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Cheating Boyfriend
I think my boyfriend has been cheating on me. He has been acting very strange around me lately and he is very weird about me being around his phone he hurries and snatches it up as if im going to find something.
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Well... you could ask him what the problem is.
Something is up. Whether he's cheating on you, I can't say. I've only been cheated on once, but I was a cheater for a while too, and nothing eats at you like a guilty conscience... makes you act weird, like you wouldn't believe...
But I definitely think you should just sit him down and ask what his deal is. Explain that you feel like something is wrong, and that his behavior is making you nervous.
If he's been cheating on you, though... you should kick his ass to the curb and find someone that respects you, instead. Don't put up with that BS.
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Don't jump to conclusions. Ask him if he is cheating on you. If you don't like his answer leave him. If you are having doubts, you should reconsider your relationship. Faithful guys don't hide their phones from their girlfriends.
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TheLonelySoul is right, you shouldn't jump to conclusions without solid evidence. I think you should confront him also, and demand an explanation as to what is going on. You need to be honest and up front with each other if this relationship is going to work. If he's indeed cheating, then you should dump him, but maybe something else is going on, and you don't wanna do something you will regret later.
He is acting strange, and you shouldn't be tortured not knowing why, and suspecting that he's cheating. No matter what is going on, you deserve to know the truth.
Good luck :)
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Suspicions. There are many possibilities why he's acting like this around you. But before jumping to conclusions, find factual evidence. He might just be hiding good or bad news. For example, a family member/friend might send him a text, and he wants to keep news private. It could be anything. But jumping to conclusions can mess things up. Don't "drop" him unless there's solid evidence. It would be messed up if he was only hiding something minor, and wasn't cheating. Ever read Shakespear's "Othello"?? He believes his wife is cheating without solid evidence, coincidences made it seem like she was when she wasn't. He ended up killing her and himself. Sad ending, but it happens all the time. Things might not be what they always seem. Just him acting weird & hiding his phone doesn't prove that he's cheating. Because it could be anything. Don't be like Othello and let false suspicions ruin you, once there's real proof, then you leave him if you choose.
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You should drop him. If you have to question his actions and you don't trust him, then you will drive yourself insane staying with him and making excuses for him. Relationships rely heavily on trust or they won't last. Or maybe you can confront him and work it out, but the relationship will probably never be the same.
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Dump him!
I know from experience that if you can't trust him you have doubts. If you confront him and he changed the subject or doesn't have a straight answer. Say goodbye you'll find a better man to be with that you trust and he'll trust you.
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