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HEYY evveryone! okay soooooo...i am a very open and caring person, i love to speak my mind so dont take it as if im being mean! because im just trying to help. when im older i would love to be a psychologist so this is great practice. dont be afraid to inbox me with any questions! i would more than love that.advice
i thought i was in love with my best friend and we had a great relationship but we started to date and now we dont get along at all
then you guys are ment to be bestfriends :)
Okay,
19/F. I asked a question a few weeks ago about my ex-boyfriend on here and got one answer. It was kind of rude, kind of funny. If you would like to read, feel free to.
Anyways, so I have a facebook... just like many other people do. And I guess I always had my profile to where everyone could see my whole profile.
Last night, I changed it to where only my friends could see my profile... no one else.
So my ex-boyfriend and I had a fight awhile ago and he ended up deleting me. No big deal, I figured he would anyways, he does it everytime we have a fight.
This morning, I logged on and he added me. Is it weird that he added me the night I changed my privacy settings? I mean, I know we both still have feelings for eachother but our prides and stubbornness get in the way of us being together (Or, that's what I think).
I'm not worried about it, but I thought it was weird. And I would like your opinions on it too, please. (:
And I forgot to mention I texted him about a week and a half ago to wish him happy birthday. The only reason I remembered was because my little brother's birthday is the same day. Does it make a difference?
Thanks in advance.
waitttt hahah me and my boyfriend are THE SAME.
but yea i think that he obviously used to stalk you on fb haha but then he couldnt anymore and he obv wants to check up on you so he re added you. (still loves youuu ) because if he didnt readd you means he doesnt care.
i also think that if you both still have feelings for eachother then one of you should just put your pride behind you both and try to fix it :l
im in the process of that right now lol...
well i hope i hoped!
so theres this guy that i chat to on mxit, we met trough a mutual friend about three years ago... recently we started chatting alot but just in general.. not so long ago ,i wasnt well so i asked him would he cry if i died and he said he will and that i cant die now so i asked why and he said coz we still getting to know each other... i dont know what to make of that but i think i like him........
how do i get him to like me?????????????
the simpilest way to get him to like you IS TO STOP WORRYING ABOUT GETTING HIM TO LIKE YOU and be your self! he will fall for the girl who is her self rather than the one who does things to make him like her.
when did you have your first kiss?
where?
with you?
was it good?
did it come naturally?
6th grade
the gazebo(where everyone hung out afterschool)
4 girls and 3 boys.
no
no, we were playing spin the bottle. haha GAAAAy
My brother has broken up with his gf, all my family love her. She's really pretty, really sweet, has a really good job and she's got a great sense of humour. She did a lot for my brother n he broke up with her. She's really upset n she still talks to me about him, its really uncomfortable cos I don't wanna side with my brother but he's being an ass! He hasn't given her a real reason to why they broke up, why do you think he did it? I know I should stay out of it but they're so good together
im pretty sure he just got bored of her... maybe he wants to date other girls and not be stuck with one :l hopefully everyone will get through it and he decides what he really wants.
Hi welL I'm not realy sure what I should do. I'm sTill a virgin and so is my boyfriend we been dating for a year alreay he is also a virgin. Should we have sex already? Should we loose it already I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Are relationship is realy close and serious but I don't want to mes it up by having sex.. Please help or give me tips on what to do :) thanks
noo... i dont think you should because first of all you even tho you your in a serios relatioonship your both accually too young and yes it might affect your relationship.
a relationship is NOT all about sex trust me, i think you gguys should hold off on i for a little and do other stufff.
hope i helpedd!
