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ok so does anyone have any good questions i can ask my bf? like even if they are uncomfortable ones, you know? because im trying to think of some good ones and he said he wants me to ask some uncomfortable ones lol
we have been friends for like a year and we have been going out for a month if that helps. so questions like whats your favorite food wont help me much
thanks 5's for everyone

- whats the farthest youve gone with a girl
- whats your favorite sex position (hahaa)
sorry i have more but i have to get off so ask me something in my inbox and ill reply haha those are unconfortable questions but gtg

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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
kthnkxbye

its fine. i went to homecoming with a junior and im a freshman but we didnt go out.. just be careful with this guy and make good decisons =)
erica

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Do you guys believe that high school sweethearts can last throughout adulthood? I've heard from many people that if they end up getting married they'll just end up miserable. Or that most end after senior year.

deffenately could happen = )
my best friends parents were highschool sweethearts and still in love
i dont think theyre miserable hah
♥

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SO..
im 15/f

me and my cousin always hang out together! she's awesome lOl. but anyways she used to like this one guy and i thought he was cute. well she didnt exactly like him anymore she moved on..but she still thought the kid was hott! and my littler cousin (her brother) is like 13? and he talks to this kid. the kid is in 9th grade and my cuzin is also but im in 10th grade. well i was like OH MY GOSH that kid is really hott! i said that to my cousins. and then my 13 yr old cousin was talking to him on the computer and was like yeah my cousin likes you. and i was like NOO how can i like him? i dont even know him! and then he is like just kidding she just thinks your hott. and he is like who is she? and my cousin told him..but of course he doesnt know me since we go to different schools.. and the kid is like dont know her..never seen her..never heard of her. well this made me feel GREAT. even tho i knew he didnt know who i was. but then anyways this kid is like well next time that she sees me tell her to come up to me and tell her who she is. SO next time i see him what am i suppose to say? hi im the girl that thinks your hott. it will be soo embarassing! and im pretty shy.so that doesnt help. and then later that night my 13 year old cousin was still talking to him and was like yeah my sister (his sister my cousin)thinks your really hott and he is like man whats up with your family..first your cousin and now your sister? whats next your grandpa??! so then i felT SOOOO unblievebly stupid!! now i for sure dont wanna go up to him next time i see him..i will feel so stupid! but then again maybe he will think im cute or something? I DONT KNOW!! i mean i wanna hang out with him or something..or at least try and talk to him..let him know i exist!! but then i only see him at their schools hockey games..and there isnt any going on over break! and my cousin that goes to school with him is really shy too and wont ask to hang out with him..because she doesnt really talk to him either..and i dont wanna talk to him on AIM because im not good with talking on the computer..so please dont suggest that..but yeah so i cant throw a party or anything! ugh this is soo horrible and confusing :( you dont even know..this kid is the funniest..the cutest! and he doesnt even know i exist..all the girls are over him and i guess he is goin to this party that a girl is throwin from his schoool. what do you think i should do!?

SORRY SO LONG!! i really am!
but thanks for answering sweetie
i really appreciate it!

aww its all right dont worry if he doesnt know who you are... YET! i think your cousin and this guy go to the same school right? im not sure but if this girl is having a party and if your cousins invited i think you should go too! you dont have to go right up to him and meet him you could have your cousin introduce you and then just casually talk from there and be like "your screen name is ___ right? ahha i was at my cousins house when her lil bro was talking to you" or something along those lines..but dont act shy! just act like your having a really good time and smile and dont be a wallflower
i hope this allworks out for you, if you need anything else drop some in my inbox
♥ =) erica

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im 15..going on 16 and i havent had a boyfriend yet. everytime someone brings up the subject about having a boyfriend i get so like nervous and self-conscious because im afraid they'll ask like oh who was your last boyfriend? how many boyfriends have you had before? and my old friend was talkin bout boys and my other friend goes yahhh but she hasnt had a boyfriend yet. and the girls like OMG WHAT? you havent had one yet? seriously?! like she was shocked. because apparently alotta people think im prettY? i dont see it but whatever. im not that good with guys i mean yah i talk to them and all ..but as friends. im way too shy to like hang out with them or something. maybe they just dont see me as girlfriend material? my best friend says maybe i may look like a bitch or something..or guys are just afraid to come out and tell me because they are scared of rejection. but actually im not kinda scared to get my first boyfriend (if that ever comes :( because i really wont know how to act since ive never had one before. ahhh please give me suggestions anything will help..seriously!

