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I often feel like I have been through far too much for my age. I've battled depression (several times), emotionally abusive relationships, men walking all over me, an eating disorder and a suicide attempt and I still pulled through. And if I can then you can too.
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Im 13, female. And in the 7th grade.
I like a boy named Alex, Alex has a girlfriend named "Jessica" (THATS MY NAME ALSO, so you know.) & I have gym with alex and he always calls me "Jess" even though he thinks i cant stand it, (but i really do love it when he calls me jess) and like everytime i see him he just starts yelling "OMGOD ITS JESS, HIII JESS!!" all loud, and me and him act like we hate each other really bad, but we dont really "hate" eachother, and its kinda seems to me like its like how they used to tell you when your mean to somebody you really like them. But i dont know if he likes me. But see just yesterday i told him i couldnt stand him and he was like.. "aw common you can stand me!" and we like paused and stared at eachother. does it sound like he likes me?
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Sounds like he does to me! But obviously he's out of bounds as he has a girlfriend. Luckily all is not lost. If you actually get on well with this guy then the best thing you can do is become friends with him. That way if him and his girlfriend split up you can be a shoulder to cry on! (Scheming aren't I?!) But more importantly you might just gain a really good friend - that's what happened with my best mate and although I want to be his girlfriend (which I reckon I would be if he was single), he's just the best and I wouldn't give up his friendship for anything. Hope this helps :)
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Okay i really am haveing a hard time telling if this boy i am crazy about likes me, lets call him joe. The signs are there but than some stuff really set me off. Like he will call me and one time he grabbed my hand , and he'll flirt and say cute things , but than sometimes he'll go talk to his ex girlfriend , because he knows it gets me mad. For christmas he got this girl and me a braclet, mine broke cause im soo careful with my things , so after christmas time they went out and broke up and she gave the braclet back to joes younger brother and joe asked for it and gave it to me. yea we went out for like a day, he dumped me. But sometimes he'll say i love you on the phone. and he'll do things that i would think the signs of liking me . But somethings he says are mean. Does he like me or is he leading me on? what do i do?
i'll rate 5 for any help (link)
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Personally I have no idea whether he does like you or not, but I will say this - CLEARLY he is not good enough for you! Sounds to me like he's messing with your head and that you could do so much better! Honestly what mature person takes back a gift to give to someone else? He probably just likes the attention you give him. I think you should ditch this loser and concentrate on someone worthy of your time!
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ok we'll i liked this kid alot. & he's always like me but always went out with other people even though we liked eachother. So just like 5minutes ago he told me he broke up with his gf & he said do u still like me and i said yess i still like you & i asked him who he likes and he said he likes me but he likes my sister better=(
I've never felt like this i just went in my room crying. No one has ever... i just don't what to do. So can you please help me.
xo heartbroken♥
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Forget him. This kid is messing with your head and with your heart. What's to bet if your sister wasn't interested he'd be knocking on your door? No one wants to be sloppy seconds. Forget this loser and go out with someone who's worthy of your time. And if you ask me then your sister shouldn't go anywhere near him either, but that's her call. Hope I helped!
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Alright, so there's this guy...and i like him. And one of my best friends said he asked her (feb.8) if he should ask me out. She told me this on the 10th and its the 15th and he still hasn't asked me out and I'm pretty sure he knows I like him. And I'm guessing he likes me? I'm just wondering what you guys think about this whole situation.
Ps. He dated one of my friends and he didn't ask her out/break up with her himself but that mighta been because he didn't know her too well at all.. (link)
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I agree with careless-fun - if he didn't have the decency to ask this friend of yours out or break up with her himself he's clearly a coward. If he manages to ask you out himself then okay, maybe he's changed. But if I were you, don't bother if he doesn't ask you out himself as this is really childish. Yeah it may be nerves, but if I went round getting my friends to ask guys out for me I'd look like a kid! As for not having asked you out yet, I'd give it some time. If you do really like this guy then I'm sure you'll make up your own mind about him, but you may need to wait a while.