Okay, there are only two more days left of my drivers' training and my drivers' ed partner is totally cute and from the conversations we've had, we have some things in common. The only thing that bothers me is that he's into weed and I don't know much about it, I just know it's bad for you... Anyway, I really want to get to know him more and ask him out, but I'm afraid he might not like me back and I have no idea how to ask him out in the first place. We don't go to the same school and we're not taking segement 2 together!! I need help please, I really like this guy :')
i think if he liked YOU
he would ask YOUUUU out.
andd if hes a pothead and you start talking to him
it will mostly likey turn out that your gonna tryy weed and probably keep doing it.
idont know i suggest you wait and see if he asks you out first then you know for sure hes into you
18/f hes 19.
ok so there this guy, i've been into him for a while but he had a girlfriend. conveniently, they broke up. I was there to help him through the horrible break up etc etc. the more we talked the more we realised we had in common. However, i might add that he's in a band and has all his little teenies after him etc etc. so i have more then enough competition. He has a gig next week that he wanted me to come to, and to excuse him if he was shy to me.
Then i notice that he's saying how he 'gets excited everytime he has a new text =]" and i realised he must be starting to like someone else because i dont even have his number... then it hit me that i obviously dont stand a chance. I also found that he was tellling alot of girls that he gets shy around them.
what do i do....do i forget about going to the gig to forget him?
wellll i think hes talking to all these girls just to try to get his mind off his ex gf. so basically hes using you and all the girls. i think you should keep talking to him him because you cant get mad since your not his gf or not even together. and hes single so he just wants to have fun. but if ure looking for a relationship i htink youshould just stay friedns with him.
I met a guy (Chris) through my guy friend.. (a guy friend I hadn't seen since about 2 years ago) we bumped into each other in a club. I've known Chris for over a month now.
Any way Chris flirted a little, asked for my fb and number and I gave it to him. He kissed me that night. We went on a date a week later and he seemed really nice.
Problem with him is, I have heard he still likes his ex. We have been in a bar with our friends and his ex has turned up, and they always end up talking... and the other night she turned up, started talking to him and him and his friends LEFT the bar with her and her friends! and left me and my friend in the other bar on our own, he didn't even say bye!
He flirts a lot but I think he's just using me to get over his ex. What do you think?
His guy friend also told me that Chris walked his ex home, and he thinks that he might still love her (they have been split up for 2 months) and I know they see each other at least once a week, they go to the same gym.
Oh, and I heard him say to her "come back to mine" even though he didn't know I was behind him. Thing is, he broke up with her so does he still really like her?
sorry to tell you but yeah...your bassicly his rebound. you should stop now before you start to like him ALOT. he should of stayed with you at he bar but he accualy left, the least he could have done was say bye but he didnt. that was very low of him, but dont blame him and just let him be because there probably going to go back out if he sees her alot.
hope i hlped girll.
Before you read this, yes im very young and if your going to be mean and negative dont answer this, ok?
16/f. Hey everyone. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. and we are engaged. Im head over heal's in love with him, as he is with me. He live's with me also. He and I both want a child. And have been trying to get pregnant. Im on the depo birth control shot, but ive only had one, and am due for another one in exactly a month. I seem to not be able to get pregnant though. Its un protected, and he cums in my everytime. Ive had unprotected since i was 14 and have been came in before and ive never been pregnant. What will increase my chances? By the way my parents know im trying. Thanks in advance!
Tip # 1. Before you start trying to get pregnant see your doctor.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.
Tip # 2. When trying to get pregnant, don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.
Tip # 3. To get pregnant faster have enjoyable sex.
Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.
Tip # 4. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.
The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. i love him uncoditionally and i never want to lose him,but rumors are going arounf that hes cheating on me. He keeps denying them and i want to believe him, but i have really bad trust issues and im scared to trust him because what if he is cheating, then im gonna feel like crap. but i dont want him to leave because he feels ill never trust him. what do i do????? im 14 and so is he.
rumors rumors rumors....
wow hhaahaha honestly there were rumors about my boyfriend and how he ALWAYS cheats on me.. when HE DOESNT because im everywhere he goes and at everyparty hes at but people just love drama and they love to see you sad because there just jelous.. girl please dont listen to anyone because its gonna ruin something really good. and dont ever let people get in ure head unless you have proof
i hope i helped !
if you have any questions just inbox me
12/girl
How do u flirt with a guy? How can I tell he's flirting back?