SORRY i havent answered this in sucha long time ive been busy and what not
its not a big deal that you havent had a boyfriend at all! just simply say your waiting for the right guy or all the guys are assholes
if you like a guy flirt with him and make nice comments and let guys get to know you that will do the trick =)

sorry if my advice wasnt exactly what you wanted but if you need anything else feel free to ask
happy hollidays!

xxoxo

♥ erica

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Is it a total turn off to guys if a gurl dosent walk the same (sright normal ,but still can walk and dance) way. But i mean she can still talk and is nice and stuff and has average body? Ill rate five for thought out anser.

im a girl but i dont think itd matter if the girl doesnt walk the same at all! i havent heard one thing about it from a guy unless your trying to walk weird or something
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Okay, my mom has a friend who has a son. They came over one night and this was the first time I have met him before, he kept on staring at me or just looking at me in the eyes a lot. That night he asked his mom for my e-mail adress and I got an e-mail from him saying " you looked amazing the other night and I think ur really cool, I want to get to know you better," or "do you have a boyfriend" or "what are you most like? Calm and collective, or wild and crazy?"
and stuff like that and I just dont know... is he interested in me?? He's a senior in High School and I am a freshman. What should I do?!?!

well hes defenately interested in you so i would defenately give him a chance but be careful since hes a senior you never really know what could happen and take it slow.. let him get to know you but play sorta hard to get hah some guys liek that

xooxo erica

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i have this amazing boyfriend who i love talking on the phone with for hours and i love him now i no this is going to sound shallow but whenever i see him i think ew how ugly cause he got pimples should i break up with him or what i need help cause i am seeing him in like 2 weeks 13/f >3

hey
i dont think you should break up with him because if you sreisouly love him and stuff looks shouldnt mean anything. what if a guy broke up with you because of how you looked.. i would be pretty sad if it were me haha but i say stay with him because not many guys are you going to find that are extremely hott and also a good guy underneath.. well all the guys ive met arent

good luck!

xoxo

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how can i hide a hicky from my parents..i dont have really long hair so that wont work and i dont wear turtlenecks so yeah i need help

take a bottlecap from a water bottle or a pop, and rub the hickey with the top of the cap until it starts to fade.. trust me it works good haha

♥ erica

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lets say my name is shelly and my friends name is sarah

okay well i am gonna try and talk to this guy on aim..well im gonna have my friend talk to him and then if she leaves for a sec i'll get on and be like oh hi this isnt sarah anymore..this is shelly..sarahs friend..but then the guys will be like okay..then what do i say because it would be kinda awkward and i would feel like he wouldnt wanna talk to me since he dont know me and all..you know? and i wouldnt know what to say so itd be a boring convo and i dont want him to get that impression of me!! but i want him to know that i exist! hope ya know where im comming from

yeah! good start.. just say things like.. what are you doing over break.. and that you wanna meet him sometime. and ask if he has any pics to send you because you thought he was hott hah.

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HI! :) im someone that asked you about my best friend likin two guys and how i thought one of them was hott but i didnt know what to do.but i found somethin out and wanted to kno what i should do noW!

Well last night my best friend called me and we talked for a bit...and i was like soo who do you liKe noW? and shes like i actually dont think i like anyone..and i was thinkin *YESSS* then i can like flirt with that one kid if i ever meet him..but the problem is how do i get her to ask him to hang out with us?! she is super shy! or just to be like yeah i want you to meet my friend..or my friend wants to meet you. because ive tried bringin up the subject like oh yeah you needa hang out with him (hoping id be there too) and then she just changed the subject tho or she just goes yeaa..so i dont know how i could get to meetin hiM! because we go to different schools so i couldnt try and meet him myself..and then like my friend has his s/n but then i dont wanna talk to him on there..so i was thinkin maybe one time i was over at my friends house she could talk to him on there for me or something? but what would she say! how do i bring up the subject with her about askin him to hang out. ahhhh! ANY SuGGESTIONS GORGEOUS?!

