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Member Since: November 3, 2012
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Im just wondering about this but does it really hurt when a girl looses her virginity or a guy even or is it a good sensation? (link)
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It's painful! the first few times but the more sec you have the more pleasurable it becomes.
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So basically there's this guy that I work with that I've gotten pretty close too. We talk all the time and goof around. We eat our lunches together and take all of our breaks together. We're always together at work and he waits for me in the mornings and at night and walks me to the car and we even cook each other things and ask each other if we want something at restaurants that we're at and stuff. He also gave me his number (without me asking) and we text when we are out of work. He doesn't straight out flirt with me but like I said we goof around and he'll playfully touch me sometimes. Today I let it slip that I wanted a bag of bugles out of the vending machine out of work so he immediately got up and went to buy them and I playfully jumped in front of the vending machine so he couldn't get too it and he kept putting his hands on my arms and picked me up and moved me out of the way while laughing and bought me the bag of chips.
He pretends to get upset if I walk too fast because he wants to walk with me and like I said he always waits for me. He even stayed 20 minutes after work once when I was talking with my manager so he could walk me to my car.
Well I added him of fb earlier this week and noticed right away that he had a girlfriend (who he's been with for a year and a half)...I was really upset about it but I figured maybe he just forgot to take her off and hadn't been on facebook in a while since the last post she put on his page was on the 4th of September.
He NEVER mentioned he had a girlfriend and I was starting to view him as more than a friend...I mean guys don't usually do all of those things for you unless they think of you as more than a friend right? Well I also noticed she was still in high school which I thought was odd since he specifically said before that he "had" (like he wasn't in a relationship) two girlfriends during his time in high school and that he was done with those sort of girls. Plus he's 23 so he's long graduated and I'm thinking why is he with a high schooler? He never mentioned her not even one time he never talked about ANY other girl in fact. Which is why I was so thrown off when I found out.
Well today he was talking about some pretty reckless things he'd done while in high school and I said "Is your girlfriend alright with you having done those things?" just in a normal casual tone and he just got silent and said "Yeah she doesn't have a problem with it" after a moment and then a couple minutes he said "I didn't really want "people" to know that I had a girlfriend..." So of course I asked why and he said "I don't know just because I didn't."
The more I think about it the more I feel a little played.
I also feel sort of aggravated and angry about it but the stupid thing is I'm angry with his girlfriend. I feel like she shouldn't be his girlfriend and I know that's arrogant of me but he spends NINE hours a day with me,talking to me,goofing around with me,waiting for me,SPENDING TIME WITH ME. Not her. I really sort of feel like crying because I feel so stupid about it but maybe I'm overreacting.
As this point I'm not sure what I should be feeling.
Am I being played or is she being played?
Should I hold out and see if he breaks up with her? (link)
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I know for a fact he's playing both of you. This same exact thing happened to me a year ago. I met a guy I worked with and we had lots of fun always flirting, playing around acting silly we actually went on date a few times.
My guy ended up being married to this girl and he was only 20 and I was barely 18 I was stupid.
Trust me don't wait don't talk to him anymore tell him to stop he'll probably be like my guy and act hurt and try to make you keep falling for him don't do it unless you wanna be hurt.
Save your self the pain even though it will be hard this will make you strong.
Trust me it's the best thing you can do for your self.
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I think my boyfriend has been cheating on me. He has been acting very strange around me lately and he is very weird about me being around his phone he hurries and snatches it up as if im going to find something. (link)
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Dump him!
I know from experience that if you can't trust him you have doubts. If you confront him and he changed the subject or doesn't have a straight answer. Say goodbye you'll find a better man to be with that you trust and he'll trust you.
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