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why is is so hard to get over your first love and why is that even after they hurt you so much its still harder? what have you (guys and girls) done to get over them and can you ever even get over them completely? (link)
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i got over it because i thought about how much he's hurt me you know? like i was like: omg i'm so much better.
and maybe you dont believe it because to be honest neither did i but just keep telling yourself that. because staying with him in your mind isnt gonna get you further anyway. like its basically a waste of time :S
sorry if i sound harsh.
but honestly what helps is going outside, shopping while checking out other guys. it made me feel sooo much better lOl.
but really, i know that right now you feel like youre never gonna get over it, but trust me you will, you just have to believe it yourself and stp hanging on to him.
it doesnt even take thaat long. like ive been totally in love with this guy for 2 years and he was my first love. but then he broke my heart and i got really pissed about it :S
so yeah it took me like about 2 weeks to realize hes not worth it. getting over it is the harder part but it'll happen, dont worry (:
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Hello Everyone:
I would to ask all of you something. Why does it seem like it's hard for good guys like me who dosen't, smoke, drink or do any of that bad stuff to find a right girl for him? It seems like there are a lot of girls out there who are nothing but trouble and always want want want all the time. I do not like girls who are always wanting stuff all the time. And it seems like all the good nice looking girls already have boyfriends. What is up with this? (link)
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nooou. youre totally great (:
i'd date you and i'm good looking hahaaa :P
but seriously i think it's soo good you dont smoke or drink. you know i've got a similar problem. i dont seem to find a nice good looking guy who DONT do shit. it's soo hard and to be honest i dont know any :/
and why would you want a trouble-girl as a gf anyway? i mean seriously it's not worth it. and you'll find a girl who likes you for you are (:
like me for example. and i'm not a geek or anything haha
but dont worry too much. there deffinetly are girls out there who dont dig drinking etc.
just try meeting new people. and also, the girls who are taken wont be taken forever anyway :P
hope i helped a little (:
good luck xxx
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Well im 14 and i have been with my boy friend for 9 months. and lately he hasnt really been talking to. kinda like avoiding me. i dont know what i should. i mean i call him and try to talk to him. and normally we talk for a couple hours. but he tends to be like "i gotta go bye" after like 15 minutes on the phone. i dont know if its something i did.
what should i do?! (link)
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you know what you should do? don't talk 2 him yet , maybe he is just bored with the relationship and i think it would just annoy him.
ok first don't call him that often anymore. if you've been calling him everyday , trie calling him every second day from now on. he's gonna start thinking about you and what you're doing that is more important....lol
then when you do call him you gotta be just like him. just say "i gotta go bye". that way he'll now how you feel!
maby he's gonna get the message that way and is gonna care a bit more about you.
it will also get him 2 wonder whats going on , and that will make the relationship a bit more interesting. guys get bored if your making the whole thing so easy. be misterious and stuff like that. trie 2 act like it doesn't really bother you that much.
i know this is probably weird , but trie that it really works!!!
but don't completely avoid him. you still have 2 let him know that u love him , just trie and keep ot on the down low lol
hope everything works out
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Ok so i got a boyfriend yesterday and 5 of my friends like him and before i said yes i talked to them the 4 were all fine but cut but they toild me to do whats right and they were so nice then my bestfriend ii asked her and i told her if you dont want me to il just so no but she was so happy and she was like YEH go for it but she told that she had gotten over him ok and she was like go for it yay then when i said yes she started crying now shes mad at me and i dont want to dump him what should i do =[=[ ?? (link)
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ask her why she has been acting so weird. cause that IS weird. if she gives you good reasons maby you should brake up with him cause she's your best friend and as all the others said boys come and go and friends are forever. tell your bf why you can't date him anymore and i bet he'll understand.
but if your friend can't give you any good reasons which is pretty unlikely , trie and talk 2 her about the whole situation
oh , and if you DO wanna stay together with your bf tell your friend that you'll still be there for her even if you have a bf.
maby she didn't start crying cause he said yes , maby it was cause she thinks he is more important now?! i dunno i'm just trying 2 find some options.
so ask her about that and remember
N.E.V.E.R. loose your best friend over a guy!!