hey
well i think you should say that you wanna meet all of these friends of hers and that she should introduce you to some.. and then you can do the same for her when you meet new people.
when your at her house & you guys are talking you should just be like this is ___ your rreeealy hot haha or something to make him a lil cheerful and be flirty and then i dono once you guys get to talkin say that you should meet or hangout sometime! then just mention to your friend that it would be fun and youd really want to..
hope that helped if you need anything else just let me know! :-)

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I NEED A CUDDLE BUDDY :(
it feels like everytime im with my friends and we hang out with a couple guys im soo shy! well actually its like if there outgoinga and flirty then im not and if they arent then i am! and i get jealous if the guys flirt with them and then im just standing there. i love all eyes on me..but im not all that outgoing (weird maybe i know?) haha but anyways im not one to just go give hugs to a boy because i think they will be like "uhh okay? i dont even really know you wtf" and i will feel stupid or i just wont go sit by them and start flirting with them unless they start first. what can i do!?
thanksss!

well if you want things to start happening then you gotta be more open! you dont hvae to go get on a guy right away but you could go up to a guy and be like heyyy how have you been and start casual conversation and stuff like that and give a few peoeple friendly hugs. that way your not being realy shy or really outgoing and if you want them to flirt with you then start flirting a little bit and i think theyll take it from there
♥

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okay..well i kind of like this kid i dont even kno if i like him its just that im really attracted to him!!..he doesnt know yet tho..i dont know if he even knows me? maybe what i look like! haha anywaysss he likes to do stuff with girls i guess. or he has "gotten stuff" if ya kno what i mean. this makes me jealous because i know that he thinks other girls are hott! and that makes me really jealous..even tho i havent really even talked to this kid before but he is just hilarious and just a lil cutie! what do i do?! i really wanna makeout with him =0 thats a problem tho since i havent actually met him yet and i wont see him for AT LEAST about another 2 weeks..bummmer! but yeah and then when i see him its only for like 2 hrs and hes always talkin to other people..blahh! what do i doo? im really shy so that doesnt help..well when i first meet someone i am lol but i LOVE to flirt..just not right when i meet someone..well i do but yeah i dont knwo if you get it? and lately this guy is all i can think about seriously.. and i havent even met him i dont even think he knows i exist! but yeah .. when i go to bed i think about him every night before i go to sleep..like us bein together DREAMIN heheh.. maybe sounds obsessed? i dont know.. ahhh..got any ideas for me to get this guy!!
haha thank you dear

by the way we go to diff schools =(

heey
next time you hang out then get this guys number! call him up once in a while and get to know him and stuff and show something to let him know your interested. if you just wanna get on him then flirt with him a lot but not to much otherwise he might get freaked out or something. tell his friends you think hes hott and see what he thinks and dont shy up around him! be confident and smile alot and then see where everything goes from there

maybe he will start to like you and youll see a lot more of each other and everything will work its magic from there
♥

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so theres this cutie in one of my classes and like usually he "flirts" with me.or i think its flirting? but the kind of flirting he does is aggressive..like pushin you around and stuff..ist that considered flirting or considered "i dont like you get away from me" and then today like jokingly every time i walked by him he would like push me around and be like ya lil BiaTch! and then i would say somethin back..like "take it back" "take it back" and hes be like NoooOO! and then do you think he does this to flirt or does it because he doesnt like me?! hope ya can help!
thanks love

i dont think hed do that because he doesnt like you i think he is trying to flirt with you, because thats how boys are :-)
i would flirt back and stuff and see where everything goes from there
xoxo erica

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hey darling!
well ok i have a problem..
everytime i makeout or do somethin like sexual (not sex or blowjob or anything) but like just anything with a guy i feel so guilty especially like with my parents. i feel like i did something bad and i also feel like that when i drink a lil bit. =(
im 15/f.
what do i do?!

its probobly because you know your parents woudlnt aprove of it. if you dont want to do that stuff any more then you should find friends who are not into that sorta stuff, but if you are into it then reasure yourself that what your doing isnt horrible and try not to think about it and have fun
sorry i couldnt help more...:-\

