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I'm 13, and a pretty average girl. I know a lot about fashion and some stuff about makeup, some things about music, books, tough stuff, and overall a lot about the teenage years. So if you'd like to ask me anything (and not have it displayed on advicenators), feel free to email me anonymously! Also, if you ask me a question, you can trust that you won't get a stupid or mean answer! I promise! :)
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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up and I need to figure out what to get him. In his myspace he has a picture of a giraffe ( I don't know he's just random like that ) anyways, above it hes like," my birthdyas coming up, get me this " i know he's like joking, but do you think it'd be kinda funny or something if i actually got him it? Haha.. I have no idea. It's my first boyfriend I dunno how to shop for them lol. He also was joking around once and was like," Get me a red mercedes with black interior and booming music " so I was thinking about getting him a little hot rods car. I don't know. Does it sound to cutesy? If it does, can you possible suggest some other ideas? Thank you so much.
p.s. We've been dating for..2 weeks now. And by the time his birthday comes, it'll be 4 weeks and something days. Please help, once again, thank you so much
Honestly, I think if you get him a joking gift, it might suggest just friendship. So you could give him the giraffe or hot rods car, but then say, "just kidding," and give him something else more meaningful to you both.
Hope this helps!
Well I have some boyfriend but I really want to have one. But I don't want to ask anyone else also I dont want to look like a fool.
So if anyone can Help me please reply
I'm not exactly sure what you mean with your question, but I hope I can help. Do you like anybody? If so, make eye contact with him, smile, and make small talk too. If he likes you back after flirting with him, then he may want to be your boyfriend. Boys are really complicated, but really simple at the same time. So take it slow, and if he doesn't like you back, then there's not much else to do besides move on. hope i helped! =)
Alright this may seem pathetic.. but I just realized I don't like my boyfriend that much anymore... I just can't dump him because I.. don't know I juust can't do it! So I was going to try to get him to dump me.. the only thing is I don't know how!! The one thing I don't wanna do is cheat on him! So does anyone have any ideas on how I should go about doing this!?
Be honest with him. Don't go make him dump you. Then you might lose a chance of friendship after the breakup you could have had. If I were in your situation, I would tell him face to face that it's just not working. But DON'T make him dump you. That's playing with his mind, and it's not fair to him. So be truthful, and, as I always say, go with your gut. :)
There is a guy that I like and I’ve never kissed before and I was thinking of going for a French kiss if I get to kiss him, but then I though about it and I started wondering if it’s a turn off for guys if you French kiss them on the first kiss. Can you, please, give me your opinion? And my second question is, do guys judge you on the way you kiss, is it very important to them if you are a good kisser or not?
Depends on the moment. A lot of times, regular kisses turn into French kisses, so then you don't have to worry. It also depends on the guy. If he seems private and wants to take it slow, French kisses may not be his thing. But if you sense an immediate attraction, you could go for it. It all depends on the mood. Just go with your gut. :)
Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 months now. Anyway, at the beginning ont the relationship we'd be so eager to talk to eachother, and talk on the phone every night, and ditch friends for eachother, etc.
Now, we don't talk on the phone for periods of time. (Right now it's been 11 days since I've talked to him on the phone) And we hang out amazingly less, and I don't feel the urge anymore to check the computer every 5 minutes to see if he's online. When I do get to talk to him, I feel so uninterested. I could honestly go days without talking to him, and it wouldn't bug my anymore. Sometimes I cry because I don't understand what's happening, and it really upsets me. Could it be that I'm just losing interest/we both are in eachother? :(
Tuesday night on AIM I told him that I felt I was losing interest in him, and he repsonded, "Geez, I like you a lot, I can't just stop." Then he put up an away message that said, "I fucking screwed up somehow." And signed off. We eventually resolved the problem, but I feel I lied. I told him I still did like him, and I was stupid to say that. But really, I feel EXACTLY like that. I'm not as interested. What's happening? Do I WANT to get over him or something..?
