Question Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 11:55 am
I met a guy (Chris) through my guy friend.. (a guy friend I hadn't seen since about 2 years ago) we bumped into each other in a club. I've known Chris for over a month now.
Any way Chris flirted a little, asked for my fb and number and I gave it to him. He kissed me that night. We went on a date a week later and he seemed really nice.
Problem with him is, I have heard he still likes his ex. We have been in a bar with our friends and his ex has turned up, and they always end up talking... and the other night she turned up, started talking to him and him and his friends LEFT the bar with her and her friends! and left me and my friend in the other bar on our own, he didn't even say bye!
He flirts a lot but I think he's just using me to get over his ex. What do you think?
His guy friend also told me that Chris walked his ex home, and he thinks that he might still love her (they have been split up for 2 months) and I know they see each other at least once a week, they go to the same gym.
Oh, and I heard him say to her "come back to mine" even though he didn't know I was behind him. Thing is, he broke up with her so does he still really like her?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MayJ17 answered Thursday November 18 2010, 4:36 am: He might not be totally over his ex yet. But it doesn't mean he doesn't have feelings for you. You should talk to him and ask him about where you guys stand as a couple. You could go around and investigate if you don't wanna talk to him personally just yet. But since your still unsure at the moment, it would be best if you take things slow. You don't want to get hurt in the end. :/
jujubeann answered Wednesday November 17 2010, 5:30 pm: sorry to tell you but yeah...your bassicly his rebound. you should stop now before you start to like him ALOT. he should of stayed with you at he bar but he accualy left, the least he could have done was say bye but he didnt. that was very low of him, but dont blame him and just let him be because there probably going to go back out if he sees her alot.
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