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ive liked sean for ever and he was really really nice like wicked cool and like i mean i think he did like me. his family like cousins and brother are like assholes, like obnoxious and mean. so my sister was like dont bother his family are assholes. sean was such a sweetie last year and most of this year but now hes turning to be a asshole like his brother, i like him so much but i do nott want to. and he knows im like obsessed and basically makes me more. what can i do to make him think i dontt? hes in my gym class always like being weird or acting nice.. thankss! so basically what should i do around him and how can i get over him
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be yourself everything heals in time. it couldn't hurt to be friends with him just because his family are jerks could it?
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well it's actually goona be a lil hard to get of him, cuase usualy women like assholes. It's becuase they think they can change em' Its true. If you would like to avoid him i guess just clear youre mind of him, and just stay away i guess. not sure if that helps but i hope it does, take care
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By the sounds of it, this guy has changed from being decent to being an unpleasent person to be around. This being the case, you can do one of two things.
You can tell him how you feel and give it a try. BUT, be prepared for nasty consequences if you do because if he really is as bad as his brother and cousins, chances are you may get emotionally hurt.
You could, on the other hand, keep schtum and try to avoid him for a while. This will be the only way you can ensure he doesn't think you're obsessed about him. There's an added bonus in that time away will give you time to meet new boys who are hopefully more worthy of your time and you can look back at him and know you did the right thing for you.
Unfortunately, it's not a decision I can make for you but those are the two best options available to you. The 'getting over him' part will come with time (and the help of a large quantity of ice cream) but it sounds as though you need to keep yourself occupied to take your mind off him. Maybe join a new club at school or hang out with your friends more often, somewhere you know he won't be. If you allow your mind to wander onto subjects other than him, you may be surprised what happens.
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Well the good think is that you've actually recognised he's being an arsehole, so well done you for not putting up with it! Best thing you can do is just simply to be civil to him, if you refuse to let him engage you in conversation then he'll soon get the hint. If he talks to you, simply reply cooly in as few words as possible, and then make an excuse to leave. Don't be rude though, unless it's really necessary. He'll soon see you're over him and go and bother someone else lol. Hope this helps!
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