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i like this guy...well i wouldnt say like him just REALLY ATTRACTED TO HIM! lol but you see the problem is ...so is everyone else =(
and like when i go to school events i think "im not that bad lookin..i think im kinda pretty" (not tryin to sound full of myself) but then when i get there, there are sooo many WAY prettier girls than me..and im like im never gonna get this guys attention. and i couldnt sit by him because he is always packed in with everyone else..with nowhere to sit..and the problem is i dont even know him. havent talked to him once. got any suggestions!?
ThANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!

ohh boy i have a problem like that at my school haha
first of all, i bet you are prettier than a lot of those girls out there so dont say that!! to get this guy to notice you, dont be all over him like everyone else.. do something different
say hey tohim in the halls and you should start to become friends with him and thats the key to start something because youll get to know him and can flirt with him and stuff!
if you need anything else drop some i the inbox

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this kid i like has gotten a blowjob from a girl. i know that all boys only think about is SEX and alla that. obviously haha! but yeah i dont know what to do? because i feel like i have to do something sexual just for him to like me. and i know "yeah then blow him off" just because he would want something from me..but its not that easy! i mean i wouldnt mind makin out with him ;) i wouldnt feel very comfortable doing anything else tho..
what if he asked me? what do you think i should say if i wasnt ready..

noo! dont do anything your not comfortable with a guy.. that will just screw up things and if this guy really lieks you he will wait. if he askes you just be straight up and say not now or not yet or anything because you dont wanna get used! if he dumps you or doesnt talk to you any more because of it, its his loss, and then you woudlnt have to waste your time on a asshole like that. but if he really does like you he wont rush you into anything
so good luck!

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well i havent done much with a guy..just madeout once haha. but i loved it! and i really wanna do someting else again..but i dont know! like im scared that if a really cute guy i just meet wants to finger me or something..that i will do it because he is a freakin hottie! ..and i dont know if i would want to but it would be hard to turn that down you know?

this is really personal so its okay if you dont wanna answer..
but how far have you gone with a guy..

thanks babes.

hey
yeah i know how it is haha its hard to turn down a guy but if you dont wanna go that far then dont give him the signals that you do.. and if you like this kid dontlet him do too much so you know hes likes you and isnt just using you

umm the farthest ive gone witha guy well haha ive done a lot with my x boyfriend who i went out with for 6 months.. but ive never had sex soo yeah lol
got any more questions leave some

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Hey babes.
Okay.. soo my friend kinda likes this kid. but she also likes another kid too haha its kinda confusing. and like ive seen one of the guys she likes and he is super HOTT and seems really funny. and i wanna meet him but my friend is wayyy to shy and i dont wanna be like yeah lets hang out with him and she'll be like why? and i'll be like i dunno..i mean she knows i think he is cute! but she wont have the nerve to hang out with him. i dont wanna wait to meet this kid he is sucha cutie! and then i will feel bad if i do meet him that we will start to flirt or something or he will look at me (sorry i dont wanna sound like selfish or anything) but then IF he does do that what do i do? i would sooo wanna flirt back but then i dont want her to get mad..but ugh i dont want to wait for her forever to make a move you know? i dont even know if she would get mad! and i dont wanna ask her..like what if he flirts with me or something because i dont wanna sound conceited. well i hope you know where im coming from
xoxo

hey there, well i think that if your friend likes him then you shouldnt really do anything with him untill your for sure she doesnt any more because you dont wanna ruin a friendship over a guy. buuut, you could ask her to like hang out with a bunch of girls and guys and then you could get a chance to see this guy or even meet some new ones. and you could ask her if she would pick one guy who would it be and tell her she should really just pick one or something but dont make it so you go right to the guy if she doesnt pick him because she could still have feelings for him. if he does flirt with you, you dont have to completely blow him off but dont be realy flirty with him other wise you could upset your friend. hope i helped!
erica

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oh k well..i never kissed a guy before and im in 9th(i know) and like this kid it 11th and he always wants me to go over and i wanna go im just a little nervous cause i dont wanna mess up with him tho.. ya know?

~confuesd

i think your question is you wanna go over there but you dont wanna like 'screw up' with kissing him? well my advice would just be to let it happen that might not be the answer your looking for but trust me i was really nervious for my first kiss but once we just kissed and started making out everything just went normal and just happend with out any effort so go over there but dont go too far haha

erica

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