Heyy my names Becca and I'm a sophmore at Niagara wheatfield. I'm on varsity swim and cheerleading, and i play lacrosse too. I love meeting people and stuff like that even though sometimes it might not seem that way. I'm always on the computer...but yeah i suppose thats it for now.
E-mail: iluvkel10@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: March 21, 2005
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iv been going bak and forth between these 2 guys((dating them)) and i luv them both equally and im jst as happy w/ 1 as i am w/ the other..and going bak nd forth like this...its hurting us all..i jst cant do that anymore..im w/ 1 of them now..but i still rele like the other..i dont kno wat 2 do w/ out hurting them..nd myself..wat should i do? (link)
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You have to choose one or neither...just think who you could see yourself with for a long period of time. And who makes you happier, or how bout who your parents like or your friends get along with because alota of times when your friends don't like your boyfriend then their usually right and things end bad. Hope it helps.
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you see.. i like this guy.. and he told me he liked me too..but he has gone thru like 4 girlfriends in the past month and he wont ask me out. Now he has another girlfriend and just before he got her, he said he would ask me out to my friend. But he also said he had to ask this other girl first about if she liked him. but he said he would definately pick me evn if tht other girl did like him. Now he asked her out and theve been going out 4 a while and i cant get him out of my mind.What would u do? (link)
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Talk to him whenever jhis girlfriends not around flirt. ASk him what happen and tell him you thought he was going to ask you out. He can't just forget about you that easily, but if he can go through 4 girlfriends in a month he might not even be worth it. Maybe you should just move on. Hope it helps.
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Becca I'm really upset that you thought my love life was a joke...It was disappointing you couldn't help me with my tittie problem. You think i am joking when i say i want you because i do forget your boyfriend and come down here to new air swamps you'll fit right in with your big boobs. got to go mamas callin gotta go pick up what the rat puked up.
love ya
Billie Willie (aka Big Willy) (link)
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If you live down south, how do you know what i look like? Exactly who is this?? Its getting old.
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hey becca. im in 9th grade 15 years old and im a male. im trying rly hard to impress this girl cause i like her a lot. im sure she knows already. i think people told her but neways i talk to her online alot and i see her at swim stuff and i tell her nice things like shes beautiful and all she says is thats dumb or thats stupid. i dont get it im tryin so hard and shes not cooperating lol. wat shuld i do. i rly rly like her. love swimfan :) (link)
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Well it sounds like your comming on to strong, maybe you shouldn't tell her shes beautiful so much cuz that scares alot of girls off. Just talk to her like shes anyone of your friends and try to make plans for a group outing like movies or bowling or somthing get to know her as a person better. Hope it helps.
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OK so i like this guy, Jeff ALOT. We have been friends FOREVER and now he is acting kind of strange... a couple months ago we had a school dance, we danced together and i was SOOOO happy. I thought he was going to ask me out.. he was giving me all the right signs.. slow dancing, not telling me who he likes when he ALWAYS does and waiting for me after every class but he never asked me out and still hasnt. Do you think i should tell him how i feel? i would make a totally BIG fool of my self telling him this and then him not liking me.... is this just a friend thing? ive tried to make the first move by hugging him but still nothing... plz help i like him.. ALOT! (link)
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I've had that problem before, tell him how you feel because its obvious he likes you alot too. When this happened to me i found out like a month later that the kid had really liked me too but was to shy to say anything and if i would of said somthing then we probally would of hooked up. Good Luck hope it helps.
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Becca I live in New Air Swamps Alabama. I found your screen name one day when I was bored online and I need some advice. I had a women and we were at a party and I met another girl and she sucked my dick there and my girlfriend walked in and saw us. it was ok because i was going to dump her because she had small tits...by any chance do you have big titties? I would love to see a picture of you i need your help in deciding what i should do about my tittie fetish because its getting me nowhere, down here in Alabama the only real love we get is our family. So help me choose between Ms. Flat chest, or Ms. Dick Sucker(38DD) thanks for your help keep in touch (link)
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This is a joke right?? Who is this?
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I need help so bad (link)
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You need help so bad? Well what do you need help with?
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Do you think true love ever dies and if it doesnt how long would you wait for the girl you rly liked or in your case the guy and would you continue to like them if they made it clear they were interested in other guys?please help me out (link)
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True love or a persons first love deffinatly never dies. Chances are if you think you and this girl are truely right for each other, you just might be. If I was truley in love with someone that I thoght was perfect for me i would wait a really long time, but if you rarely talk or if things dont look good then maybe right now your relationship isn't right. Talk to her more and let her date around a bit, don't be controlling about it. When things start to look like she likes you ask her out, but don't give up if you really think its true love. Hope it helps!
