Question Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 7:05 pm
Okay, there are only two more days left of my drivers' training and my drivers' ed partner is totally cute and from the conversations we've had, we have some things in common. The only thing that bothers me is that he's into weed and I don't know much about it, I just know it's bad for you... Anyway, I really want to get to know him more and ask him out, but I'm afraid he might not like me back and I have no idea how to ask him out in the first place. We don't go to the same school and we're not taking segement 2 together!! I need help please, I really like this guy :')
You don't know how severe his issues with drugs may be. Maybe he's just a recreational marijuana smoker and perhaps he's in to hard drugs or not. You don't know but he has issues with substances and that's not anything you need in your life.
A relationship could be dicey and yes you may succumb to that level with drugs if constantly around them or at the very least pot. It's a bad idea.
What you could do is make him your friend. This way you get an idea for who he is, his background and can help him. Tell him straight up when you see him that "ordinarily I would date someone like you in a flash. However, I've picked up upon an issue with marijuana. I would love to be your friend though and help you if you want it.
Then if he stops and looks like a good idea after than you have something. The other thing is maybe he has a g/f already and or only sees you as this girl from drivers education and has no plan to date you or see you after tomorrow. That's a risk you have to consider. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
jujubeann answered Wednesday November 17 2010, 9:20 pm: i think if he liked YOU
he would ask YOUUUU out.
andd if hes a pothead and you start talking to him
it will mostly likey turn out that your gonna tryy weed and probably keep doing it.
idont know i suggest you wait and see if he asks you out first then you know for sure hes into you [ jujubeann's advice column | Ask jujubeann A Question ]
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