Hey Guys, I'm Jasmine, I'm sixteen years old,a junior in high school,on student council, a cheerleader, an ambassador, and a very nice person! I hope you guys ask me whatever is on your mind!!!!I hope you have a wonderful day!~~~~Jazz
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okay this friday i'm going to hangout with this boy, lets call him charlie. I want to become FWBs(friends with beninfits) but i dont know how to make the 1st move or get him to make one. any suggestions? ill be in a hot tub and walking around with some other people (i rate high)
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Haha, umm pretty much just go for it, just be like "how many people have you made out with in a hot tub?" and then he'll answer and then just be like "wanna add to that number?" i dunno with stuff like that you just have to go for it, i hope i helped!
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yeah okay. so i went out with this guy and he dumped me and he was but anyway i was really upset about it. and now he likes me again and i like him soo much and i loved what we had but like my best friend hates him and thinks that he a complete @$$! and like she's always like oh please dont go back out with him please dont. i mean what do i do? do i go out with him? oh and another thing lol um its like i really wanna be with him again, but then again i dont wanna go back to my past, but theres no one else out there and i really like him. lol sorry if its confusing and long but i really need the help (link)
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Go for it, it your friend doesn't like him that's her business, she doesn't have to go out with him. If she's a good friend she will have your back 100 and 10 percent and you should tell her that. Tell him he has one more chance to break up with you though because if you let him keep breaking up with you and get back together he's going to walk all over you. I hope I helped! xoxo
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last night i went over my friends house for his birthday. the situation is hard to explain but, i really like him. i went out with him before but he broke up with me after 4 days. which i guess hardly counts. but we've been flirting ever since we broke up. i always flirt with him and i've hooked up with him a few times in the last few weeks. i know im not gonna be able to go out with him because of the way he is and cant stick to a commitment. so last night my best friend was cuddling with him on the couch. it was really ticking me off. she knows i like him and always yells at me for flirting with him so much because "im gonna get myself hurt" but last night she was all over him. i think he's mad at me. im not sure though... i wasnt supposed to be out last night. i said i was at a friends house because i wasnt supposed to be over this guys house. i also slept over his best friends house and he was there until 2:30 am before he went home. im sick of being hurt because i like him. and i try to stop liking him but i just cant. can anyone help? (link)
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You can't change your feelings for one. So don't try to, it will just make you feel worse. No, four days doesn't really count. You need to stop hooking up with him because then he knows that any time another girl won't give him what he wants, you will. So you need to make sure you keep it on a friends level with him. Don't flirt as much ,DON'T hookup ,make him jealous if you want to , but not to the point where you look permiscuous. Don't hook up with other people to make him jealous, it will just cause drama. Tell your friend it hurt your feelings that she was all cuddled up with him. I don't know how old you are so I can't tell you the whole "commitment" situation because if your'e in like 9th grade or under commitments don't really exsist. If he doesn't want to be with you, you are wasting your time. I hope I helped. Have a fantastic day :)
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ok well muh ex bf juss broke up with me last night. we went out for 3 weeks but we been talkin since da first week of school. and we talked a lot PRETTY much every night n in school. after he broke up with me i cried for about 20 min or so but now i dont really care dat we're not together or do I? bcuz da nite he broke up with me he went out n he was talking to this girl but she thinks hes just cute thats all they know each other bout 5 yrs now. but im so jelous EVEN THOUGHT THEY R JUS FRIENDS. im reali upset dat me n him wont talk as much anymore. i have to see him at school and same lunch table AUGH! BUT EVEN though it seems i have a lot of feelings for him still BUT I DONT! so do u think im right for being jelous and what should i do if he stops talking to me as much? (link)
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Being jealous is something that is normal. If you are jealous you still have feelings for him, they may not be huge feelings, but feelings nontheless. He probably won't talk to you as much as he did, but let him know that you would still like to be cool even though you aren't together. If he doesn't want that then you don't need him. Make sure that you don't show you're jealous. Don't be mean or ignore the other girl if you are ever around her. It's pretty natural for guys who have girlfriends to stop talking to thier old ones as much, so don't worry about that, involve yourself in other things like school, or your favorite hobby. Now that you and him aren't together anymore this is your opportunity to give 100% to something else. I hope I helped. Good luck!
