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BOYS! UGH!
What the hell is wrong with boys? I don't understand them. When I don't talk to them, they say that I'm being unfriendly. And when I try to tell them and talk to them bout emotional stuff, they run away thinking that I'm in love with them. And when I try to tell them bout more emotional and philosophical stuff, they tell me that they dun understand wat I'm talking bout. Can someone please freaking tell me what wrong am I doing? I freaking pissed with boys! UGH! I hate them.
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Hi, boys can sometimes seem a little weird. Maybe they are just trying to get used to the idea that your a girl and just find it difficult to talk to you because they find themselves more comfortable around the same sex as them. It would be worth asking them. Daniel.
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Boys; they get scared of all the emotional stuff. They really don't wanna hear it since they really don't have emotional problems like girls. They'd rather talk about stuff they know about. Yeah ; boys are confusing.
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boys are usually always like that... sure they can be annoying and make u really pissed but u know... there all apart of life... and boys dont really like hearing other peoples emothions... thats just how they are.
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i dont think guys like to talk about stuff like that. they rather like to talk about video games or monstertruck LOOOL and yeah i think they think you have a crush on them and there boys they are different when it gets to emotional stuff. just talk about other things like soccer or something
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Hey,
I've read your problem, and i'd like to tell you what is it that your doing wrong.
You are either ignoring the boys and being unfreindly or your either talking about emotional stuff, why wouldn't you just talk about something normal any girl talks about with guys.
Number1, if you be unfriendly, then they will think that you are trying to be cool and that you are arrogant and you think you are better than them,and Number 2, if you talk to them about emotional stuff, they will think that you are hitting on them and you have a crush on them or something. So why don't you try to be a little sensible and reasonable , no offense meant, and when you go and talk to them, talk in a mature way, say hi and ask about them, and hang around for a while and enjoy a joke and laugh a bit. But let me tell you something, boys are the least important thing in this whole entire world, and there are much more better things that a person can do with his life instead of wasting it on some stupid childish and naive boys ,and who you waste your time getting pissed off and hate so much, that you can't concentrate on anything else because you can't stop thinking about them. If they want to talk, they are welcome to, and if they don't, then just do what i told you to do and say, but other than that, you are a much wiser person and you have more important things in your life.
So goodluck and if you need any other help or advice, and if you have any further problems, troubles ,worries and concerns, then please be free to contact me.
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I'll assume your a teenager. And I will go from there.
Most teenage boys are jacks and jerks. And being one of them and being on that side, I can say that. Most guys will not take any responsiblity or provide any second consideration to most anyones feelings, which is partly why I consider this generation screwed and doomed.
I wouldn't be pissed at all boys, because you don't have a reason to be pissed at all of them. Only the ones you've tried to talk to are being that way. Perhaps you should find boys that will actually be a friend to you and listen to you?
I will tell you right now, I listen to girl troubles each and every day, and I am a guy. And I don't consider it any trouble, hassle, or anything else wrong. I'm just being a friend and half of the girls I talk to will wonder why I am doing such a thing, because no other guy will. It's sad, because it should be a norm, but it isn't.
Your not doing anything wrong, you just caught a bad rift and got born into the doomed generation. But for all of it's shortcomings, there are boys out there that will listen and actually talk with you on things you want to talk to them about, without running away screaming. Not all boys are like that, and please remember that.
It seems any concept of gentlemanship and chivarly has passed from this world, and I am left in the wake. Bah.
I hope I helped, and good luck atleast find a guy to talk to that doesn't run away.
-Ryan
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