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ive liked sean for ever and he was really really nice like wicked cool and like i mean i think he did like me. his family like cousins and brother are like assholes, like obnoxious and mean. so my sister was like dont bother his family are assholes. sean was such a sweetie last year and most of this year but now hes turning to be a asshole like his brother, i like him so much but i do nott want to. and he knows im like obsessed and basically makes me more. what can i do to make him think i dontt? hes in my gym class always like being weird or acting nice.. thankss! so basically what should i do around him and how can i get over him
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Well the good think is that you've actually recognised he's being an arsehole, so well done you for not putting up with it! Best thing you can do is just simply to be civil to him, if you refuse to let him engage you in conversation then he'll soon get the hint. If he talks to you, simply reply cooly in as few words as possible, and then make an excuse to leave. Don't be rude though, unless it's really necessary. He'll soon see you're over him and go and bother someone else lol. Hope this helps!
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Okay. I'm in love with this guy. I always have been. He doesn't know. He never will. I'm moving in less than a month and I am NOT going to tell him. That's not my question. My question is, this love for him is killing me. KILLING me, because I can't do anything (I AM NOT GOING TO TELL HIM, SO DON'T TELL ME TO!). I don't want to stop loving him. I know my feelings are true. But for my own sake, I have to.
How can I?
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Bless you, that is a pretty difficult situation to deal with. However, if you're moving away and not going to see him again, that's half your problem solved. It's so much harder to get over someone if you have to see them every day, so at least you don't have to worry about that. Unfortunately the only thing that you can do is give it time. It might take what seems like forever but you'll start to notice other guys and have fun with them. You probably won't ever forget him, but try to think of him as just someone you miss rather than someone you're in love with. Eventually the pain will pass but there is no quick-fix method!
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Okay this might be kind of confusing but bear with me please. So at the end of summer last year, I met this guy, Joe, through my best friend, Liz. Joe dated one of Liz's good friends, Grace. They dated for about 2 & 1/2 years and then at the beginning of summer, they broke up. So now its September, and Joe with his friend come by Liz's house, and I'm there with her. So I meet Joe, I knew who he was and about him & Grace and I thought he was pretty cute. He thought I was really cute too. He liked me and all. I wasn't even THINKING about me and him together, the thought of US never came to mind. I felt like I had no chance. Grace (his ex) was unbelievably gorgeous and so much different from me.Well anyways, so we started hanging out. He'd come by more often and we were both very shy. Later I found out that one of the reasons he fell for me was because I was so quiet. But anyways, so we would hang out; play tennis and just hang out with friends. I also got drunk for the very first time with him -- and that's a very goodmemory. I remember how he was so worried about me geeting home and everything that day. Ahh memories. We went downtown by the lake and shopped and everything. Then one day, we were walking, just the two of us, and we kiss. Later on the walk home, he told me about how he wanted to kiss me sooner but that didn't work out cause it was never good timing with his friends and all. So yes, then the following week we would hang out and kiss :) and talked online. He asked me do I see him as a boyfriend and all that and talked about us dating. The next time we hung out, he asked me out. It was perfect. I never met a guy like him. Never dated ANYONE like that. Too perfect for words. It was awesome, the best time of my life. Everything was going great, I couldn't have been happier. He was a bad boy, ditching school, band with his friends, typical guy stuff. But I was always able to count on him. He always chose me over his friends, and even stopped drinking. We went to different schools, and then I started working with my dad, so things got harder. He had his friends drop him off whenever just so he can see me -- it was like a dream come true. My prince charming had come. But meanwhile, Grace (the ex) found out and went crazy. She hated me and my friend/her friend for letting it even happen. She had people watching me and threating me all the time on the interenet that they're going to kick my ass for dating Joe. But I didn't care. My friendshad my back. I remember when Joe was over and I wasn't supposed to have anyone over, and he was over and my dad came home, haha... he ran out the back door and jumped the gate and everything barefoot. Lol poor him left his shoes. He had written me a song and everything, we even wrote each other notes in school. Now back to the psycho ex-gf, well me and her were sort of friends, we just knew each other because of my best friend Liz. She would always follow me & Joe, (she had a car so was EVERYWHERE) and yeah. Then one day, me and joe sort of got into an argument. Me and my friend Liz and some of his friends were all walking around the nieghborhood onour way to chill at this one park. His ex would drive by and stop and talk to Joe's friends. We were with a bunch of friends all walking when these little 12=14 year old were with us and they were