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oy- halloween party tommorrow
to make a long story very short, a guy named mike has liked me since 7th grade...and i was never interested, persay, now, i like him, and i know he likes me, but hes so shy! everygirl hes dated or liked he never made a move on. tomoro well both be at this haloween party- the parents wont be home and i really want him to open up to me.. talk to me... and if i need to make a move, i will... how do i make a move ona guy? and how can i make him open up and talk to me?
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awww....well...u can make a move on a guy by juss flirtin up a storm..and u kno juss say..dat u want him to open up to start da relationship goin...so i guess dats wat i'd do....hope i helped..
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I think that you should go for this guy. He may seem shy but underneath if you go for it i'm sure he'll go with. He may be the type of guy that likes it when girls make the first move, like myself, and is probably too uncomfortable to make the first move. To make him open up i feel that you should just go up and talk to him. introduce yourself and get the convo started yourself. You jkust have to be outgoing and gather your courage and just talk to the guy, I'm sure he'll be dying to tell you what's on his mind! Well good luck and have fun!
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Bring up topics about his life. Ask him "how are you, everything in life good". Bring up subjects you know will interest him and he will want to talk about. To make a move on a guy.. Eh, I'd say try and hold his hand?! That is what I'd do. Girls aren't known to make the moves and I personally don't. I say hold his hand. :)
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If you really want him to open up, start with small things, like whatever he's really interested in. From there you can either move on to more serious things and make a few flirty comments or you can keep conversation light and pray that he'll make the first move. However, if he really is super shy then I personally suggest moving on and being flirty. If you're shy too, just be yourself and maybe bat your eyes a little, but not so much someone asks if something's wrong with your eye. If you're bolder than that make skin contact, not a lot, just some. Make sure that's it absoutely obvious that you like him, if he doesn't get the hint, go gossip with his friends. Find out what he thinks about you, if he still likes you. If he still doesn't get the hint, go for it and ask him out, if he says "yes" (which he probably will, if he's liked you since 7th grade) then maybe talk to him a little about this whole shy thing. If he says "no" than grab your best girl friend and ice-cream. Spend the night curled up on your bed talking and eating the good stuff out of the carton. It helps, a LOT.
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Well while you're at the party bring him aside& talk to him..maybe he'll be more open. Alot of guys I know are shy& they open up when their friends are around.. I don't exactly know how to make him open up to you, just try talking to him. Maybe if you start talking first he'll be more outgoing. About making the move on him..just look him in the eyes& he should get the idea..but if not just..go for it! Hope I helped!
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I think that you should ask him questions and randomly talk about something and see what he has to say about it.so he knows your interested in what he has to say..like the first thing that pops up in your head..and if you guys are watching a movie or happening to be playing a make out game or something *idk if you guys do that stuff anymore* but sit acros from each other to make a move and then later if you do watch a movie or when you guys settle down a little bit sit next to him and just wait for the right time..it'll come! I hope I helped! *rate me* I hope everything goes well! Love xoxo-Andie
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Try hanging out with him, be A LITTLE more flirty than ususal, and then see if you can get him alone, talk to him for like ten minutes alone, try to get like 3 minutes in to talk about what is going on between the 2 of you and then if he wants to take it a little further just be like "so then lets take it further" and kiss him. Try not to be in front of a lot of people and just be like really cool about it. Good luck!xxx
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i say u tell him how u feel hang out wit him the night and see what he does drop little flirty hints and see if he sends them back im bet ull be the only thign he thinks about that night
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Ah I hate guys that are shy like that! Well, when you see him at the party, start a conversation with him... small talk "How's school, what sports are you into..." That kind of stuff. A good way to "make a move" suggest to your friend you play twister (This is going to sound crazy but it works, trust me) Get as many people to play including him. Joke around and be like OMG! I'm going to fall and try to catch yourself on him and purposly push him over and fall on him. Try not to make it obvious though. When you fall, start laughing and kinda lean on him while your laughing and then look up at him while you're still laughing and try to get a little serious and look at him straight in the eyes and then kiss him, be it on the cheek or on the lips. He'll be into total shock but after a couple of minutes, he'll start to talk to you more and have his arm around you. I've been there. That's exactly what I did when I met my boyfriend at my friends house. He was sooo shy and we played twister and I kinda pushed him over and I fell on him and we kissed. We've been together ever since. Hope this helped!
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To make a move on a guy, just start talking to him saying "I really like you" and just pour your heart out and lean in and kiss him! Dont make out with him unless he kisses you back but yeah. He'll open up after that, i'm sure. Get his number, email, or IM too.
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