tongiht? or what are you up to? mainly what are you up to tonight? what did he mean by that? was he bring customer friendly or was he actually wanting to do something together?? (link)
Well you caught his attention. I'm sure he doesn't go around asking a stranger what they are up to tonight. he asked a specific question. He probably was interested in what you were doing because he wanted to be part of ur plans . He was being both customer friendly and wanting to do something with you. Next time make him part of your plans:)


PLEASE HELP URGENTLY PLEASE What does it mean when a guy asks what are you up to tonight or what are you up to?
Hey, I went to a restaurant five days ago with a friend of mine. I know a guy that works at the restaurant. When I went to that restaurant I had no idea he was going to be working there at that day. I hardly speak to him and whenever I do, I always ask him to help me out or ask him for his advice. That day he saw me and asked hey, Julia how are you? and I said hey Johnathan and smiled. And I continued talking to my friend. He then asked so what are you up to tonight or what are you up to? I can't remember exactly which one it was but it was one of the what are you up to tonight and what are you up to? I have hardly seen him around and this was after a long time I had seen him but before that I had asked him to help me out with something and he tried helping me out he did not mind. So I just said to him oh just with a friend and yeah. And he was like oh okay. So I would like to know what did that mean? Did he want to do something or ask me to do something with him or was he just asking a question as we were just standing in a line and he wasn't serving he was just behind the counter and then walking around serving other customers and cleaning up dishes from the tables. So what does it mean? Was he just being customer friendly or he wanted to do something or what? How would I know if he likes me and stuff? Does he like me or what? Please help me thanks in advance for anyone who answers my question... :)

Also how can I tell he likes me? And also tell me if he was being customer friendly or what please please please I really do like him but I am scared to ask him about anything and I don't want to ask him if he was just being customer friendly ...... How can I tell him I am wanting to be with him and how can I tell if he is really into me? He hasn't asked me if I wanted to do anything with him or anything like that just that question that I had asked you all to answer me please and thanks :) (link)
Well let start off with this. Seems like you've been going to him for advice only. If you like him, start getting rid of that friend vibe:) flirt with him, compliment him, tell him the things you like about him. He might just as well like you back. He probably is feeling the same way about you:) he just doesn't know for sure if you like him because your only going to him for advice. So change the way you talk to him. Ask him on a date. Ask him what he likes to do and pick a date that you both would enjoy, but PLEASE do not go to the movie theatres. That's the worst first date. You can not talk or get to know him that way. Go somewhere fun. You just gotta let him know you like him. I guarantee that will allow him to show his feelings for you too. :)


I cnt live anymre widout my luv he 2 luvs me bt coz of sme problems v cnt marry eachother bt no I cnt stay widout him. I jst luv him mre dan my life,so I hve decided 2 commit a peaceful sucide so plzzz gv me a solution. (link)
Call- (888) 784-2433. They will give you a peaceful solution




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