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So I'm still hurting over this guy that I dated like three months ago... we dated for seven months, he broke my heart and I'm still not like over it! I wanna move on so bad, to find a new guy. But the first guy I liked I just stopeed being interested in. I had a spree of liking all sorts of guys scattered around, intertwining into eachother for about two months. I kind of got involved with one guy, but he's bad news so I gave up. This last guy I really liked amd had been texting for a few weeks but he all of the sudden stopped texting me and I heard he has a thing with this other girl... it could not be true tho IDK. After the end of all the guys, I always find myself wanting my ex back. And it hurts so bad... I don't understand. I suddenly just start missing him like crazy. I cry for about two hours and I can't sleep. He really hurt me... I just don't know what to do. My ex was bad for me. Bad bad bad. I can't go back to him. he likes this new girl and I can't help but compare her to me. She has to be better than me in some way right? Or he'd want me and not her. He's hasn't ever asked to have me back. There;s just a lot of hurt still left over from that relationship. Things he's tried to apologize for but I didn't let him. I just want to be happy. I'm so sick of being sad over him. He hurt me and I can't seem no matter how hard I try to forget it. Its been three months! we only dated for seven. Every other five munutes I think about him, and I swear to God, that is not an exageration. Not one tiny bit. It doesn't help that I see him every day at school. with the new girl. PLEASE help me. I am fifteen female

Your major problem here is the psychology of the matter. You haven't forgiven him, which is why you cant move on. What you need to do to forget and move on is forgive him for what he's done to you. Once you break the emotional barriers and is able to do that. You need to come to conclusion that there is a very slim chance of you and him getting back together. If he was still single like you are now, maybe he would be feeling the same and I could tell you to go for it. But because he's moved on, it shows that he has no real concern for how you feel, and he's moved on to someone new, and has forgotten about you. I dont know the severity of the problem, but 7 months can be a lot of time for someone your age. Your not emotionally ready for another relationship so stop trying to find someone new. Time is key. Forgive and forget. Whats making the situation more difficult is that you see him everyday with the new girl and you clearly get "jealous". Its natural. But when the day comes that your jealousy wears off and your ready to actually move on. Thats the moment when your ready to start seeing other people. Good Luck

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Ok I have never EVER been jealous of a partner's ex before. Except now I have.

In all honesty, I dont even know why I am jealous. I have seen many pictures of her & she isnt ugly, but I wouldnt say shes pretty, she doesnt really make an effort with herself. So I know that its not the looks thing.

In fact I dont know if its jealousy. Id rather be in my situation than hers. But for some reason I couldnt stop looking at pictures of her & my boyfriend together. & im interested in seeing what shes doing now, like if she has a new boyfriend, what shes been up to, looking at her pics etc.

They split about 2 months before we got together & its played on my mind whether he still likes her, they were together for 8 months. My boyfriend denies still liking her but I think he only says that because he doesnt want to admit to it. I know he loved her because I was friends with him & saw them together & he told me he did.

I think its because im quite a competitive person & id hate to feel second best, what do you think? has anyone felt this way before?

Ive been in this situation myself. Your problem is just the nerves of the situation. The key reason why you feel this way is because you were friends with your bf at the same time that he was with her. You heard him say from his own mouth how much he loved her and why. What gets to you is that unlike any other relationship most likely you've never been in one where your bf has been your friend when he was with his ex. You had a chance with your past bf's to just start something new without knowing anything of their past lives. So its easy to go from their without being jealous or even curious of their past life. But because your current bf was your friend while they were together, and you've heard the way he talked of her, Its just hard for you to believe him when he says he doesn't still like her. And it only bothers you because you had knowledge of the sincerity and depth of their relationship. What do you do? Just talk to him and ask him why he loves you, what he tells you should be enough to keep your curiosity of "them" at a minimum.