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hey- i like this guy. and i was talkin to him the other day on aim and he asked me if i had a bf, i said no. then he asked me who i liked. i told him that i wasnt gonna tell. when i asked him who he liked, he said he wasnt gonna tell either. so i asked him how many classes he had with this girl. and he said one(i am in only one of his classes). then i asked him which period, and it was the period that i have with him. and i narrowed it down and i think that it might be me bc he says that he wont tell me UNTIL I TELL HIM FIRST! should i tell him that i like him and hope for the best, or not say anythign at all? help me!
thanks!
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You should absolutely tell him! I mean you have nothing to lose, it's kind of obvious that it is you. Tell him how you feel! GO for it! Good luck xoxo
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Last night,I was at a hockey game with my dad and my girl (ex girlfriend now) called me and started cursing me out. She said somebody called her house and cursed her mom out,and her mom said it sounded like me,when it wasn't me who really did it. So she broke up with me and Heidi (my ex) is punished for a very long time. Her mom took away her cell phone,and a bunch of other crap,and Heidi simply refuses to speak a word to me. I don't know what to do. Should I:
1) Give her a couple of days and hope she'll listen to me when I try to explain to her it wasn't me that called her house (I have my dad as proof.)
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2) Just move on with my life
This girl means everything to me,and I would do anything to get her back,no matter what extremes I would have to take. I love this girl with all my heart and I really want her back. Please help me out. Thanks (link)
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Do the best you can to get her to talk to you for a minute, tell her to give you one minute, don't do it on the phone because she can put it down, or hang up on you. Talk to you Dad about it and go to her house (with him) and tell her you apologize for it happening to her but you didn't call her and cus her out. Give your girl some flowers, (i know i use that one a lot but it works!) tell her that she means the world to you and that you would never do anything to hurt her especially her and her mom. Good luck man. xx
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theres a girl that im really close to..she used to like me a lot and i love her and we were like /-/ this close to going out, but she stopped liking me..she said she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend (personality wise not looks) and i just dont understand how after we had done so much and gone through a lot together..she cant picture me as her boyfriend and everything..i have told her how i feel, i have made a move, she has been to my house many times, we have gone out on "dates" sorta...and i love her, i just want her to like me again, please tell me how to get her to like me again...oh and she likes a sophomore at my school now and people have told me that she might still like me and shes just confused but i dont think she does...i really want her back, i need her :( if you give me a helping answer then ill rate you a 5 DO NOT TELL ME TO GET OVER HER!!! i have tried and it isnt happening! (link)
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Tell her how you feel, be sweet about it, give her some flowers, write her a poem, girls love that kind of stuff, if she acts like she doens't like that, ignore her and just focus on something else.That will drive her crazy, and then she will come back to you, then if you start going out be sweet, and treat her like the princess she is.
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Ok this is how it goes...This past friday night this girl, lets say her name is sarah invited me to her house.. I was wit 2 of my friends and we were only gunna go there for a couple minutes..While we were there me n sarah kissed and during us kissing she said she didnt want it to seem like she was leading me on and that we were friends with benifits..i dont really wanna b friends wit benifits and now in her info she has sumthin that says "crushing"...is that about me or about some one else...i asked her and she didnt tell me, idk if it was bc i was wit my friend or wat but i want answers..please help (link)
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Yeh, she's probably crushing on you, I wouldn't worry about it. I mean do you like her? And if you do, don't make it such a big deal, just tell her you like her, if you don't STAY AWAY lol hope I helped, Good luck
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I was thinking...do any of you agree with the saying, the right guy will come when you stop looking? (link)
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Absolutely.