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There's really not a category for my questiion so I appologize in advance. Anyway, I've had freckles on my face for as long as I can remember. As a kid, everybody thought it was cute, including girls, but I didn't want anything to do with them obviously in 2nd grade or whatever. Now that I'm in college, I don't think that people, including myself, really think freckles are cute anymore. I dont have problems with acne, and I'm in pretty good shape. Do any girls out there think that freckles are a cute thing? (link)
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yeah i think it's cute. my boyfriend has freckels 2. don't worry there will always be girls who are going 2 like you and freckels are definitely not a bad thing. it's actually pretty likeable lol
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How do you impress a guy you really like?? I need to know because I really like him soo much, Im falling for him. What should I do to impress him???
I need ideas anything will work, even to make him flash his sexy smile. HELP!!
♥KASSIDY
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don't be afraid 2 talk 2 him! be confident that always turnes guys on
be misterious and dress nice. i tried getting a guys attention 2 once and you know what i did? of course not so i'm gonna tell you =)
one day i showed interest , talked 2 him blah blah blah
and the next day i acted like i don't care that much
and THE NEXT DAY i acted like i care again
that made him curious and he wanted 2 find out whatz goin on and he became interested
maby you should trie that =)
hope i helped
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I like two wondeful guys, they like me too. I really can't decide between them. If I could merge them to one person, I would call him mr.perfect! I can't make up my mind! What guy do you think sounds best?
Guy #1:
hot, brunett, goes to my class, popular, sensetive, confident (not really, just pretends to be), same humor as me, but don't have alot in commmon, lives in the city, globetrotter, short for a guy (but taller than me), looks up to his best friend, totally charmig and a smile to die for! Style: Trendy and casual
Guy #2:
hot, blond, goes to my best friends class (stil same school though), semi-popular within class, lack of confidence exept when it comes to music and sports, same humor, have alot in common (exact same music taste!), very tall, plays giutarr like a god, writes songs, down to earth, totall cutie and has puppy eyes. Style: punk/rock and casual
In order to make your desision on who might ound the best, a short description of me:
brunett,exentric, talkative, cute, weirdo, playful, could be serious when needed, have a history of BAD X-es, (don't wanna sound ego but-) popular, can hang out with anyone, very nery intrests though (like starwars, battlestargalactica and chemistry). Style:Chic and laidback
There, descripetions of my to guys and me. Which one sounds best? PPLEASE HELP! Guy#1 or Guy#2??? Because I'm clueless, I really can't decide, I like them both in different ways!
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well i think guy 2 is like soo cool. i love punk/rock and guys who play the guitar and write won songs. that means the have creativity and that's good isn't it?
i think after i read ur decription i think you would be a good match. you have lots of things 2 talk 2. like as you said the music. and if the lack of confidence bothers you , maby you could help him be more confident. i bet he would be if he knew that you like him cause as you said he likes you 2. and 2 me it sounded like you like the guy more since you said he's a total cutie , and plays guitar like a god , puppy eyes.
2 me it sounds like you like him more.
i think he's a great guy (okay i confess , i'm crazy about guys who play the guitar) but thats not why i think he's great. as i was saying i think you like him more.
but don't forget , you're the only person who really knows.
anyway i hoped i helped a little
good luck!!!
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which is the best hairstyle for guys?
spiky,skinhead,mohawk,liberty spikes,ponytail,long metalhead,shaggy skater,emo combover,flat and short,center parted,side parted?
also,is there a difference between emo hair and skater hair?
like both styles usually cover the eyes,but i heard that skater hair is more flippy and messy,while emo is just covering the eyes but combed to the side and looks more "prepared" if you get what i mean.can someone pls help to clarify.
