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Heyyy!!!! What's up everyone. I'M BACK!!! my name is Catherine. I am 15 years old. I may be a minor you will be surprised of what I know, especially things I haven't been trough. Just leave anything you want to talk about in my inbox.





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i did an answer.. ive been bi sexual now for like 9 months .. i dated a girl for 7 months and now im with a new one.. but is this just a phase or not.. hoe do i know.. does anyone know.. can anyone help.. please.. thanks!!!

Well, I know how you feel, I sorta of have an interest in girls, but then again I wouldn't go out with them. So I guess you can say I am abit bi "curious", anyways, well it depends how you feel about the girls you have been with. I COULD be a phase. But sometimes fades can become a change in you entire life. Just don't be afraid to show the real you, til then you'll probably figure it all out yourself. Take care ^^

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So there's this guy who i've liked for a year now. I told him I liked him a month ago because I thought he liked me too. He didn't really respond. So now it's summer and we don't see each other. I should get over him, but I really don't WANT to. It's fun thinking about him, and he also never really gave me a response, so there's a possibility that something could happen next year. Is that okay?

Honey, if your heart tells you not to move on, don't move on yet. But if he still has NO response next year. Then TWO words...Forget HIM....your waiting long enough. Sure you can still think of him once in awhile. No one is stopping you think of him. But I'm just saying. Don't WAIT for him to come to you. It will take him forever unless he KNOWS what he lost. If he doesn't realize what he lost. Then he wasn't worth waiting for in the first place. Hope that helped. Good luck.

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alright so me and this guy we'll say his name is "josh" were going out for about 8 months and i really loved him a lot and right before school started he broke up with me and i was like in shock because it was so random that he broke up with me and after everything he's said to me about how much he loved me and he got over it pretty quick and it took me like over 6 six months to get over him and he was going out with all these girls and he barley even talked to me anymore then i finally said yes to going out with this guy "peter" and "josh" got really jealous and broke up with his girlfriend and he keeps calling me now and saying how wrong he was for braking up with me and how much he wants me back and i really like "peter" a lot but "josh" is trying to get me to brake up with "peter" and i dont know what to do, i tried telling him it was over between us but he hes a really good sweet talker and i just said i have to think about it but i dont want to brake up with "peter" so what should i say to "josh" so he'll leave me and "peter" alone? like i dont want to be mean and be like fuck off but i dont want him to keep calling and trying to brake us up..

Let me break it down abit hun, okay this "josh" person ou speak of. You need to tell him straight up, "you broke my heart once I'm NOT going to let you do that again". If he doesn't get the picture. Then at a certain point your gonna need to tell him to fuck off when needed to. Don't be afraid to be honest with "Josh", you don't need that heartbreak again. You need to tell him that. Hope it works out for you hun.

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at first i didn't pay her no attentions at all she was so in love with me but then out of certain we broke up. i do like her now but she told me that when i am really want relationship i should come back. i call her and beg her but she try to play me so i told her that i need her anyways the relationship should stay and she should get out of my car so she did and since then i don't call her neither her but the part of it is that she don't speak to me any more which i don't care but again she told me that she don't want relationship anymore i am cool but she don't say hi to me anymore so definately what going on and i don't have a problem with it either

Well, let me get this straight. You want to know why she is kind of upset about the relationship? Am I right? And yet she won't talk to you not even a hello. Well certainly she is probably ignoring you know, cause you must've hurt her really bad. Women like to CHANGE men. And yoou say you care for her. Maybe try showing it. The reason she doesn't care about you is cause...you gave up to easy on this relationship you once had. She wil come back to you once she knows you care, and will always care for her no mater what. Love her passionatly. Show it. Don't hide it.

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Me and my best friend (kahli) went to party a couple nights ago. And emily came up to us and told us that Makayla was saying she was going out with brien (kahli's boyfriend,) And then makayla came over and said not to be mad at her because brien asked her out and said he broke up with kahli on the last day of school, but he never did.He also said that he didnt ask out Makayla .So kahli keeps texting and calling him but he won't respond. Is he cheating?

I think there might be a possibility, you need to find out the facts. If you notice spending WAYYYY to much time together, then that might be some kind of clue. Your friend needs to speak with both of them. If kahli gets the chance, look through his phone and his texts. Make sure he doesn't see ou do that, so he doesn't sense any jealousy.

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I have a friend and we used 2 go out. He now has a new gf but keeps asking me to go to te movies with him. Would it b wrong to go 2 the movies with him? would it b better 2 ask his gf first?

I think it's okay for two friends to go on a movie. But if he gets a little flirty and touchy tell him back off you have a girl, and you don't have to ask his girl if it's okay. It's both you and your FRIEND'S decision. ^^ Hope I helped.

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im almost 15 and i have been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. One of his good friends who is a girl needs him for what shes going through at home right now. He admits that he has neglected me for his attetion has been focused on her. (BTW she likes him) I have told him that she has beginning to get between us, but he fails to see it and says im the only one who sees it. So what is really between us then? Am I right? Or is there something else?

The thing between you two is the most famous thing in any relationship, Jealousy. Don't worry about it it happens very often. Just don't let it bother you, in fact help out with her problems too. She might need comfort, help HIM to help HER. ^^

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I feel like drinking BLEACH
So, my best friend got this IM from this random guy, so I added him on my buddylist thinking I would just IM him later to see who he is... and stuff.

