ok i figure im gonna have to start from the beginning i had a b/f and we went out for a little over 6 months then out of no where he text's me at 4 in the morning sayin he likes sum1 else and he wants to break up and that night hes all over this girl at a school game and i seriously wanted to cry the whole time i went home and cry then he comes on and tells me the real reason that he dumped me was cause i treated him like shit when he always made me cry and i gave up goin to cali to hang out wit him so now the girl he dumped me for dont like (if she ever even did) so now hes actin all depressed and talking to me when he knows i dont wanna talk to him and i like this other guy whos sooo swert to me and is so nice and hung out wit me that night at the game and listen to all the stuff i said about him and yeah no hes trying to ask me to hang out and stuff and the guy i like is starting to act kinda wierd what am i supposed to do i have no intrest in being my ex's friend cause of what he did but i cant help feeling bad for him SUM! HELP ME PLZ!!!!
Briht_knee_89 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 9:52 am: no bodys perfect. and neither is ur ex. he messed up but im sure u can name lots of times when u've messed up. its only human. and by not helping him, it just means ur sto0ping down to his level. so id say hear him out and just tell him that u will b there 4 him, even tho he was never really there 4 u. and if i was you tell him how bad he hurt you, and that u feel bad for his situation, and will listen to what he says, but there will never be nething between the two of you b/c of how badly YOU got treated last time. and go for the other guy. the sweet one is the one you need to hang out with.. but dont just completely blow off ur ex.. i mean.. if u had been the one at the game with another person.. and he wudnt ever talk to YOU again, you prolly wudnt feel to go0d. so just lo0k at the situations from both sides. hope i was of SOME help.. BEST OF LUCK* feel free to ask me nething if u need to0. boys r complicated.. i know. x o x o brittany L0v3 [ Briht_knee_89's advice column | Ask Briht_knee_89 A Question ]
jazz82289 answered Friday October 29 2004, 11:26 pm: Don't blow him off, you can't just go around not giving people second chances. He made a mistake.. he's a boy, you can't just cut your ex out of your life, I mean how would you feel if you made ONE mistake and your boyfriend cut you completely out of his life. Just be his friend and go for it with the other guy he seems sweet talk to me again and tell me how it turns out. xoxo [ jazz82289's advice column | Ask jazz82289 A Question ]
xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Friday October 29 2004, 11:18 pm: Okay, just blow off your ex!! He is just being an asshole and just probably wants you as a rebound... I think you should start hanging out more with your sweet friend!! I hoped i helped!! :)
Sherry answered Friday October 29 2004, 11:15 pm: Yeah you feel bad for him, but hey he was mean to you so screw him. Hes just trying to make you feel sorry, just try to get with the new guy that you like and forget about your ex. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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