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i loove hair like that:
http://i.realone.com/assets/rn/img/7/7/2/3/8953277-8953280-slarge.jpg
but emo is cool 2. yeah skater hair goes like in every direction and wild wile emo hair is sort of misterious. i like both . but when you're not really emo you shouldn't have that hairstyle.
anyway good luck
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I like a guy named David. Seems simple, right? Wrong. He happens to be a friend of mine. Well, I've liked him before, and I've notified him. Recently, I told him I liked him. He didn't care but said he wouldn't give me a chance.
I eventually got over him, but now I'm falling for him again. Ten times harder. And he's been flirting with me nonstop - but I can't help but wonder if that's just his nature. He flirts with me, and he came to my halloween party. My friend asked him if he thought I was pretty, and he said I was. So I'm confused as to whether he'll ever give me a chance and if the flirting is just hormones. :/ (link)
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omg i also love a guy named david. funny right?
anyways i think the flirting are just hormones. i think he just likes to flirt with girls who are pretty and you said that he thinks your pretty so there ya go. get over it i bet he's just messing with your head.
maby i'm totally wrong about this guy and he does like you.
sorry i don't think i helped this much
anyway
loads of luck =)
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soo i told my gf that i love her, and she really did not say it back, she is really shy and all plus i'm her firt boyfrined, so what should i do? (link)
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like the other said. just wait. i think she was nervous but i'm sure she loves you back! dont be sad. wait for her show her you understand and be normal. soon she'll tell you she loves you back
good luck
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well, i really like this guy. we're really good friends and he's always there for me and stuff. i don't know whether to tell him or not though.
i have a habit of telling a guy that i like him, it's not because i think something would happen but because...well i have no idea why.
anyways, my question is, do i tell him? i know most people would say yes. but theres kinda a twist, he has a girlfriend.
what do i do?! (link)
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yeah you can tell him. but maby you should wait till he brakes up with his girlfriend cause most relationships dont last that long anyways. and then when he's free go for it.
but since he has a gf now it can mess things up so be patient and wait for the right moment.#
loads of luck =)
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I've been kind of bummed lately. I am 14, I have never kissed a girl, or even had a girlfriend.
I have plenty of friends (enough to make me happy), and I have no problem talking to girls as friends, but not other than that.
I have had plenty of girls that "liked" me, but most of the time it didn't work out (for random reasons), or they just didn't seem right for me.
Unlike a lot of guys, I am not just in it for sex (that would be great, but it's not my first priority). I just want someone to be with. (link)
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hey , i'm a girl and i'm also not in for sex. i think it's a good thing when guys don't care so much about it. and i'm sure some other girls feel the same way. i mean if you are with someone you want to be happy right? so just wait cause if you hurry and just be with some girl you dont even like that much JUST DO BE WITH SOMEONE doesn't make you happy eather. so just wait. do guy stuff like soccer (whatever) hang out with friends and be normal i'm sure some day the right girl will come along. and i dont think girls like it that much if a guy desperatly looks for a girlfriend. just stay cool
maby this was a little confusing but i hope i helped
good luck
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I like this girl soooooo much. All these other girls tell me that the girl that i like also likes me back. But one time when i confronted her about this she said the whole i just want to stay friends thing. I decided im not giving up. I like her so much but it killed me when she said i just want to stay friends. how do i get around to her and show her how great of a boy friend i could be? I really dont want to just stay friends, so is there anything to help me get out of the friends zone and get her to love me the way i love her without showing it too much?
Shes well worth it
Thanks, (14,m) (link)
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hhmm thats tough but first: maby it's better for you to stay friends bacause maby you're gonna brake up one day and than it's really hard to be friends so after that you pretty much hate eachother. i dont think thats gonna happen between you but you never know....
sooo to show her how grreeaat you can be just be there for her. like when she fights with her friends tell her that you will always be there for her no matter what the others say. help her in school when she does'nt get things in class. ask her how her day is or how she's doing. but if she has one of her "grumpy" days and she wants to be left alone just leave her alone. be trustfull and show her you understand her.