And so, I IMed him today, and we started talking and he doesn't go to my high school and everything, and he seemed nice and all. Then my ex boyfriend, my best friend, and my other friend that went to school with him said that he was really weird, and he's just not my type. He always gets turned down, and I feel terrible. He asked me out on a date and I said yeah, because I didn't want to be like NO, I mean, what the heck, I just met this guy and he's asking me out?! I just don't know what to do. I'd feel way too bad just being like NO, and stuff.. I can't do things like that.
Help?

Hey, just give him a chance. There is no harm in that hun. If he doesn't seem like your type just tell him you want to be friends. GOOD friends...so he doesn't feel hurt ^^

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15/f
I'm sort of dating this guy. Well we went out once to the movies. He wanted us to go to the movies last summer but i told him i just wanted to be firends then he asked me again and sence i have nothing better to do i decided to go see if things would work out. At the movies they never turned the lights off so i think thats why he didn't make a move but i've never been kissed and im kinda scared and kinda using him because i dont really like him and just wanna get my first kiss and hook up over with. It's really embarassing when people talk about guys and how far they have gone and i havn't done anything. So should i go to the movies with him again or should i say no because i don't like him...i also feel bad cuz i regeted him alot before...i just wanna be kissed ugh sorry this was so long. Thank in advance for the advice

Well hun, I think you should save your kiss for someone special. And you don't have to reject him in a boyfriend girlfriend date, just say "sure let's go, but as friends." Just cause your friends went to a certain limit doesn't mean YOU should...espicially for someone you don't even like. Hope I helped

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I'm a guy, 16, and just need some advice on how exactly to flirt with girls. Like how do I flirt with this girl i like, without sounding annoying doing it and having her like it too? Thanks.

Okay, girl LOVE it when you compliment them, tell them teir beautifulm they have the most cutest eyes. And make her laugh, girls love guys with a sense of humor. and try and show them you can be serious when it comes down to relationships and stuff. I hoped I helped.



Sincerely,
Cathy

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My cousin asked me to play on his team in softball this year for the 4th of July (traditional event). I said yes. Then my cousin told me that my crush was going to be on the same team. I thought this might be a really good chance to talk to him. Do you have any pointers? Ice breakers? Anything that can mean us talking like friends?

Well, I agree with CalamityStrike. But don't think of him as a crush just think of him as a new friend. It'll make the conversation you know, more comfertable.

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Well, ok. I'm 16 and I've been dating an AMAZING guy for 6 months. I am so in love. Well my mom knows this and she knows we want to have sex so she bought us condoms and stuff and then when we told her we did it, she got pissed off and hid the rest of them...

We talked to her about safe and responsible sex (yes I know there is no such thing as 100% safe sex i dont want to hear it.) and she seemed to be open about the idea and then all the sudden she went psycho and wont let me stay at my boyfriends house anymore. He spends weeks at a time over here and she doesnt mind us sleeping in the same room, but I cant stay over there. It is upsetting for me and my boyfriend because I used to stay the night over there all the time. Can anyone tell me why my mom is like this all the sudden? She used to be so cool and then she just changed in the blink of an eye...

Hun, let me say this. Moms can act as cool as they want but in the end, they will be over protective at some point. I guess she is just not ready to let you go. My mom is like that too, very over protective, but she can be cool. Tell her that you know how you feel about him. And that you love your mom no matter what. She just probably thinks of you as her little girl. And she's not ready for that yet...Take care hun.

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is it weird when the girl is taller than the guy in a relationship?

Of course not. it shouldn't matter how tall she is. If you like her go for it

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my boyfriend and i have been together for a year nnow, i love him so much. but my problem is i have had dreams that ive been making out[and more] with guys (that i know like me) and in my dreams i feel happy when i cheat, but when i wake up i feel horribl. anyone know what is going on?
15/f

Maybe your having these dreams is cause you want to experience new things.

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two girls like me and i dont want to hurt either one and (they are both hot other dudes) I like them both how do i decide

You should ask yourself who do I feel more comfterbale with? who can I talk to in my time of need? and yadayadayada....

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Today was the first day of school (wa hoo) and in my tech class there is this really cute guy and i was wondering how to get his attention without really being to obvios like in his face kinda thing thanks =D I rate high =p

I think you should start a conversation. Walk by him with your friends, laugh with your friends. Well it works for me anyway. try to be adorable but kinda pretend he isn't there when of course you know he is :-)

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Which is the best way to get in touch w/ a guy?

Call
Email
in person
pass by in the hall n hand him a note

its nothing personal i just want to know what you think.

All Of The ABOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!

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How can you hint to a guy, that you like him?

what you need to do is flirt. I have a friend who flirts ALOT and let me tell it works.

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ok im 16. i have been w/ my b/f for bout a year n a month. and i just found out im pregnant 6 weeks. i love him very much but my family really doesnt aprove of him or want him in my life! now that they know im pregnant they want to stop seein my b/f becuz they think he is not father figure becuz my b/f isnt really that good guy he drug deals and used to be in gang and used drugs but has sober for about 8 and a half months. i dont know what to do help do i stay with his family and him n leave mine his family loves me sooo much they were always there for me. help. i dont know what to do!!!! HELp
het back to me!

I think you gotta do whats right for ya child. Which means he has to be in your life. Just cause your family don't approve of him doesn't change the fact that he is a father. How does your family know he ain't a good father. You HAVE got to tell your parents "Mom, dad I love you all but you can't take my baby's father out of his/her life, you can't change the fact that we are having a baby 2gether"

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I'm 13 female and i haven't kissed anyone yet...is this normal? Most of my friends have kissed someone but i want to wait until i find someone special. Most girls though have their first kiss when they are 12...am I abnormal? Or just plain 'ol me?

It is normal. I never had my first kiss either. There is nothing wrong with you.

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