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Is my decision break our relationship?


Question Posted Monday May 21 2012, 9:20 am

Hi,
I am in a relationship with a guy form last 2 weeks. We never talk to have a sex in this period. In this weekend he calls me in and hotel for a diner. After diner I come to know that he booked a room in that hotel for us. I refuse to go with him. After that he can't make any call from last 3 days. Is my decision break our relationship? Sex is essential for any early relationship?


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Xui answered Monday May 21 2012, 9:22 pm:
Leave him


The guy us trying to use you. I also agree with Razhie itis incredibly rude to go ahead and make reservations without your knowledge. This guy was just out for sex and if a man loves you he will respect you, he will treat you right and talk to you.

He was being inconsiderate if you and your feelings. At the time being this man was thinking about HIM and his needs. Yes, he is a complete waste of time.

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alexisgirlie answered Monday May 21 2012, 5:48 pm:
Congratulations on a very smart decision! You have every right not to want sex so early. It is up to you only to decide what is done to your body. If he doesn't want you anymore because you do not want sex so early, this relationship should be ended immediately.

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kayna answered Monday May 21 2012, 5:34 pm:
No. What you did was perfectly fine. You should never feel pressured to have sex. If a man cares for you he will wait. Don't talk to him ever again he is a disgusting dog.

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Razhie answered Monday May 21 2012, 5:04 pm:
Break up with him.

What he did was extremely rude and controlling.

Sex might be essential for him early on in a relationship but he has a responsibility to TALK TO YOU about that, not to just assume you were ready to have sex with him and were willing to go to a hotel with him.

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