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Is it normal 4 a high school junior girl who is 17 years old to go out with a guy who is a freshmen in college and who is about 19or 20 years old? (link)
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Well, if he's 19 it's cool, if he's 20 technically it's illegal
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months, and are head over heals for eachother presently. The only problem is that I see him for a week every 3 months or so... its enough to drive a person crazy... he lives so far away, and now that I'm at college things are really hard... dumping him isn't an option, because we are that close, and its the closest thing to I've every felt if not love itself... I just don't know how to deal sometimes, its so frustrating not being able to see him, and to touch him... basically what I'm asking, is does anyone know of anyway to make this any easier till we can be together again... thanks (I will rate) (link)
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ummmm....really there is nothing that you can do, i see my man once or twice a month if I'm lucky, and I have tried to find the same answer but there really is nothing you can do other than what you are doing now. Sorry. Good luck! xoxo
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Okay!Well a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend who I am madly in love with. He is in love with me too but it is a long distance relationship, so I thought that he and I being friends would be the best thing for now. Yeah I couldnt see him whenever I wanted but just being able to talk to him made me happy. Our relationship was made up of trust and love. He is so in love with me. I miss him so much. He is now dating a gurl who he loves as a friend not a gf. we havent talked since we broke up bc it is so hard too. I had my friend call him and I grabbed the phone when he picked it up and hung up. Then she called back and talking to him. He wanted to talk to me but i couldnt bc it was too hard. I kno that no matter what he wants to be with me in the future but right now it is to hard. I also kno that no matter what he will never stop loving me. But what I am getting at is that I dont kno what to do without him .I feel so lost and empty. Like he always used to tell me that he loved me before I went to sleep and it was so conforting. I miss that so much. What should I do? he and I have been through so much in the past and its stuff that is unforgettable. Do you think that he and I will be together in the future. BC he said he wants to me and I DO MORE THEN ANYTHING.Its like if u are in love with someone and it is meant to be then it will happpen right? i hope so!
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O.K. I am in the same situation. You have to talk to him about how you feel,because he probably feels the same way. Just tell him everything you just said, and I'm sure the two of you will find a way to deal with the situation. If he loves you then he will know what to do. I mean just go with your feeling. Tell him everything you told me. Just tell him that you miss him, tell him you feel lost and empty. I'm sure it was meant to be.
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I have liked this guy (we will call him george) for awhile. I never told anyoen so he ended up going out with one of my friends (we will call her katie). So they went out for awhile and for about the last week george has been flirting with me a lot since we were in a play together and we had a lot of rehearsals. Well, katie started to notice that he was flirting with me and then he wouldnt with her. So a few days ago George broke up with katie, katie seemed all excited about it. Then the next day she came up to me and told me i should go out with him. Do you think she is jealous? Or if she really wanted to let go and be set free? i dont want to go out with the guy if its really going to hurt her :-/
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If she told you to go out with him and you really like him then go for it, she needs to stop beating around the bush if she doesn't want you to go out with him. If yall go out and she gets mad it's her fault not yours. But if you do go out try to lay low with your boy for a minute and try not to rub it in her face you know? Just make sure she's cool with it. But if she's over him then she shouldn't have a problem with it. I have always had this theory that your friends shouldn't keep you from going out with someone just because they went out with him and broke up. I hope I helped! xoxo
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ok this is probubly gonna be stupid but i gotta ask for ur help
i just got dumped by my b/f of like almost a year and i was heart broken but i got over it really qwick and yea h i started liking this new guy i know he knows who i am but i think im getting weird vibs around him like at the begining of the year i got nominated for homcoming and he did to and he asked me to walk wit him and he was soo nice then i didnt talk to him for like ever cause i never saw him now i like him but im scared to like wave or say hi or anything cause im afriad hes goona think im stupid or pathetic and i talk to his friends and they all tell me to go for it but i cant i have no idea help me plz!!! (link)
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Go for it! Trust me, if it was there befor it's still there!
