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two guys, one girl. HELP!


Question Posted Tuesday July 3 2007, 5:50 pm


alright so me and this guy we'll say his name is "josh" were going out for about 8 months and i really loved him a lot and right before school started he broke up with me and i was like in shock because it was so random that he broke up with me and after everything he's said to me about how much he loved me and he got over it pretty quick and it took me like over 6 six months to get over him and he was going out with all these girls and he barley even talked to me anymore then i finally said yes to going out with this guy "peter" and "josh" got really jealous and broke up with his girlfriend and he keeps calling me now and saying how wrong he was for braking up with me and how much he wants me back and i really like "peter" a lot but "josh" is trying to get me to brake up with "peter" and i dont know what to do, i tried telling him it was over between us but he hes a really good sweet talker and i just said i have to think about it but i dont want to brake up with "peter" so what should i say to "josh" so he'll leave me and "peter" alone? like i dont want to be mean and be like fuck off but i dont want him to keep calling and trying to brake us up..


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geminic17 answered Tuesday July 3 2007, 7:32 pm:
Let me break it down abit hun, okay this "josh" person ou speak of. You need to tell him straight up, "you broke my heart once I'm NOT going to let you do that again". If he doesn't get the picture. Then at a certain point your gonna need to tell him to fuck off when needed to. Don't be afraid to be honest with "Josh", you don't need that heartbreak again. You need to tell him that. Hope it works out for you hun.

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DepthofHeart answered Tuesday July 3 2007, 6:54 pm:
You should talk to him in person and make sure he understands that under no circumstances you would want to get back together with him. Tell him you're happy with "Peter" and that you would appreciate if he left you alone. If he doesn't, then just ignore him, sooner or later he'll get the picture and leave you alone.

::Jasmine::

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tay_gray answered Tuesday July 3 2007, 6:51 pm:
ok this can be really stuff. you have to forget about josh teel him that he had his chance. tell him you really like peter, and you cannot change that

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