talking shit to joe about me and just because bitches and giving me and my friend attitude so I wasn't gonna deal with it and me and my friend Liz turned around and left. He didn't even bother to go after me or call. I regret doing that, I know he must have gotten mad, I remember when I hung up on him, that upset him also. but anyways, so the same day I call him. And I call again. And I call again. No answer. Same thing the following day, Saturday. Then Sunday I call all day. Finallly I try one last time on SUnday night and Grace picks up. And she said he's with her now and all those times he wasn't with me, he was with her. I dropped the phone. It was crazy, my friends wanted to go right over there and beat her up. But I thought about and decided just to forget it. Lateron, I signed online and he was on -- so I instant messaged him. And I yelled at him and everything and then signed off and cried. And cried. I thought I got over him, I was into another guy -- well then he chose another girl over me, and yeah. Then he came back and I rejected him and all that because I'm not gonna deal with someone liek that. SO I really don't even know what I'm asking. Him and Grace have been together ever since. I ran into both of them the other day at a store which was really awkward, he was with his friends in the store and I was with mine. Then they left the store and his girlfriend -- Grace -- and his sister come in. Then they leave and are waiting outside in the car for us. We goto our car and trhey pull up and then she says something and flicks us off and drives off. But anways, I just can't seem to get over him. Its crazy cause this all happened quite a while ago. Maybe its just because he was my first SERIOUS boyfriend? I have no idea what to do... and I really want to believe that one day WE WILLE get back together. I just hope and pray something along the way will happen and we will be together.Like today for example, I felt like breaking down and crying. I went with my friends downtown, on the train. And they were with their bf's and it reminded me how we used to be like that. Last time I took the train was with him. We went to musuems on Columbus Day. Memories :( It was just so heartbreaking. Do you think that we will get back together? People say "THINGS HAPPEN WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT!" and I wanna follow that, because well thats how I met him. I wasn't even looking for a boyfriend. ANd now every guy I look at or my friends want me to meet/date, I just can't. And it kills me because I want to be with him and no one elsre. DO you thinkin it's possible for us to get back together? Maybe later on in life? It was my mistake because I was always so shy and not really OUT with my feelings, and I regret not telling him how I feel, he always thought I didn't like him or anything. Although we dated for only about 2 months, the memrories and the times we had together even before we began officially "dating" ... they mean soo much. I just wish I had another chance. Do you think it's possible for us to ever get back together? Do you think he ever thinks about me the way I think about him? Is there ANY chance of us getting back together in the future? (link)
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Hi there, thanks for your question and sorry about the late reply!
Wow you poor thing, that is never nice to go through. If it helps I'll relate it to something that happened to me that was similar. I was sort of involved with this guy who had previously been involved with someone who was equally as crazy as your Grace! Anyway (as this is the shortened version lol) I found out about 3 and a half months later I found out he'd been sleeping with her for almost a month. So my advice to you is to do exactly what I did...never speak to him again and delete all evidence he was ever in your life. How DARE he treat you like this? You seem like such a nice girl and deserve far better than this. He didn't even have the courage and decency to break up with you - he had her do it for him...you do NOT want to be dating a coward. The other thing of course is that psycho exes are always very scary and I'll warrent that if you two ever were to get back together she'd constantly be on your back, and no one wants that. I know how hard it can be, and you will cry and miss him and feel rubbish...could take months, I expect the thing you'll miss the most is his friendship. But eventually it WILL get better. Once you've mourned the loss then go out, get yourself some new clothes or shoes, get a new haircut and go and show the world just what you're made of! Go out with your girlfriends and have a laugh. I really don't reccommed trying to get back with him at all, it's bound to get far too messy and I don't believe he's anywhere NEAR good enough for you! If you want anymore advice or support I'm happy to give it so just drop me a line :)
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Heyy. you seemed like an uber cool person so i thought i'd ask you...
okay. so this guy chris and i went out for like a month.. and broke up because he got super clingy and stuff...
so some time went by and we were still really good friends after we broke up and we talk every night and day
so then.. last night kevin, chris's best friend called me and told me that chris still liked me a lot.. and that he really cares for me and stuff...
and so i went to school thinking he liked me...
came home and found out that my best friend and chris were going out
and they weren't planning on telling me.. until i thought it was kinda weird that they were always on the phone together and at his house without me (i'm usually there) and yeah.
i thought everyone knew it was wrong to go out with your best friends exes?!
