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i sleep a lot. like it's all i want to do lately. sleep. because if i dont sleep; i cry.
there's nothing i can do to make it better.. im depressed. and i refuse to talk to a counselor or what not, i refuse to take pills. so my quesion is, how do i make myself start eating and staying awake again? because my parents are beginning to worry..and if they get to worried they're gonna go to my school and talk to my teachers, which will just embarress me..so no thank you! so what can i do to look like im not depressed?
truth be told, i want to get better.. but i cant. my life is to bad. everytme i try to make myself happy again, i fail myself.. which makes me even more depressed. i can truthfully not remember the last time a laughed (and it wasnt a fake one) i kid you not! im not trying to make you feel sorry for me, i just need help. i hate my school, my family (don tell me to talk to them about it, they'd get so mad at me!! in their eyes, depression is weakness, and they'll be mad cause they raised a weak dotter..) school is really bad though. its not that i dislike it. i hate it. Uggh sorry im done complaining, just help me with how to fake happiness please.. thank you. (link)
I honestly know how you feel sweetie. I have(and still do fake happiness sometime). And I do not like talking to my family so I get you there. But honestly if you looked around for the right counselor it might help to talk through your feelings. I know this isn't what you want to hear. but still i understand most of what you're going through. If you haven't been eating you might WANT to see a doctor, you might have an ED. If you have the negative of I want to get better but I CAN"T. Than it sounds like you don't want help or you are afraid to get help cause maybe it wouldn't work. I thought that before. But there ARE people out there that can help, that's what their trained for. And maybe you should see if you schould switch schools if you hate it so much?


Ok I know that there are probably Zero doctors or therapist on here, but I'm hoping that there are high school
and college students on here:) & I know nobody can actually diagnosis this, but I just want an opinion
of what she may have or advice how to handle her.

My friend Lauren has a lot of problems. Her mother died when she was young. She is a huge huge huge liar. To the
point, I don't even think she knows the difference between her lies and the truth. She has made up multiple different
people and will text guys pretending to be these girls. She will talk to them for a long time, actually I think she is still talking to a few. Last may she was put into the
hospital for having a eating disorder. She almost
died. She has gained almost all the weight back. She can be very loud and has never had a problem going
up to a random guy and telling him he's hot.

I don't understand her at all. She's one of
my best friends, but I can't figure her out.

I want to know if anyone is in or was in any pysch classes, types of disorders I could look up that it might be.

Also, how do I handle this girl, in general. (link)
First of all I will say that I think you need to be patient with her, and try to be there for her, next semester I am taking a physchology class and you can email me at roserenee16@yahoo.com if you want more information I haven't taken it yet but I will be soon.


hey
one o my friends asked me why i self harm and i didnt kno how to answer her. so it got me thinking, why would someone self harm? and what are the signs of someone self harming. Also, i self harm the same as suicide? if not then can you answer the same for suicide.
thans :) xxx (link)
As a self harmer myself I will answer what I am able to, I am only 17 but have dealt with this for about 4 years almost. One self harm is NOT the same as suicide. Self-Harm is anything from scractching or cutting yourself with sharp objects, banging your head against a solid object, pulling your: eyebrows,eyelashes,arm or head hair. And other things I will have to go look I have a book on S.I. It is called Cut. Suicide is killing yourself. You know if you are suicidal sometimes if you feel hopeless every day,giving away possesions, um talking to people like a last goodbye sort of thing. And that is all I remember if you are someone you know is struggling their are suicide hotlines, I hope this gave you some information.




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