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I have cleaned my act up sooo much over the past 4/5 months. I havent done ne thing bad and the entire reason i changed all of it was for a few people that i really care about. One of the people i really like but she doesnt like me and makes it clear in some ways that she doesnt like me. What should I do??? (link)
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Well as long as your act is "cleaned up" your best bet is to stay that way. As for the girl, try and call her more, talk to her on AOL or in school. Try and get to know her better, and most likely as you become better friends she'll grow to like you more. Spend alot of time with her and be "sweet" to her, then when you think the time is right you should let her know exactly how you feel if she dosent already know. Hope it helps!
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O.k i'm 14/fm and live in Texas. I want a b.f. so badly, but none of the boys at my school like me cause i have braces, and i'm 5ft 2inch. I've had boyfriends, but they were'nt very much true b.f.'s. I'm always told by a friend or something that i'll never have a true b.f. that actually likes me, cause they eather say i'm not pretty enough or i'm not smart enough. My dad says i'm pretty, and i get all a's in my classes. How come guy's still don't like me. Maybe a guy could answer this question for me. Thanx lots.
Love- Lacey P.S. i give people who answer nicely 5's.True answers to please. (link)
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Well I don't think the braces should be a problem. I can't say I know personally because i've never had them, but most of my friends do and that never really stoped them. I can understand your height thing though because im barely 5feet myself, but alot of guys go for a short girl because it makes them feel as though they can easily protect you. Maybe you're not getting a boyfriend becaue you only want one just to want one? But i've come to find that if you stop trying really hard and killing yourself over it the right guy will just come. Most likely, hes right there in front of you. Hoope it helps!
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i dont know everyone always says "your to abusive" because ill hit guys and stuff just messing around but i guess that is my way of flirting with them but it dosent work aparently what are some ways i could be nicer or just flirt in a more gentle way? thank you. (link)
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I'm the same way, but mostly the abusive comments are comming from the girls right? And a few guys. Well some guys go for it and others don't. It also makes alot of girls jealous because when a guy does like it he'll flirt back alot. Let me guess, you have more guy friends than girls? Or you hang with them more often? Wll i hope im right because thats alot like me too. But as far as other ways to flirt when the hittings not working.
~when u walk by someone wink and then like smile they'll know your joking but its also flirting
~OK theres this thing i dont know what to call it but you put your hand on their leg and move it up and ask them when they feel "uncomfortable"
~if they play sport go to their games and cheer for them and hang out afterwards
~if you play sport tell them that they should go to your games
~laugh and smile alot
well i guess thats it hope it helps
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well whenever this kid i like, matt, stands near me or walks by i always feel like i have to be talking to one of my friends. what does this mean? (link)
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Well it usually means that since you like him you don't want him to see you alone. Because we always think "if im by myself it will look like im a loser" Also you might be trying to avoid direct eye contact because if your always staring then he'll get the hint. Umm thats all I can say really but i hop it helps.
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okay there is this guy i like but he is in 11th grade and im in 9th and he sits at my lunch table n all of a sudden like a few months ago he just stated to sit next to me and stuff and flirt kinda and ive had ppl at my table come up 2 me and say i think you 2 should go out. But hes also a big partier if u kno what i mean n ive heard stories about him that arnt too good like hes always partying n stuff like that. And i know that he used to smoke but he swears he hasnt for like 6 months and says that he is quitting so thats good i guess... right? but he rly is a nice kid dont get me wrong there and plus hes madd funny. and i had a friend ask him who he liked and he said no1 at our lunch table right now but possibly in the future. And im rly confused... should i like this kid?
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I know hes a great guy and i seriously think he quit. I dont think he would pressure or drag you into the partying that he does. Yea hes funny i mean who else does random things like wear purses around their neck or run around the cafeteria with a pope hat that sam made. If you start to get to know him better he has to like you, plus you always have your other friends at the table since everyone thinks you guys should go out. Trust me people talk when your not there. ((okay in case people are reading this and asking what im talking about....i know the girl asking this....i sit at the table...and felt like being funny and responding))
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OK I think i LOVE one of my best friends.We became good friends in the 7th grade but i met him in kindergarden.He knows I like him and all that but he always tends to like my best friends.I just don't know what to say to him or anything.He's leaving to Florida saturday for 15 days for spring break and im in the 8th grade and i never had a boyfriend yet and he's my first REALLY BIG crush.HELP! (link)
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Just start to talk to him more. Since your such close friends he won't find it odd more. Try and hang out just the two of you instead of with a group. Kinda hint to him that you like him, without telling him directly. Flirt alot and as "what if" questions ex. what if i asked you out right now? Hope it helps!