I hope things will work out =)
good luck
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14/m
theres this girl that sits next to me in spanish and i think shes hot. i always kindove playfully mess with her and she does it back and gives me that little look with her eyes (the one girls make when they flirt with you). but then I asked for her sn and she said she'd think about it. not in a short kindove mean way or anything its hard to explain how she said it. but anyway i cant figure out mabye did i ask her to soon or mabye she already has a bf and thats why she wont give it to me. i dunno some Help
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come on you worry to much. i think she just wants you to run after her a little bit. seriously i think she likes you and she's just playing hard to get.
anyway good luck
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I'm currently in a relationship. And i think i'm in love... But how can i tell? What the signs that a girl's in love? (link)
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well wenn you have a crush you get nervous when you are arround that person and you can feel it in your stomach and you think that person is really hot or something
when your in love you cant live without the person you love and you want the best for that person
well i hope i helped a little
good luck
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Well the guy I’m talking about is very weird, not cute at all. He doesn’t express his emotions and sometimes he seems to lack it. He’s a very sarcastic person and he can come off as mean.
He’s 16 and is not very popular among people but he’s very intelligent/philosophical. He also says that he’s a dishonest person and he does lie a lot. Many people think I’m very pretty.
I’m popular at school, very nice, sarcastic, and18. I don’t know wat happened but I ended up sitting next to this guy and fell for him pretty hard.
I always thought this guy liked me throughout the year. I never liked him 1st semester cause he seemed mean and too weird. I thought he liked me cause he would always stare at me like he
thought I was beautiful and his friends would always tease us. We sat next to each other 2nd semester and I started talking to him. he was awesome and we shared the same sarcasm and he seemed to enjoy talking to me. so I asked him out on a date. Without any hesitation he said “sure, why not” while smiling.
between the time I asked him out and our date I told him that I didn’t like to be pitied and that if he didn’t like me to tell me. I asked him if he liked me as more thna a friend and he said yes.
we go on our date. It was the best I’ve ever went on. it was obvious that he was into me and remember he is a hard to read person. Just so you know during that time we both didn’t have a
car so my friend had to take us and met up with us later. And she noticed how he was into me and was shocked cause he
never acts that way with anyone. And at the end of the date he said “ I would like to go on another date with you” while smiling. But a few days afterwards he acts so disinterested. I plan to have another date but again he is busy and he doesn’t return my calls or anything. So I got sad and told him that if he didn’t want to we didn’t have to do the 2nd date and he acted like he still
wanted to.
I left for Europe for about 3 weeks for vacation and I got him a really nice gift. Well when I get back he acts so nice. He returns all my calls and it seems like he likes me. Also I was gonna leave
the gift by his house cause he had a very busy week and I didn’t want to wait till after he got back from his vacation. But he didn’t want me to leave it by his house and even offered to meet
me for a few minutes just so I could give it to him in person which was sweet. So he called me and we met and he immediately gave me a big hug which is not like him at all. Then he smiled and kept saying how much he loved my gift. Well I wanted to give him a kiss before he left for his vacation. But of course it was awkward and the wrong time. I told him I wanted to do something but didn’t know if he wanted to. He really had to go and it was obvious I was talking about kissing. But he stayed and was acting sweet by saying don’t feel bad, if I really wanted to leave I would get in my car and drive away. Then before he left he said “ we are friends and I don’t do that with my friends male or female”.
the next day I go online and talk to him about it. I told him I wanted to kiss him and if he wanted to. He never answered my question and only said he felt it wasn’t a good idea. He also was
very rude to me. I decided to ask him if he even liked me as more than a friend. And he said “ we are friends and if we were ever to be more than friends it would have happened quite some time
ago but it never did”. He also said he only agreed to that date cause he wasn’t sure if he liked me. He said our date wasn’t even a real date it was just an “informal meeting of aquantinces”. So I was hurt and asked him why didn’t he tell me
he never liked me since it was so obvious I was really into him. He said it was cause I never asked him. He also denied ever saying he wanted to go on a second date and how he told me he liked me. He was a jerk to me and I showed the convo to my other friends and they agreed he was being too harsh with me.