how u can tell hes flirting:
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
how to flirt:
Wear something that makes you feel flirty. Flirting is all about attitude and, while a guy's receptiveness to your flirting may depend greatly on how you look, the most important thing is to dress in a way that makes you feel good about yourself. You could look fantastic in a mini skirt and heels, but if you feel uncomfortable and not like yourself, and you slouch and cross your arms and display unapproachable body language, you'll be a terrible flirt. Experiment with your appearance until you can look at your reflection in the mirror and feel like you've given your beauty the representation it deserves. Accept yourself, revel in your best features and your individuality, and you'll have a great foundation for flirting: confidence. See How to Build Self Confidence.
2Be playful. Don't be uptight. Don't worry about how you look. Don't get too hung up on everything being perfect. Just relax. Smile. Be goofy, crack jokes, and laugh. Be laid back. Have fun.
3Use positive body language. Angle yourself toward other people, sit or stand with an upright (but not stiff) posture, and uncross your arms. Make eye contact. Smile often. See How to Look Approachable.
4Break the touch barrier. Touch him lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. The simple act of touching can strengthen the intimacy between you and him. Sometimes a guy will break the touch barrier, and if you're comfortable with him doing so, touch him back. But don't wait for a guy to make the first move here, because girls can generally get away with breaking the touch barrier earlier in a relationship more than guys can. Also another good way of breaking the touch barrier is to "compare hand sizes" then smile and lace your fingers for a moment. This is a cute way to "break the barrier." A perfect, subtle way to touch him without just reaching up and grabbing his arm or something is to brush imaginary fuzz off of his shoulder or something, or fix his sweatshirt string, or pick an imaginary hair off of his shirt. Totally subtle and initiates comfortable boundary-crossing in an innocent manner. Casually tap him while laughing, rest your head on his shoulder if you’re tired and hold his hand when you're nervous.
5Compliment him. Be sure to compliment them in a casual and friendly way on things that are true. Sometimes people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is the total wrong thing to do. You really should compliment on things you really like, so you sound more sincere naturally. Some times complimenting their family or other things they are proud of works.
6Be confident! If you don't know if he is interested, look down at his feet. If you are facing you, he is interested. If it is facing left or right, then he totally isn't interested.
i am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 about to be 19. he is a senior and i am a freshman..... my family does not aprove of the age diffrence.i do not no what to do ab out it. Because my mom wants me 2 break up with him. but i dont want 2..... i realy love him! should i listen 2 my mom or follow my heart?
wellll you might love him an all but hes going to college in a couple of months and sorry to say but he will probably find other girls his age that he will probably talk to and he will probably forget about a highschooler.... :l so maybe you should stop now while you have time to get over him so you dont get hurt
So basically I have been in love with this boy for two years before we finally started going out. Now we've been together for a while now, and he's a busy person. He spends a lot of time doing working, or visiting family, or whatever. I know he tries to spend time with me, but he just can't. I can't decide whether or not I'm making something out of nothing, but this something is starting to bother me. Do I end things and move on or just chill out and remember that he loves me?
well from past expsperience i say talk to him about him and tell him how much you miss him and how u guys dont hangoutt alot and maybe you can visit his family with him and do more things together and remember that he loves you.
when a guy looks at you and smiles and then looks down and smiles?
he thinks your cutttteeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
so this guy and I have been talking. He happens to be friends with my first love. I don't think he knows about it cuz it doesn't seem like it. But I actually saw my first love for the first time in a long time and it was so painful! I thought I was over him :/, but when I saw him everything came back. I don't really know if it was the same for him but when he saw me and his friend playing around he decided to ask to borrow his phone and call a girl so we could all one day go on a double date. My heart feels like its getting broken all over again. I don't know what to do. All I know is that I need to move on. This is just a weird awkward situation for me. But anyway, tell me what you guys think and if you have any ideas on what i could do to make this situation a little bit easier. I'm seventeen by the way. Thank you :)
wellll......... the first step is to NOT GO ON THE DOUBLE DATE! haha. that would just break your heart even more, you should also keep seeing the boy u were gonna go on the date with and hang out with him alone to get your mind off of ure ex. eventually you will get over him by liking someone else
if u have any questions just inbox me :)
Ok so tonight i might be getting my first kiss but omg im so nervous like i get a stomach ache thinking about it. what if i'm not good AHH hellp im having like a panic attack thinking about it!!