What should i do? just let them go out and be bothered, (i alreayd told my best friend i thought it was weird) or what?
please e-mail your answer back to superugurl7785@yahoo.com (i'm not a member) kthx. (link)
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I don't know if you'll get this...just emailed your answer to you :)
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Ok so how do i leave my house to go sumwhere if i cant go anywhere b/c of my parents and well no its not annoying not dating i kinda like not dating thx plz w/b! o by the way i act different when im around him and im always like im guna act myself but i always cum out acting like anotha person! my friends say i like him and say that i dont tlk to him it jist that i cant help it i get all jelatin inside wat do ido o and yes there is a ton of emotions! Answer both problems please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well I'd use the same tactics you have before. I personally used to tell my parents I was going somewhere with a friend (and then TELL that friend so they didn't phone lol). However, I don't like telling you to lie to your parents, and I think if you decide to date this guy you should tell your parents (I'm happy to give you some advice on how to do that if you need to! just please put your name at the end of the email as I get quite a few emails, and it'd be easier for me to follow that way!).
Secondly, about not acting like yourself - well that's probably because inside you're desperate for this guy to find you exciting and don't think you actually are. Simply try to act around him like you would do with a friend...I'm afraid there is very little advice I can give you on that as it's never easy, but hopefully once you get to know him better you'll relax more around him.
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ok so theres this guy. (lets say his name is Bob).
ok bob likes me alot i think its love anyhoo. i liked him and stopped and i did and i stopped. and he tells me very "corny" stuff on the fone and pervertive stuff. and well yea. i think about him ALOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont know if he is jist very very special or if i like him! I DEFINETLY want to make out with him!!!!!!!!! But maybe its jist a crush! and i dont get jelous! we cant act ourselves completly around each other and we only tlk by phone b/c i dont really see him and b/c i hang around different groups then he does! Wat do i reely feel for him! Oh and by the way im not allowed to go out w/ any one_ ( I still do but they dont find out but they get suspicious)_ but i want to make out with him but i never have a chance to see him wen do u think we can?! HELP! DESPERATLY! (link)
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Haha oh dear you obviously feel a TON of different emotions! Bless you. Right well you should be able to a) find out if you like him and b) kiss him in one easy step! Talking to him on the phone is probably easier you're less likely to get embarrassed. It's very annoying not being able to date, but if you do anyway then you may as well apply it to this situation! I suggest you ask him out for a coffee or for a bite to eat - somewhere where you can talk and therefore get to know him better - this should help you establish your true feelings for him. And if you decide you do like him, then there should be an opportunity at the end of the date to give him a little kiss if it all goes well! :) Let me know how it goes!
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Thanks for your reply. Yeah this girl that i just want to be friends with came in my house while we were gone and put cupcakes to me on our counter. A little creepy!! But anyways I was leaving class today and I was right beside the girl i like and I asked her where she had been, because she was sick a couple days.She was smiling but kinda had her head down at times and seemed to be in a hurry. What do you think this means? Do you think she likes me, cause she was smiling and sounded really sweet, but she was acting weird and we just talked for a second. What should I do next time, and how can i tell if she likes me or not? (link)
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Hang on...she came into your house while you weren't there??? Not only is that creepy but I'm sure that's not legal!!! I'd give her a wide berth in the future.