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Alright, I am 13/f and he is 14/m. To be blunt, I am CRAZY about him, but I can never tell how he feels about me. Sometimes I feel like he's truely into me, but other times its just confusing. Sometimes its like we are just friends. Sometimes its like we are pretty much a couple that isn't dating. And then there are times when I feel like he's just playing with me. Not the kind of playing where its like, flirt with you then go off and flirt with another girl, no, not at all. Haha, actually, I think I'm the only girl he talks to on a regular basis. Anyway, the kind of playing I'm talking about is the mess with your emotions. Its where i think he only talks to me because he is bored, or he gets a laugh out of teasing and messing with me. It seems like everytime I snap out of my lovidoviness to confront him about our little relationship-rollercoastet, he develops an uncanny ability to sweet talk me, make me adore him, and confuse me more before I even get an answer, because of this, I never know where we stand on the relationship scale. He says he doesn't want a girlfriend right now but sometimes it feels like we might as well be dating! He gets kind of protective of me when other boys get a little carried away with their pervertedness. And it sometimes feels like he gets a little jelous when I talk about other boys. But then other times it feels like he doesn't even care about me! My main questions are:
1. How is he so good at keeping me confused?
2. Is he trying to keep me confused? Or am I just imagining it?3. If he is trying to confuse me, why would he do that? If he isn't trying to confuse me, then what is he doing?
4. How can I be SNEAKY to find out how he REALLY feels about me without him knowing that I am?
5. Is this all just a game to him???

Yes it is a game to him for several reasons and I'm not going to lie to to you I will however make this as brief as possible

He thinks its a game becauase he says he doesnt want a girlfriend rite now yet he DOES PLAY like her cares for u when he really doesnt
I know he doesnt care for you because if he did, than he would allow you to date him
He is justing playing the role and that is what makes you confused
Dont fall for it the only reason he plays like he's jealous when other guys talk about you is because he's mad he knows he can have you but he doesnt want you he's just playing the role like i said
dont fall for it any longer
if u wanna find out if he really cares about you or not
determine an ultimatum meaning tell him that if he cares for you than you guys should date and if he still denies to date u, than tell him your moving on, if he tries and stop you and changes his mind to date you thasn he cares about you, if he lets you go and does not change his mind to date you than he was jus playin with your emotions

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okay. so why does it seem like all guys are douche bags???


and how do you really know if a guy is flirting with you? i mean i know somethings for like if you talk to the guy a lot. but like for a guy that you talk to some, how do you know that he's flirting with you?

help? =[.

1) They often stare at you ALOT. 2) They will give you a smile, or hello every now and than. 3) They will repeatedly try and strike up conversation about ANYTHING any chance they get. 4) If they are shy, they will most likely wait on you to make the first move. 5) They will often attempt to compliment you any chance they can get and also try and get to know you better, ask when is your birthday, your favorite color. 6) Will often make a fool of themselves in front of you, or attempt to act cool, or a class clown, to get your attention.

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ok. so my boyfriend LOVES the pittsburgh, steelers football team. So for christmas i was thinking bout getting him the whole steelers comforter set and a glass case for his signed football. Is that a good idea?

He would definitely love it, it will be something to him from you and at least it shows that you gave him something from the heart... You know? But if it were me I wouldn't give him an entire set, maybe some items here or there, but just imagine having a couch, table and glass set of the steelers, if he were to invite someone over, he'd be thought of as a steelers maniac. So just get him the glass set, I think that shows the he is a fan, and not a maniac that has the whole set.

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what some other stuff i can do other than make out with my bf. no hand job or blow job. like something romantic or something.

LEt's see, you can cuddle, you can talk romantic to one another, talk dirty to one another, I see that you don't want to get sexual so sex wouldn't be a factor. The most I can say is just cuddle and hold hands. There is really nothing much more.

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dude, you rock! that is good advice, but julie wont embarass eric because they're friends from last year, and i cannot get over him.... trust me. i have been trying for the past 2 weeks, and i cant. i know it makes me sound pathetic, but its the truth. i just love him so much. and he doesnt really hate me, i can tell. but i just dont know how i can get over him. i asked his sister, and she doesnt know how to help me either! do you know how 2 help? its ok if you dont, but i just need help, bad. he rides my bus, and whenever i look out the window, i see his reflection because he ALWAYS sits right in front of me. (well, i sit behind him.) but you get my point. i dont know how to get his beautiful, angel face out of my mind. sorry this is so long.... and sorry for bugging you, again...

It is my duty to answer your question, keep the questions coming...