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ok im so conflicted
i sit by these to guys in one of my classes and like they always steal like snacks and pop i bring to class and stuff and its fun but me and the kid behind me we like pretned to hit eachother like we could beat eachother up its funny cause hes like 8 inchs taller then me but its like hes always touching me in sum way like prtending to hit me or hit me lightly or holding on to my hair and seeing how long it takes me to noitce and he like taps his foot on my desk and kicks my butt and moves my desk and stuff i dont know if he flirting or if hes just doin it for sumthin to do and even when were not in class he'lll make silly face at me and talk to me and do this thing called jump start where he like pokes me on both of my side on my nerve and it makes me like jumo but plz expalin to me if he flirting or not i can never tell
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He's most definately flirting. Try doing more talking. And if it goes well ask what is up with the two of you. He seems sweet. Have fun xoxx
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i wrote the last question called "my ex" and i forgot to add... there is this boy and he REALLY likes me a lot and he is really sweet.. so dif than my ex.. this kid actually wants to be with mee. and i dno if i should go out with him .. i def wanna wait.. but i dno how to get over my ex.. i try but when he talks to me he flirts so much and just makes me like him.. i need serious help (link)
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Don't flirt with him, what he did was wrong, and rude he comes back to you because he knows you will take him back. I mean find something that you can't stand about him, like he picks his nose or his scabs or something and focus on that, i know it's gross but it works. As for this new guy I think you should go for it, I mean date for a couple of weeks and LET HIM KNOW you are trying to get over your ex so that he's patient with you, and then see if you guys can make it official.Good luck!!! xoxox
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to make a long story very short, a guy named mike has liked me since 7th grade...and i was never interested, persay, now, i like him, and i know he likes me, but hes so shy! everygirl hes dated or liked he never made a move on. tomoro well both be at this haloween party- the parents wont be home and i really want him to open up to me.. talk to me... and if i need to make a move, i will... how do i make a move ona guy? and how can i make him open up and talk to me? (link)
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Try hanging out with him, be A LITTLE more flirty than ususal, and then see if you can get him alone, talk to him for like ten minutes alone, try to get like 3 minutes in to talk about what is going on between the 2 of you and then if he wants to take it a little further just be like "so then lets take it further" and kiss him. Try not to be in front of a lot of people and just be like really cool about it. Good luck!xxx
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OMG!!! i have a huge problem and i need this answer by saturday. here are my choicces for halloween which one should i choose
MY BEST FRIENDS INVITED ME TO STAY OVER FROM SATURDAY TO SUNDAY! (more than 3)
I WAS INVITED TO A PARTY ON SUNDAY NIGHT TO WATCH MOVIES AND PARTY OUT
BEST FRIENDS HOUSE FOR HALLOWEEN (1)
BUT THE PROBLEM IS I HAVE A HUGE TEST ON MONDAY AND IM BOOKED SATURDAY WHAT SHOULD I DO?? WHAT CHOICE?? I NEED TO STDY (link)
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You should have studied tonight, go to your friends house and get her to quiz you for like 30 minutes, then on Sunday find some time during the DAY to study and then study monday morning, that's 2 hours of studying, it's better when it's spread out anyway, you remember more.
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ok i figure im gonna have to start from the beginning i had a b/f and we went out for a little over 6 months then out of no where he text's me at 4 in the morning sayin he likes sum1 else and he wants to break up and that night hes all over this girl at a school game and i seriously wanted to cry the whole time i went home and cry then he comes on and tells me the real reason that he dumped me was cause i treated him like shit when he always made me cry and i gave up goin to cali to hang out wit him so now the girl he dumped me for dont like (if she ever even did) so now hes actin all depressed and talking to me when he knows i dont wanna talk to him and i like this other guy whos sooo swert to me and is so nice and hung out wit me that night at the game and listen to all the stuff i said about him and yeah no hes trying to ask me to hang out and stuff and the guy i like is starting to act kinda wierd what am i supposed to do i have no intrest in being my ex's friend cause of what he did but i cant help feeling bad for him SUM! HELP ME PLZ!!!! (link)
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Don't blow him off, you can't just go around not giving people second chances. He made a mistake.. he's a boy, you can't just cut your ex out of your life, I mean how would you feel if you made ONE mistake and your boyfriend cut you completely out of his life. Just be his friend and go for it with the other guy he seems sweet talk to me again and tell me how it turns out. xoxo
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ok Here I go, I really really really like this guy. I met him at a party (i knew him i just didn't know him know him) and my friends kept telling me that he looked like he likes me. (paying attention to me, flirting) So like a week later I began to fall head over heels for him. I don't see him that often at school and when I do we give a little wave. I just don't have the guts to tell him. I want him to know but now I'm very insecure about when I like guys cause I always get heartbroken. Lets just say, I basically fell for the wrong guys. I know I should just move on. But its always going to be there in the pit of my heart. The confusing part is I want him to know and then I don't. Why? Why do I think that way? I'm thinking to myself I'm way out of his league in looks and everything. (you can see my picture on x0x_surfergirl_x0x) Plus he's popular and I DO NOT like getting that whole attention spaz when I'm going out with someone. Sorry for it being sooo long. I'm just really depressed but when I see him my heart flutters. :) What do I do?
xo0x adriana (link)
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Don't worry about it being long. I mean I wish I knew how old you were. You like a guy and then you don't... it's perfectly natural. It comes from when you aren't with a guy and you make out with him and stuff it's the whole having your cake and eating it too. Just be like "hey what's up with us?"I know that you are shy, but don't do the friend thing good luck
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