Thank you.
Don't keep going on like this is you don't feel the same way. He may be crazy about you, but it's not fair to him if you don't feel the same way. Now, I don't know for sure, but it looks to me like you have lost interest in him. I don't think you WANT to get over him, but relationships fade. The first weeks (or months) are usually exciting and fun. You're lying to your self by saying you still like him. I would slowly let him down, saying you think he's a great person (after all, he wouldn't be your boyfriend if you didn't think so, right?) but you don't want to go on like this. He might be devastated, so try to help him as much as you can. But it's not fair to him if you keep giving in. I hope this helps!
What should I get my boyfriend for his birthday (he'll be 16)? I know what he likes, but he's already got a billion of those things already. I wanted it to be different and unique. My friend had the idea of getting him like a build-a-bear that i make with a birthday outfit and stuff. Does that sound totally cheesy or is it a cute idea? I wasn't sure.. But if you have any other good ideas, please help me!
The Bulid-a-Bear is not totally cheesy. That could be an option, or you could get him something personalized, like a picture of the two of you in a nice frame, or some art you made, or something handmade. Ask him what he wants and go from there. For instance, if you ask him and he says he wants a certain CD get him one from the same genre. Or, since he's turning 16, you could get him something car-inspiried, as he would be getting his liscense soon (i'm guessing). I hope this helps!
okay. me and one of my Ex's broke up 7 months ago! And now,, one of my friends asked him if he still likes me, and he said "well....it was b'cuz of baseball...." (that he broke up w/ me)And never really answered her question.
Since then, hes been staring at me in the halls. And flirting w/ me. Just not talking to me.
Do he still have feeling for me or what?
it really confused!!!HELP
Unless he's a player, if he's flirting with you and staring at you he probably still likes you. Guys are shy and are not as talkative as girls, lol. You should probably talk to him face-to-face to find out why he broke up with you in the first place. It could have been another girl and now that she's gone, he has his eye on you, which is not so great since you'd be the rebound. But it could be about him. Honestly, I have no clue why he broke up with you, something about baseball? I don't know. But it sounds like he still has feelings for you. I would have a good talk with him to find out the truth.
16/f
I'm extremely shy, and I've never had a boyfriend, or a kiss. I want a boyfriend.. should I continue to be shy, do guys think it's cute? Or should I push myself to be more outgoing.. but idk how? I try to be myself, but I get so insecure, I always think people are judging me. I've had a few boys ask me out and everything.. but they were all losers, not to be mean or anything. So it's not like i've never had a chance of having a boyfriend. How do I get a decent guy to notice me?
Well I'm also extremly shy, and have a hard time around guys and have never had a boyfriend or a kiss either. Personally, I don't think guys are attracted to someone who's going to flirt around everyone (meaning most of the male species).
Just so you know, people aren't judging you. Guys want you to be yourself, and I can tell you know that. So just trust your gut. Even if you haven't found the right guy yet, or even a fairly decent one, just be patient. Your time will come.
I need help... well i am going out wit someone lets call him Jason! well anyways I really like Jason but I really love my old boyfreind lets call him Jon.. well me and Jon talk alot on the phone.. i loved him since we started goin out heck, ive liked him since i first saw him! lol .. well what I am asking is should i break up with "Jason" or stay with him.. I mean i like him and dont want to hurt him but I love Jon! I cant not think about him.. i dont kno I am so confused
This is a hard one. You like the guy you're going out with, but you like your old boyfriend more. Why did you break up with Jon in the first place? If you remember why, you might have some different opinions. Maybe he broke up with you. But if you really like Jason, you need to be fair to him and give him a chance. It's hard to let go to the ones you love (meaning Jon) but you two will still stay friends. You can also love him as a friend if you'd like to think of it that way. But if you feel like you're not being fair to Jason and Jon wants to get back together, tell them both your true feelings.