Anyways, I may have an idea. Okay, Eric won't get embarassed but at least he won't be going out with his crush, (Julie), cause she doesn't like him. So you don't get him and he doesn't get Julie, it would've been worse if you didn't get him and he got Julie, so that's a benefit right there. But, if you really can't get over this guy, maybe you should try a different approach, like sitting back and waiting on him to make the first move for a chance. If he doesn't want you than let it be, but you need to stop trying so hard and just relax, and be yourself. Believe me, Eric will get what's coming to him, whether him and Julie are friends or not, word is going to "get out" that he asked her out and got rejected. So just watch... And if it doesn't than he sure has a heck of a way from letting info get out lol. I know this didn't really help, but I try, try to understand you know, I hope I helped at least a little bit, it would help if I actually understood your situation much more.

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i told a guy that i like him and hee says he likes another girl but im still sexy i really want him do i wait or move on?
thanks
loveboys

You DONT wait on a guy, that doesn't choose you over another girl. Move on, and if he says your sexy, than another guy will feel the same and come to talk to you one day.

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k, i asked out this beautiful guy at my school and he first said "i dont know" 2 weeks later, i asked him again, and he said "i dont know, maybe" finally, another 2-3 weeks later, i asked him and he said "no" i told him i was sorry for bugging him and all, and then he told all of his friends about it, and now they call me a stalker. on the other hand, there is this other guy that i hate, and he tells everybody that i like him, and i dont. while he is calling me disgusting, one of his friends is telling everyone that i asked out the guy in the beginning, and they all tease me about it.
about the beautiful guy, he is confusing me! he said that he hated me, but if he hated me, then why would he say "maybe" when i asked him out, and why does he ALWAYS talk to me on the bus, and in the hallway? i found out that he likes a girl named julie, and i told her, and she said that he is ugly and that she hated him. im really good friends with his sister, and i know for sure that he likes julie. what should i do? i like the guy, (eric) and he likes julie (she hates him) another guy (mike) says that i like him (i dont) and everyone else teases me cuz i like the beautiful guy (eric) -what the heck am i supposed to do? should i ignore him? try to talk to him? love him? hate him? HELP!!

Okay, as for this guy mike who says that you like him, just ignore him, the teasing will go away in about 2 weeks, it ALWAYS does go away. I've been in a situation worse, and it went away in 3 weeks, so yours should go away momentarily. As far as Eric goes, GET OVER HIM... You shouldn't like a guy who doesn't like you back, or has to think about it before he gives you an answer, that is degrating to me. Don't beg, don't cry, let him go, someone else will come along that is better than him. As for Julie & Eric. Carma is the best way I can give you this news. Eric embarassed you by telling the entire school about you asking him out, calling you a "stalker" and all right? Well, a higher power has called Carma on Eric. He has embarassed you and now Julie will embarass him. you just sit back and let nature take it's course. Julie is going to reject him and than he will be the laughing-stock of the school. Pay-back is than served, let it go and find someone new, that's all the advice I have for you.

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ok. i have a crush...it's kind of stupid and very high school (which, btw, i am, he's not) and i know he has big things to focus on right now...that aren't me. i feel like i've been clinging though and we've been like friends for a couple years. i don't want to mess that up. just to talk to him (cuz i hardly get to see him anymore) i'll message him on myspace and then realize how pathetic i'm sounding about pretty pointless subjects. how can i keep talking to him without sounding like...you know...i just want to talk to him? how can i keep being a good friend to him without him getting that i might be thinking something more? :( he is a really good friend to me. i don't want to jeopardize it.

if u feel this strongly for this guy than he needs to be informed... if he rejects you than it is a possibility that you could jeapordize your relations but it is a risk that should be taken

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we say it, we mean it in different ways. their are many different reasons to why we love something or someone. can i get your guys input on what i love you to a significant other means (boyfriend and girlfirend) (husabnd or wife) NOT friend to friend or anything.

also what bascially love means to you.

please think hard and answer both questions thank you.

Often, when a guy says he loves a girl, he means it more strongly than a girl saying I love you to a guy. This is because guys fall for girls faster than girls fall for guys. Girls are picky, while guys are (most) are desperate for love.

Love basically is defined as being something that you find in somebody that you find attracting so much, that you can't stray too far away from that person.

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So there is this guy Tony I liked him alot we have a big gap in age and he was alittle iffy on it but still liked me. So i told him i just wanted to be friends. I meet this guy Nathan and we have been dating for a while. Tony and I can't talk because Tony came to my work once and i gave him a hug good bye he told me hed come to my work and kiss me infront of everyone. I love my boyfriend a lot sometimes he says things to make me feel like crap but i love him and i know he loves me. I have been thinking about Tony a lot. I feel confused and not sure what to do. whats your opinion on this?