Anyway to more important things...well it's difficult to tell with this girl on such limited information (I understand it's probably difficult to explain though, so don't worry). However, from what you have said, it could well be that she is just shy...or simply that she really was in a hurry! It's probably too early to tell, so if I were you I'd just keep the chat lighthearted - like you would do if you trying to get to know another guy better! Try and catch her at a time though when you know she'll be less likely to have to run off somewhere. It should become apparant after a while whether she likes you or not - keep me up to date on it and I'll help you decipher it further if you like! Hope this advice helps, looking forward to hearing from you again :)
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i'm 15 and a girl and i have a best friend that is 15 and yes a guy. we like each other more than best friends and we really want to go out like boyfriend and girlfriend. the thing is my parents are very strict portuguese parents. THEY DONT WANT ME DATING UNTIL I'M 50!! i even asked my mom why she wont let me date..i asked if she didnt trust me and she just says well i dont ant any boy to take advantage of you and she doesnt want me to get hurt..and i told her that i'm not stupid & i know the consequences of everything..and its soo unfair because his parents dont mind..and my mom knows him well because he used to be one of her students but my father doesnt really know him at all..how do i get my parents to allow me to have a boyfriend? any tips? thanks =]
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It's always hard for parents to accept their "little girl" dating, especially if you're the eldest or only child. However, you need to explain to them (calmly!) that dating is just a normal part of growing up - and it's inevitable that at some point a boy might break your heart because it usually happens to everyone at some point. Your parents stopping you from dating now is not going to prevent this from happening in future; in fact you'll know less about men and probably won't be as prepared or as experienced with dealing with it. No one can simply stop you from getting hurt. You sound like a very sensible and trustworthy girl, and if your mother knows this boy it does help. It would be better to invite him round so your father gets a chance to meet him and the four of you sit down and discuss it together - if this boy can show he is mature enough to come to your parents to talk about it then this will most probably help your cause. It might be embarassing, but I'm sure it would be worth it - and you have nothing to lose by trying. I wish you all the best of luck, and let me know how it goes! :)
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This guy that I used to want to date is showing some less than desirable qualities. Firstly, I found out he's a gay basher. He says that when queer eye for the straight guy comes on the television he wants to throw his boot through the screen. He's also sexist, and has said to me that men are smarter than woman, and that woman are stupid. He also said that anyone over 30 who isnt married must be gay, and that I'm a prude for saving myself for marriage. He's also made nasty comments about my weight, and I'm not fat, just average.The funny thing is he thinks he's hot but he's really not, he's about 20 pounds overweight and has an ugly hairstyle and outdated clothes. I would love to put him in his place one day but am too "nice". But it makes me mad when he constantly puts me and his other friends down. Should I say something to him? (link)
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It's different when he makes random throwaway comments but when it's personal it is most certainly NOT okay. How dare he speak to you like this?! Sounds to me like this guy is so insecure about himself he puts other people down to make himself feel better. Yes you should definitely say something but the worst thing you can do is to get personal - you don't want to stoop to his level. Simply say firmly that you have your morals (and in this day of teenage pregnancy and casual sex some might say what you are doing is very admirable) and that you're not fat (and I'm glad that you haven't started to believe him when he says that), remind him that no-one's perfect and that he has no business saying what he does about you and your friends. And if this persists, just don't be friends with him - you're worth much more than that and he'll soon change his attitude when he realises all his friends have turned their backs on him.
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I have always had girls come up to me and say they think i'm cute or ask me out, and all the girls have had crushes on me. What I want to know is how do I approach girls that i like that might be shy or scared to? I've never had to and i'm pretty clueless of what to talk about and how to tell if she's interested in me or not, unless she has come up to me. I'd appreciate your feedback.
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Well to be fair if you always get girls coming up to you then you can't be ugly, so well done you! :P It might sound shallow but any girl is going to be flattered if a good-looking guy asks them out, whether they are interested or not. My advice is just to not be shy - at least if they say no they're going to be unlikely to laugh at you! Girls love confidence (but NOT arrogance!) and if you act confident you should feel more confident inside. Go for it, and good luck! :D
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I recently read a few pages of my gf's journal (I know, I know, I shouldn't have) and she mentioned another guy that she is interested in. She writes about how happy she is when she sees this guy. Should I confront her about it or just see what happens? (link)
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You're right, you should never have done that but I suppose what's done is done. Clearly if you read her journal then your relationship has some trust issues - and to me it looks like your suspicions are confirmed. I suppose it all depends on how you are mentioned in context - ie if she says that she's happy when she sees him but she still loves you, or if you're not mentioned at all. I would bring it up with her if you are still suspicious, mainly because otherwise you'll drive yourself mad imagining things that may not be true, and that's not fair to either of you. But I hope the two of you work things out - good luck!