I rarely think guys like me but I was so sure. Even my friends think he’s lying cause she said he never acts nice to any girl except me and how he was so into me on that date. She thinks he was lying cause his mom is really strict. Like she called him 3 times on our date and twice when I met him to give him his gift. So they feel that might have been a reason. I’m leaving for NY
for college and I now live in CA bu I’ll be gone for one semester then back to CA again. they think that may have turned him off to dating me. he seemed like he liked me and whenever I told
him I liked him or touched him ina flirty way he would only smile and enjoy it I really fell for him and I know I have to move on but could I have mistaken this whole thing? he gave me many
more signs than this too that showed he liked me.
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wow that was really long ;-) but i understand. guys can be idiots. i dont know if i can help you but i can try. Well it sounds to me like this guy does'nt know what he wants. i think he likes you but he's a little ambaressed and is just trying to protect himself. maby it was a mistake to tell him you wanted to kiss him and i think it's getting on his nervs that you're asking him if you 2 are more then friends or something NO OFFENCE! If you still love him , talk to him and ask him yourself what he thinks about you cause he's really the only person who knows for sure.
But i think it's better for you to move on and find a guy who is less confusing. It sounds to me like you have nice friends , hang out with them a lot that will make you feel better.
anyways good luck and i hope i helped you. =)
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What the hell is wrong with boys? I don't understand them. When I don't talk to them, they say that I'm being unfriendly. And when I try to tell them and talk to them bout emotional stuff, they run away thinking that I'm in love with them. And when I try to tell them bout more emotional and philosophical stuff, they tell me that they dun understand wat I'm talking bout. Can someone please freaking tell me what wrong am I doing? I freaking pissed with boys! UGH! I hate them. (link)
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i dont think guys like to talk about stuff like that. they rather like to talk about video games or monstertruck LOOOL and yeah i think they think you have a crush on them and there boys they are different when it gets to emotional stuff. just talk about other things like soccer or something
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To make this short.
I've had sex for the first time with my ex boyfriend even though he has a girlfriend...well i got sick of being the other woman so i told him that he either has to be wit me or her well of course he picked me but to my suprise the reason why he picked me was so we'll have sex and of course like a dummy i did it...well i thought we were together or going to work on it so the next day i waited for him to call me and he never did...it's been 3 weeks now and i've realize wat an asshole he is...i'm totally getting over him...i know hard to believe but it's true...but wat i'm wondering should i ask him why he or how could he do this to me or should i jus leave things the way they are? Thanks in advance! (link)
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no , if your sure that he used you dont call him. you know what he did you dont need any answers! so just act like you dont care about him and avoid him in your life! he is sooo not worth it! find a guy who really cares about u!
good luck =)
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do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them (link)
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yeah when a guy looks me in the eyes when they talk to me I LOVE IT!!!!!
I'm a girl by the way lol
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Ive seen this girl I like. How do I go about asking her out on a date? What are the steps and how do I do it?
Im a 15/m nearly 16. Please help, I rate 5's for great advice. (link)
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well dont be pushy or something most girls dont like that. just be cool sit next to her on the bus in class or whenever and ask like it's no big deal.and dont be suprisd if she's gonna be a little shocked or something (if she really likes you i think she will be) if she sais no then dont be all sad just say okay and leave her alone and then you can be sad later. but i'm pretty sure she will say yes =)
good luck
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