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Flirting
I'm a guy, 16, and just need some advice on how exactly to flirt with girls. Like how do I flirt with this girl i like, without sounding annoying doing it and having her like it too? Thanks.
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just talk to her and get to know her. girls, like guys, loveee talking about themselves.
have a nickname for her and compliment her every once in a while. <3
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First off, don't try being sexual to begin with. Being pushy about sex is a major turn-off.
Compliments. Who doesn't love compliments? Make sure they're sincere. And don't overdo it or it'll seem like you're faking it. Nevertheless, one or two really thought out ones like "Your eyes look beautiful in this light" or "You have the most amazing smile I've ever been lucky enough to see" will do the trick.
Make eye contact. Don't stare her down, but let her know you care about what she's talking about. Look at her, nervously look away, then look back. That sends the message. Both genders use this technique.
Play with her hair a little bit. Yeah, it sounds lame, but it works. It'll make her smile.
The most helpful tips I can give you are be yourself and don't be so nervous. Girls are regular people just like you. Furthermore, genuine people are the best so never try to be something you're not.
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Well I can tell you one thing NOT to do... be really touchy. Don't put your hands all over her because I guarauntee that she won't like that. If I had a dollar for every guy thats done that to me, I'd be rich. I gave them all the rejection hotline number =)
Yea, I definatly agree that you need to compliment her, not anything too obsessive, just be like "you look lovely tonight" lightheartedly.
I know that this might sound dumb, but play games with her. Tap her on the shoulder and make it look like it wasn't you, or try to trip her while she's walking (and then catch her)
Tickling is always fun because it's a good way to get close to her without being to upfront about it. That is, of course if your already hanging out with her. Just randomly start tickling her waist. My ex-boyfriend used to do that all the time when we first started hanging out and i didn't mind because it wasn't creepy.
Oh, and don't be too serious. Call her names (that sounds kinda bad but you catch my drift?) Like silly names, like goober. It's not as dumb as it sounds. Don't call her names like idiot or freak becasue that's just not cool.
And I know that this is classic, but don't grab her waist or poke her in the stomach. Every guy does that and it's not cute, it's incredibly annoying and immature.
Just have fun with her and don't get too serious. Suggest that you play cute little games like tag (outside) or truth or dare.
If you play tag, when your it, when you tag her, pick her up. Now I'm rambling, but I think you get the point. Maybe?
Good Luck!
Sarah
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Okay, girl LOVE it when you compliment them, tell them teir beautifulm they have the most cutest eyes. And make her laugh, girls love guys with a sense of humor. and try and show them you can be serious when it comes down to relationships and stuff. I hoped I helped.
Sincerely,
Cathy
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What I love...
is a guy who can make me smile.
That's the main thing.
Make her smile.
Don't forget to smile yourself =]
Eye contact:
Look into her eyes,
but not for too long.
Just long enough to get butterflies.
Cheesy sounding, I know =]
Compliment her:
Tell her she looks nice,
or she smells good.
Make contact with her:
I also really love when a guy holds my hand, unexpectadly.
Like our figners brush, then he grabs my hand ;]
So, if you're both kind of into one another, you can try that.
Tickle her.
Play with her hair.
hope this helps && good luck!
<3 Laura.
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pick up lines are dumb lol
just look her in the eyes, but not the whole time, just at some times.
Talk normally.
talk about your hobbies, anything that you like, try to find something you both have in common.
Try playing a game,
I like the game called truth.
Ask eachother questions and you both have to answer them truthfully, it's a great way to get to know the person better
and if someone says pass then they have to ask you a really hard question that they know you can't answer, if you answer it they win.
if you do, then they lose.
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