This guy that your currently going out with treats you like crap. So why not "trade" him in for someone better. Sure you love a guy that treats you like crap. But, why not love somebody that will treat you better than crap. By the way, your the one who broke it off with Tony, not him breaking it off with you. Obviously he still has some interest in you if he comes to your job to "feel on you" lol. So confront your current boyfriend tell him how you feel. And give Tony another chance.

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Okay, well I kinda snuck out the house at 3am a few weeks ago to go to my boyfriends house and he didn't even know I was going over there he just called me and said "im outside" so I decided to walk out there to see him. Well anyways my parents found out what I did and they think it was all my boyfriends fault that I snuck out even though it was my idea. Well they grounded me from everything and called my boyfriend who I was like in love with and told him never to speak to me again and that I couldn't talk to him anymore. Well that didn't stop me. I been using my friends phone and been texting him and when my parents go to bed I get the house phone and call him at night, but we are broken up. I want to go back out with him, but ill never be able to see him, but im like madly in love with him. Also my parents don't want anything to do with him so what should I do? Like should I go back out with him? or should I just move on and stop talking to him?

The way you wrote this I can tell that you really have some puppy love with this guy. So if it was up to me I definitely wouldn't let my parents stop me from seeing that person I'm in love with. I say do everything in your power to keep seeing this guy and keep in communication with him like you have been currently doing. And if your parents get too strict than you need to confront them and tell them whats on your mind. I know that they are just looking out for your well-being I mean thats what parents do. But that does not mean that they should interfere with your love life.

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Ok theres this guy i like ALOT named Griffin
hes alot shorter than me which is kinda adorable but hes my ex's bestfriend my ex says he dont care but i know he does
should i go out with griffin? cuz he said he likes me too and he asked me out but i havent given him an answer yet =/
so yeahh help!

Griffin is not much of a best friend to your ex boyfriend is he to be asking you out after you two have broken up with one another. I mean that's GUY CODE rule # 4. DO NOT ASK EX'S OUT!
I also can tell that your EX doesn't approve I mean what EX would, unless their idiots. It's not the fact that his best friend is asking you out, that's not the problem it's more of a RESPECT thing. Like he probably feels like he has no RESPECT right now by Griffin asking you out. But enough about that. Let's get back to you, I feel that it's not like your EX is your best friend, because than I would think your wrong.(Hands-Down) But seeing as how it's just your EX. Griffin asking you out is not YOUR PROBLEM, it's your EX's problem, so if you like Griffin, than maybe you should date him. It's not your fault that he likes you and you feel the same back. It's not up to your EX to control your relations with others. That's why their called EX's right? So do it.

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okay...so I am seventeen years old, and i have a little problem...

I think that i have an issue with the men in my life. See, i've never really had a father figure because my dad doesnt care really what i do. he has lived in the same house as me for my whole life, but he shows no interest in my life whatsoever. he doesnt even know my birthday, how old i am, or what grade i am in. I've always wanted to be like my friends and be a daddy's little girl, but no matter how hard i try, he still doesnt care. i've told him i love him so many times but he'll just hang up the phone or walk away.

i dont think i've done anything to disappoint him, i've always been a good kid, never in trouble...so why doesn't he love me?

but that's not really the main issue, i've come to realize now after seventeen years that he is never going to love me like i want him to.

But, i think that this is affecting my relationships with boyfriends. See, right now i have a pretty good boyfriend. and he treats me right, he says he loves me, and i really care about him too. A lot. but he lives about two hours away and we see each other on the weekends if we're lucky. I really want to be with him, but when i'm at school and other guys show an interest in me, i just can't seem to tell them i have a boyfriend or that i can't be involved with them. like right now, there's a boy who really likes me that goes to my school and he wants to date me, and i could possibly like him, but i think the reason i talk to him is because he's showing an interest in me, and i think i need that constantly...and i know it's horrible. i've never cheated on my boyfriend, but i have a feeling that its a possibility if i dont get a handle on this. thats why i'm asking for your help...
i feel like such a bad person.
but i really need to find a way to deal with this before i hurt my boyfriend.
any advice is appreciated. =)