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OK f/13/
i go to a privet school ok but don't think i am a prep. ok i have long blond hair and blue eyes, and i am short like maby 4'8" or 4' 9" and none of the guys in my grade(7th ) like me and its like i just feel realy left out some times from my friends and all the "popular" girls just go out with guys to have a boyfriend i think and i am like not desperat but i want to like some one and and want some one to like me with out it being grows . is this normal or am i just a freak over reacting. help and what do guys like in girls at the age about 13. (link)
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Okay well you deffenatly shouldn't worry about it. I see alot of couples in my school and yeah sometimes when your alone it's lonely feeling but it's normal your only human. More than likly you shouldn't just go out with someone because you want a boyfriend, because if they really like you, you could hurt them. If you stop really thinking about guys and stop worrying about looking someone will just come to you. Take a look at your close guy friends, alot of good couples start out as good friends because they know each other so well, but be careful some good friendships are supposed to be good friendships. Hope I helped!
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One of my ex's moved back and he is trying to pry me away from my boyfriend. He is also always teasing me for the worst things and he won't stop. I can't stand him!!! He is awful. So how am I suppose to deal with this jerk?? Please help!! (link)
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Try talking to him aobut it, tell him you don't want to be with him and your happy with your current love. Tell him he needs to stop teasing you because its getting old and its just m,aking him look like a jerk. If that don't work then talk to your boyfriend aobut it, so theres no trouble tell your boyfriend that you arn't interested in him. Hope it helps! Good Luck!
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ok well you see i have this friend and well he flirts with me all the time i mean really flirts and him and my brothers are friends and he says he cant do anything witch means he cant have a relationship but then again he asked all these sexual questions and well bascially he wants to have sex and well im still a virgin in every way and i dont want to but hes very persusve and well i tell him no but he still asks and if theres no relationship i cant do that im mean im16 not stupid and i dont beleive in fwbif so what should i do give in or stand my ground. (link)
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Deffinatly stand your ground. If thats not somthing you want to or feel comphertable doing then don't. It kinda sounds like all he wants is sex. If he really liked you he waould wait and theres no point in getting caught up with people who only want sex. Because you will end up hurt. Stand your ground!! Hope it helps!
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i am 13/f and i like one of my best friends! i liked him for about 3 months now and all i have found out was that he has a girlfriend... thats like all he ever talks about! One day when i was hanging out with him and a couple of friends and we kinda made a bet about if this one basketball team wins that i would have to ask him out... well they won and i did and i told him it was a joke and he said idk ill think about it... but i dont know if he was joking or not to and then today at lunch he said yes... but he is known to make alot of jokes and i bet he is gonna turn around and say just jokin so idk what i should do... i bet he was joking... but he could be serious. how do i found out if he was joking or serious w/o him finding out that i kinda was serious?
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This is really tough...talk to your closet friend that also knows him well enough to talk aobut that. Find out if he is breaking up with his current girl and if he like you as more than a friend. You never knows since you guys are really good friends..that happens alot to me and my friends...their really good guy friends will start to like them from talking so often. Well i hope i helped Good Luck!
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14/m,
Theres a girl in my school that i went out with last year only for a short time though. she broke up with me. now im starting to like her again because we have become more close. we talk alot online. i havent told her anything about me liking her and im scared she wouldnt like me. i doubt she would like me. wat do i do to get her to like me and try n hint i like her (without actually saying it) o and i only c her on occasion in skool. like once a day. Thnx (link)
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You sound alot like me and htis one boy in my school. I am also 14 and we have dated before too. We have also been talking alot lately and im starting to like him. I don't see him very much in school but we tlak on the phone alot. I suggest that you call her more because unlike AOL or AIM its more personal because you can talk and hear tones of voices (yea i know it sounds odd but trust me here) Try and see each other outside of school and yes, subtly hinting that you like her is good. Ask "sarcastic" or "what if" questions like, if me and you were alone in a hot tub what would you do?" ya kno? i do it alot...well im a girl but the guy usually starts comming up with his own questions. i really hope i helped!
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There is a girl i like who is 15. i am a few months younger. i have been hinting i like her but i dont think she is getting it. she probably doesnt like me but is there a way i can change that. we have developed a rly good friendship (link)
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Well theres not alot you can do really. Besides trying to spend more time together. Try and tell her you like her but don't come right out and say it, because there is a chance that might be to straightforward for her. Try and see each other outside of school like movies or sporting events. Be really "sweet" to her and subtley flirt. Hope this helps you out!
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