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hey last sunday (of this week), a guy i really like asked me out and i said yes. i dont know how to tell my parents. my mom has said im not allowed to date or go on dates until im 16 or 17. how do i tell them with out getting in trouble? (link)
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It's never easy for parents to like the idea of their "little girl" dating. However if just talking to them does not convince them then you have to show them you're trustworthy - tell them exactly where and when you want to go, how you're getting there and back, how long you'll be gone and when they can expect you home. If necessary then even offer to let your parents meet him beforehand. This all seems like a lot of trouble admittedly, but he's worth it right? ;) And if they STILL say no then the best way round it is to plan a date with him to the mall or movies (something that won't arouse suspicion) on a weekend like you might do with your friends and say you're going with one of them (and tip that friend off first so they don't call while you're out!). I'm NOT suggesting lying to your parents is a good idea but I understand that they can be overprotective (hell mine were and I did it all anyway) - and I know how hard it can be to relate to the opposite sex sometimes and this is obviously important to you. Use the fibbing as a last resort though, as if the first approach works then you'll be free to go out with him again, and that's MUCH better! ;)
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yeah, i know there's alot of questions about Valentine's already, but most are all asked by girls. but does anybody have any good ideas for a guy to get for his girlfirend? She's pretty close, and has a good sense of humor. Please try to stay away from cute/fuzzy stuff (sry, but i cant stand giving that). Thanks
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You're right, V-Day is sickening enough without having to get slushy presents lol. Classic cool gifts for girls are underwear (get the size right for god's sake!), jewellery and flowers (can't really go wrong there). However if you want something a little more personal how about tickets to see her favourite band play? My ex once bought me driving lessons for V-Day. Or if you're on a budget, I once bought a friend a cool bag and filled it full of tiny, inexpensive trinkets, like sweets and cute notebooks and things with her name on. Or for a special, personalised touch how about a keepsake box of her favourite band or hobby, or even a little box of memories of the two of you - with photos, poems and the like in? (Guaranteed to make her go 'awwwww'!). Hope these ideas help!
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hey
i want to buy a new dress, and ive tried looking in stores like macys, bloomingdales, and betsey johnson, but i cant seem to find anything
Do you no of anywhere else that i can look for a dress, like a dress for a teen, nothing like prom, just a dress for sweet sixteens (link)
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Unfortunately I can't help you with stores to look at as I'm from the UK. But a website I absolutely swear by is eBay - you will be absolutely amazed about the stuff you can find! I once got a beautiful red dress for what might be the equivalent of around $8. It's good as you can search by size, style and colour to find something that you'll like. Also if you're any good at needlework, or you know someone who is, you could always make it yourself - that way it can be as individual as you are!
Sorry I couldn't be of more help, but I hope you'll look into these possibilitites! :)
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For valentines day, i want to attach lyrics to a love song on the card i'm giving to my boyfriend. I dont kow what song to use though. Does anyone know any cute songs that has a meaning of loving some one more than anything? Thanks so much (link)
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This might sound really weird but the first lines of a song by a British Dance goup called Faithless always tug at my heart strings! It's called We Come One (and in my opinion these lyrics are better than some slushy love song!!!:
We Come One
All the subtle flavours of my life are become bitter seeds and poisoned leaves without you,
You represent what's true,
I drain the colour from the sky and turn blue without you.
Let me know if you like them! :)
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Okay well I like this girl and she's a junior (yes I'm a girl too and I'm in 8th grade) but she has a boyfriend. I need help because I want to know if there's anyway I can forget about her because I know she'll never like me like that. But I really need help because I'm friends with this girl and I see her a lot so I need to stop thinking about her like that. Okay any advice would be cool and if you're only gonna say how girls liking girls is gross wrong etc don't cause ive heard it before and you can't change my mind. (link)
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Unfortunately for you, girls your age can't seem to understand how you can be attracted to people of the same sex. It's fantastic that you can willingly accept yourself at such a young age, but be warned that not everyone else will be able to accept you this way, so it may not be a good idea to confess all. The best way to move on from someone is to start seeing other people (if you're bisexual it helps as you have more choice lol), or if this isn't possible then you should throw yourself into your schoolwork or extracurricular activities. If you can manage it too I'd suggest you didn't see this girl for a while until you have something or someone else to occupy yourself. Hope this helps :)
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