It seems that the attention you don't recieve from your only dad, is what you are attempting to recieve from boys. But I'm letting you know that a boy's interest cannot fill a dad's love for their child at all. It will just become an addiction for you to have attention for no reason at all, so do not get caught up in that. Keep your eye on one guy, and one guy only. As far as your dad goes, you need to sit him down and talk to him about what is on your mind. I know that this has to be a hard thing to do, it may cause you to be nervous and you may feel that you are not able to do it, but if you want his care and attention you must confront him and tell him that he's treating you like dirt and it is affecting your social life. If he walks away as usual, or acts as if he doesn't care, maybe it's more than you, it's probably something else that he is not telling you that is causing him to dislike you. He probably has a personal issue that does not involve you but he feels he MUST take it out upon you. Talk to your mom about this if your dad won't. And if you can't than maybe it's time to face facts that you may never get the attention from your dad that you need so much. But DO NOT let that destroy you. "You can bring a horse to the water, but you cannot make it drink". You can tell your dad about how you feel, but you can't make him do anything about it, it is up to him and only him. Maybe, he wanted a boy or maybe it was something going on between him and your mom before they had you that is causing him to act this way towards you. But please dont let this get to you. This is why teens grow up with an un-leveled head, is because of this, I'm not going to show you sympathy nor empathy for this because I cannot understand or feel how your dealing with this because I've never been through it myself, and I'm not taking pity upon you, but I do sympathize over our situation. I give you luck on how you manage to overcome this.

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Ok so im 20/f. I still have feelings for my ex. We broke up like 2 yrs ago and I have a new gf who Ive been with for a while and she has a new gf. We are all friends and everything but for some reason I still have this crush on my ex.
The other day I confessed it to her. I told her about my crush and my feelings for her and everything and we really havent talked since then bc I told her on aim and right after i told her i had to go bc I was at work. I tried msgin her yesterday but she was at work and kinda givin like one word answers so I didnt wanna bother her. I kinda wanna msg her today but like I never used to msg her before i told her so I dont wanna liek weird her out or anything. But I kinda wanna know what she thinks. im not tryin to be with her or anything thats not why I told her. I told her just to get it off my chest basically. I just dont know what I should do and if I do message her I dont know what to say. And I dont wanna be annoying or anything. Any advice??

If you feel this strongly for her still than you MUST make the first move. Don't wait around for her to make it, because she probably never will. You have to do it. Obviously, you shouldn't talk to her via phone, texting, or e-mail but more face to face. This is because by you talking to her via phone, she's not going to take your conversations too seriously. So confront her, this way she can see your sincerity and emotion, she'll take the conversation more serious, and will actually give you full sentences rather than one word answers. You two need to really have a nice long talk, over a hot beverage, maybe at a caf'e... Talk it out, trust me, if she feels the same than you will see it on her face and through her emotion. If not, and she rejects you than it may be time to move on and find someone who you know will love you through thick and thin. There is no use on loving someone who doesn't love you and has moved on

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well,..i spent some time with my ex-boyfriend on saturday..*sighs* well he just up & left me last year without warning& moved in with his wife& kid in las vegas(they were separated for the 5 years we were together)..well, it was very hard for me..well I didn't know how to act around him i was very nervous and didn't know how to act like myself..he stepped outside twisce while i was with him this weekend to call his wife and that just made me feel really bad, bad for her and bad for me.You must know that i was with him for 5 years, he was still technically married but they lived in separate states and he never wore his wedding ring. Now with all that has happend i still have this glimmer of hope. I still love him soo much and now i feel horrible in side..kind of like empty and what the hell is wrong with me..what am i to him..why did he want to see me? what am I to him? i want to ask him but i'm afraid that it's going to cause un-easiness for both of us..HE TOLD ME IF I COULD WAIT HE KNOWS WE HAVE A FUTURE..if he loved his wife would he have seen me,would he have said what he said to me.. i can't help but wonder, he says he doesn't love her hes just with her for his son, but i don't know if he's just saying that cuz he doesn't want to hurt me? i don't know..he also told me to let him know when..also he wanted me to go to this family get together with him (the wife wasn't going to go) becasue his family really likes me, and they have told me that they like me for him better than her because she's violent to her son..comments like that make me wonder, and i have hope that he still wants to be with me that he's just with her for the kid but ..i don't know what do you think?do you think he still cares for me?...i don't know how i feel..i want to call him and talk about this a little bit but i don't know if i should wait for him to call me.what do you think about all this?

