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she is kinda akward when it comes to love
ok to start off im 14 and my gf is 13.shes my first girlfreind and im her first boyfreind.so i can sorta get y she i shy when it comes to saying i love you and other couple stuff but we have been dating 4 three months and we havent held hands,kissed, or even hugged but we have said i love you but she gets sorta uncertain about sayin but says it and means it.i just wanna get her out of her shell and dont get me wrong im pretty shy too but im trying to do these things but just havent been able to though but we still have a really good relationship i just want to take it to the next level so please help me any way you can
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Since relationships are new for both of you she may be cautious when using the term "i love you". By taking it slow she will be able to become more comfortable with you.
With communication you should be able to ask her how feels and see if she is also willing to take the next step and start with holding hands then moving up to start hugging and so forth.
First relationships are nerve racking because it is the start of new things and firsts of everything so just take your time and make sure she is comfortable too.
Good Luck! :)
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You can simply ask her if it would be ok w/ her if you held her hand or gave her a kiss on the cheek. This will show her that you respect her feelings and that you are looking to take those next steps as long as she is comfortable with it. Good Luck!
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Well since this is both your first relationship then you both should be nervous so don't worry about that. Saying I love you is kinda awkward for only going out for 3 months and you guys are 13 and 14 but I think you should wait on that so it won't be as awkward and you both truly mean it. The first step is hard with holding hands and hugging.
Since she's a girl, and I'm just gonna assume she's like most girls when it comes to this, that she doesn't want to make the first move. So you should be the first to hug her and all that. Then try holding her hand once you guys get comfortable. My first boyfriend never did that either so I just assumed he didn't like me. Maybe that's why she's uncertain about saying I love you because you guys don't show it towards each other.
So if you want to put some effort into the relationship, I suggest you be the first to take these steps and just hug her and hold her hand. Good luck!
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aaawww thats sooo cuteee!
i think you both should be comfortable enough to talk about it with eacchother.
and maaybe you should stop saying i love you and tell eachother when you both REALLY mean it.
you should jsut say it because "thats what your supposed to do"
(if im being mean im sorry im just trying to help haha)
you hang out somewhere like the movies or somthing where you both could cuddle and maybe sneek in a kisss :)
ask you both become more comfortable with and really feel love.
thats when you shoudl say it
hope i helped!
if you have any questions just inbox me:)
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Well, you said it was her first relationship, so she is probably very nervous, because she doesn't want to ruin it or anything.
You should try and think of a way to make her feel more comfortable with you. You could also make the first move. Try and hug her or hold her hand.
Good Luck :)
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