haha i was JUST like this.
i was shakinggggg it was bad.
but DONTT THINK ABOUT IT TO MUCH WHILE YOUR DOING IT.
let it be natrual.
my biggest mistake would probably be that i made it akward so i suggest you guys talk alittle before and after and you will be fine! :)
ohyeaa! chew gum:p haha
hope i helped!
Okay so I've had a crush on my friend Brian for the longest time. We hang out sometimes during the week with our friends & we've hooked up a couple times. My problem is that when we're at the same party I get so awkward. It's almost if I can flirt with the other boys fine, but not Brian, I steer clear away from him. I'm almost afraid to go up to him because i feel like he'll think i'm being clingy or something. I don't know, but it's so awkward and I really want to be able to go up to him and flirt with him like I do with the other guys. What do I do!?
iiii thinkkk that when you both are at a partyyy
go up to himm and be like
"HEY BRII :)!" and give eachother a hug nd jsut start talking.
*****BUT DONT ACT DRUNK******* guys think that is very annoying and he wont try to talk to you ... he will then try to take advantage of you and u dont watnt that.
just be your self and the next partyyy it should be his turn to talk to you and if he doesnt then fuck him! :D
okayyy. hope i helped!
if u have any questions just inbox me:)
ok to start off im 14 and my gf is 13.shes my first girlfreind and im her first boyfreind.so i can sorta get y she i shy when it comes to saying i love you and other couple stuff but we have been dating 4 three months and we havent held hands,kissed, or even hugged but we have said i love you but she gets sorta uncertain about sayin but says it and means it.i just wanna get her out of her shell and dont get me wrong im pretty shy too but im trying to do these things but just havent been able to though but we still have a really good relationship i just want to take it to the next level so please help me any way you can
aaawww thats sooo cuteee!
i think you both should be comfortable enough to talk about it with eacchother.
and maaybe you should stop saying i love you and tell eachother when you both REALLY mean it.
you should jsut say it because "thats what your supposed to do"
(if im being mean im sorry im just trying to help haha)
you hang out somewhere like the movies or somthing where you both could cuddle and maybe sneek in a kisss :)
ask you both become more comfortable with and really feel love.
thats when you shoudl say it
hope i helped!
if you have any questions just inbox me:)
Okay I don't know what to do. I'm in a realtionship with this new guy but I still think about my ex every single day. Even though he was a jerk, a dick, a douche, didn't respect me, betrayed me, hurt me, and so much more I just can't seem to get over him. He was my first everything... (excluding sex). So I know that's a lot of physical connection that'll be hard to get over. And all of that came with alot of guilt and pressure and ugh.. I admit our relationship was a mess and unhealthy but I miss him SOOO much and even as I type this I'm crying and thats horrible! We've been broken up for almost six months and and I'm dating some one new for God's sake!! Granted I dated my ex for seven months... and he was my first but I should be over him! I can feel this new guy getting suspicious and I know he's starting to tell I'm not okay... But I know I'll regret it if I lose him... But honestly... if I had the choice between him and my ex and I'd pick my ex in a heartbeat. And that doesnt make sense!! This guy is perfect and my ex is a jerk I just felt something so strong with him... I don't know what to do!! I don't want to break up with my boyfriend because I DO care about him... This is just so hard and I neeed help... I'm fifteen, ex is sixteen, boyfriend is seventeen.
this is completley normal.
it takes time to get used to a new relationship because all you do in the new relationship is relate your new guy wth your old guy
for example you would think in ure head
"my ex boyfriend texts me differently then this one"
but after a while you willl forget about yer ex and on to the next! :p
okayyy. im gayy hahhaha
well i hope i helped!