Okay, I'm not judging you or anything of that matter but why were you with a married man in the first place. Secondly, I know that in 5 years you've had to have fallen in love with him, but if he up's and jumps to leave you all of a sudden. That means that he doesn't feel the same for you. Because if he loved you, and I'm talking true love than he would divorce his wife and stay with you. Regardless if he's divorced or not he can still be able to see his son and provide for his son, he does not have to be with his current wife in order to do so. I believe, that he is making excuses in order to go back to her and leave you guessing like you are now. From my perspective, I believe that he's telling you these pathetic excuses so he can get with her and when things go wrong again he know's he can come back to you. He is using you. Why else is he still with his wife, if he loves you than he would've been called for the divorce. You have some choices.
1) I know you love him, but maybe you should let him go. I mean he is married to another woman! and find someone who will treat you better. That you can start a life with.
2) Ask him to choose, you or her! Confront him about the situation and stand strong!
3) You can stay with him and continue to put up with his BS if that's how much you love him for what he's done to you.

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(she's 13 im 15)
ok last night i told this girl how i felt i told her everything and she said it was the nicest thing anyone has ever said to her and it made her cry and so she said she would think about it and so i talk to her today she said once again it was the sweetest thing anyone has told her and that i was an amazing guy but she doesn't feel the same way which sucks to here but im ok with that but she feels horrible about it and keeps asking if im ok does this mean she could possibly have a change of heart?

Obviously she feels guilty that you care more for her than she does of you. She feels guilty that you took your relationship way more seriously than she has. This guilt is normal and she's asking you how she feels because she's obviosuly upset that she may have hurt you. This is the common female, ALWAYS worrying. But you need to confront her and let her know that everything's okay. She basically means that she doesnt know if she should try harder to feel the same for you, or if she should just let it go and move on, but that decision isn't up to you, it's up to her, let her make it.

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I got married on very short notice. I have known him for a total of three years today in fact and been married for 17 months now. I was very young and so was he. Still are. We are both 25. We both have children from another relationship and one together. If I could write in detail everything it could take forever. lol Here is the thing. I am changing as a person and he is not. He is not trying to grow with me and he really doesn't know me at all. We never talk only through text including when we are at home. All he cares about is sex and he wont understand how I can't unless the emotional part is there. At work another man is paying alot of attention to me. He doesn't work there he is just a customer. He actually makes me feel really good about myself unlike my husband who would rather call me names. Did I mention he has cheated 6 times in three years? Not sex but it might as well been to me. Even before this other guy came into play, I wanted out. I can't take the hurt he has caused me but I am terrifed of leaveing. That is just a quick some of things. Now what I would like to know if anyone has been through this or something simular? Will you help me figure out what I should do? I still love my husband but I do not like him if that makes sense. This has nothing to do with the other guy and all I do is talk to him from time to time about everyday things. I cant do that with my husband. This other guy just makes me feel like I'm not crap. That I can do anything I want still. He makes me feel free again. Please. I really don't know what to do.

Now I'm going to let you know right now that you shouldn't drastically break it off with your husband "YET"... I mean think of your children. I am going to suggest marriage counseling. If he declines which I believe he will, than you need to confront him immediately DO NOT HOLD BACK, and lay everything on your mind about him on the table. Talk to him about it and hopefully he will understand and you two can work it out. I'm not making any decisions for you, that is for you to decide. But, if it were me, if he does not change within the next 2 weeks or less, I would break it off and give the next guy (customer) a chance to treat you better and your kids. You should really think this through and realize that there is someone better out there for you, and your husband is obviously not attempting to mature your relationship, so you really need to get with someone who will mature your relationship and keep your spirits extoled.

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I have a boyfriend right now but i feel like my feelings for my ex have been comming back.
I dont know if i should just i.m. him and like catch up but i havent talked to him in about a year and i dont know what to do. Any suggestions?

Obviously, if you are still thinking about a past relationsip while you are in your current relationship than your current partner is doing a good enough job of helping keep your mind off of ex and more on him. So I believe that if you feel stronger for your EX than your BF... You need to break it off, and you need to confront your EX and be straight-up with him and tell him that you miss him and that you want to work things out. IT is better than knowing that you care for someone stonger than your current BF and you know that you'd rather be with your EX than your current BF.

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