Member Since:
November 19, 2010Answers:
7Last Update:
November 19, 2010Visitors:
1791Main Categories:
Love Life
Mental health
Friendship
View All
about
I have seen and been through many things, I wish to help everyone in anyway that I can. I hope to have my own advice column that will be famous one day while I stay anonymous to everyone to maintain that privacy to help others in need.
advice
um i was just wondering what a prostituet is cos im aparently one and it doesnt sound very nice.
thanks
xxxxxxxxxx
also, am i a prostituet?
A prostitute is someone who sells there self for sexual acts, so if this is what you do to obtain things you want in life then yes. If it is not, then no you are not a prostitute.
I will just give you a run down of our relationship, and then a pros and con list otherwise ill go on for hours.
we are 20, have a 5 month old daughter and she is gorgeous. we have been together for three years. When we got together, he was a rebound..after one year we were living together. we were pregnant at 2 years. and now living at my mothers (and hating it)
pros-
he is my daughters father. hes gorgeous. i do love him. he is very talented and could go far. he cooks for me. he loves me. he is very faithful. has a great personality sometimes.
cons-
i have not been single since i was 14. he never tells me im beautiful, i am beginning to think he is not attracted to me because of the baby weight. (im only 115 pounds tho...but its 10 more than i used to be) when he is sleeping, he has a terrible personality and is known to hurt me emotionally and physically (i.e. throwing me at dressers, hitting me bc i am trying ot get him up for once). he has a terrible work ethic and has not been employed in 3 months. he hates my family. he is not the least bit greatful for what my mom is doing for us. i hate his family. his mom is a super cunt and he thinks so too. i wonder if he drinks to much. i dont feel like the princess i used to. he spends all of our money on frivelous things. he is taking on my precious mommy role, my daughter is now comforted by him and all that easier than by me. he does not let me have a say in how we will raise her. i am able to take her to work with me, i usually do because if i leave her home he just makes her stay in her crib and sleep until he is out of bed around 12-2 in the afternoon. alot of the time we dont get along. he is extremely lazy. extremely controlling. i basically get no life. he is the desicion maker even though I provide the shelter, car, and money.
but he IS my daughter father. and I also could not handle him having another girl....one who is actually willing to spend all her money on cid and trippy concerts and who is down to earth and just the perfect girl fir him. this thought rattles my brain and terrifies me to death....
on the other hand...a life in an apartment with just me and my baby girl sounds like heaven...i could afford to move out if it werent for him...
There is no doubt you shouldn't leave him. Get out fast while you can, if he seems so willingly to hurt you and to just be a bum then you deserve to be happy. Live the life you are given for yourself you are the only one who can control it and choose the paths you want to take. You see the path to heaven of you and your baby girl so take it. You make love him but you will find someone else out there who loves you for who you are just as much as you love them.
Best of Luck -- keep us posted on how the situation goes. Remember, do what you need to make yourself happy and live the life you want to live. Don't hold back.
One love.
how do you deal with parents who ever seem to listen to you
Just remember your parents do love you. And if you feel as though they aren't listening to you then maybe sit them down and talk to them about how you feel. I used to think my parents didn't listen to me and I talked to them and they felt terrible and changed their habits to better need mine to make sure I didn't feel like that.
If your parents don't seem to listen after that, then you always have others to turn to talk about issues and to listen, like me :)
Good Luck, let us know how it ends up.
ok to start off im 14 and my gf is 13.shes my first girlfreind and im her first boyfreind.so i can sorta get y she i shy when it comes to saying i love you and other couple stuff but we have been dating 4 three months and we havent held hands,kissed, or even hugged but we have said i love you but she gets sorta uncertain about sayin but says it and means it.i just wanna get her out of her shell and dont get me wrong im pretty shy too but im trying to do these things but just havent been able to though but we still have a really good relationship i just want to take it to the next level so please help me any way you can
Since relationships are new for both of you she may be cautious when using the term "i love you". By taking it slow she will be able to become more comfortable with you.
With communication you should be able to ask her how feels and see if she is also willing to take the next step and start with holding hands then moving up to start hugging and so forth.
First relationships are nerve racking because it is the start of new things and firsts of everything so just take your time and make sure she is comfortable too.
Good Luck! :)
my boyfriend fell in love with a girl that was my best friend and he also likes a girl in school. Both girl are in the same class with him and im get angry when he talks about them when he's with me. What can i do to make our relationship be better? Im 16 years old, female
you're hands down better than he is. don't go for it-- at 16 you are too young to know what love really is. love has to go both ways and if he thinks he loves your best friend then its just not meant to work out leading you to be the better person and to end things.
This boy that I told me he liked my hair curly, I wore it curly for like 3 days, then I made it straight and he noticed and pointed it out. My friends are like "wow, he notices the little things, that's so cute, he totally likes you" Do you think that's true? I also catch him looking at me a lot, we'll be in practice, and he'll look in my general direction so much that I don't even want to look his way. He'll also walk with me to classes. Do you think he likes me? thanks!
I definitely thinks he is trying to get across the point he thinks you are attractive. Usually if a guy can't stop looking at you it's because he likes what he sees. I say give it a shot if you like him and ask him to hang out! Good Luck.
i lost my ipod so i was thinking about just getting the iphone. i have a lg xenon right now and i don't really like it but it works. can anyone that has the iphone tell me some pros and cons? and which one should i get? like i don't get the whole g8 iphone 4 and all the numbers and i don't know what they mean please help!
My roommate has the iphone 4 -- she really likes it. If you are already an AT & T user I would highly suggest getting it. It is great with connection and being fast. If you are a Verizon carrier or T-Mobile I would stick with those services and get the Galaxy, it is a great fast working phone. However the con is they all run out of battery quickly due to the applications they all use.