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okay this is the typical boy problem that i'm sure you here every singal day, but i still need some help. I'm 13 and im a girl... okay... last school year i had a great boyfriend and he was the best, and then after awhile i started to like another guy and i felt guilty going out with the guy, while liking somebody else too. so i broke up with my boyfriend. the other guy that i liked i didnt have any chance with, and he was just my friend. so all summer long i was talking to the guy i liked(who i had broken up with my boyfriend for)and at times it felt like he liked me but then other times he was just my friend. so after a while i just gave up. i still had some feelings for my old boyfriend even when i broke up with him. so now my old boyfriend wont go out with me because he thinks that i break up with people so i can go out with somebody else. I dont do that though, I have a lot of reasons. But I always end up going back and forth between the two guys, i mean i cant deside who i like best. I just don't know what to do about it all and its confusing the heck outta me!! please help mee!!!
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confused (link)
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ok well first call your ex n tell him wut happened and why just tell him you had mixed emotions over him n your friend which confused you and you didn't know why you liked two guys at once and try to convience him you did it for the best because you were afraid to fall in love with your friend and break his heart n then tell him but I realized he's just a friend I turn to all the times that make me feel comfortable n shit make him feel more needed in the boyfriend type of thing n just explain it but you shouldn't lie though tell him the 100% truth of wut happened and why you did it
hope I helped
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Ok well I'm crushin on this freshman who's a sk8er (I'm a sophomore and im totally NOT a sk8er!!)...i'm more of those "ghetto" gurls i guess? he's spanish and i'm not....there's soo many differences between us. All his ex-gfs were either punk rockish or sk8erish. Do u think he'd be attracted to somebody thats not a sk8er? and that doesnt hang w/ his crowd?
And, he's soooo into skating, and I don't have a single CLUE about it. I'm bummed cuz he's soo cute and funny, and I'm afraid it won't work! Plz help, thx! (link)
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Ok well guess what I'm sure the guy would love to see how it feels to date a more ghetto chick cuz..most skaters u see these days date like preppy or girly girls he probably just enevr had the chance to date a real girl you know...and even if you don't hang out with his group or have different interestes opposites attract...thats what makes a realationship adventuress n more fun cuz if you like the same things you'll do the same things and I'm sure he's like a girl like you just take it slow and start to talk to him then like ask him out and see how you guys get along...oh and sk8boarding isn't that interesting to know things about...like it seems cool but it isn't that cool it's like ollies and all that shit...so don't worry just try not to bring up the facts of skate boarding n don't diss sk8ers infront of him...hope I helped
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Ok me and my boyfriend just broke up on Friday. then on Monday some guy i like asked me out, but i still like my ex-boyfriend what should i say to the guy that asked me out? (link)
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well obviously you like that other guy and well u and your ex just broke up so I'd say yes to the toher guy and try it if you miss the other guy to much(your ex) well dump the other and say it won't work out
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I am havin soo sooo many problems! I need so much help!
1. My dad is sexually horassin me and Im affraid to tell my mom bc she will get a divorce and well have no money!!
2. I am havin so many problems with movin I dont want to and we relocate like 5 times a year and none or our family is in the military!!
3. My mom is a major bitch!!!!
4. My hole family and supposed to be friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wanna kill my self but Im afraid Ill go to heell stupid huh
Plz plz plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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yo first of all if he did anything to you and ur over 12 which I'm sure you are you can press charges and it can be big money like big cash so don't worry....and tell your mom your tired of moving and you don't want to move anymore...and tell your mom stop being a bitch with me ok like fu** and the don't kill yourself it won't solve anything I tired it so manytimes and nothing was good enough I ended up in the hospital once and I don't know i sucked majorly so talk to your mom reason with her and press charges on your dad cuz thats wrong sexualy horassin your daughter so go and press god damn charges and make your life happier
hope I helped good luck
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ok well me and my boyfriend been dating for 7 months and well now he just found out that I'm on birth control and he doesn't want to have sex and he thinks that I'm prechring him into having sex...I tried telling him y but he was confused...what should I tell him? (link)
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Omh thats ok it happens to some pplz just tell him ok listen I take my birth control pills already because I want to be ready for when we eventually have sex so then no condom needed and plus it helps alot with other things and you'll see you wont be sorry...I'm not making you have sex with me I'm more likely just taking them just incase one day we don't think and we do it...explain that slowly to him...lol...and make sure he gets it
hope I helped
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okay, ive been "talking" to this guy for the past like 2 weeks, we hang out acouple times a week and talk on the phone...how long do u think i should wait until i make out with him and NOT seem slutty at the same time? im comfortable with making out and all that junk, but how long should i wait so i wont seem easy? (link)
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ok well first you should prolly go out with the guy before you do make out you'll seem alot less um well u'll just look alot better and two years hell thats long enough girl...go for it...if you don't wanna date him fine by me thats just what most pplz around my town do other then some girls that wont get a boyfriend because they sleep with other girls men but thats no biggy...well hope I helped
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Okay well see.. i like this guy names Tyler! He really likes me but see.. my BEST friend that i have known since i was like 3 or 4 likes him A LOT and she doesnt know i like him. He asked me out tonight and i dont know what to say.. i REALLY need you adive as soon as possible! Please! (link)
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well be honest with your friend I think it's time she knows that you liked him alot and he likes you and he asked you out...and tell her like I didn't want to tell you cuz I was so scared that u'd be mad at me plz forgive me I love so much he asked me out yesterday and I want to say yes but I need postly ur aproval...because no offense your friend never had him so she doesn't own him she can't stop you from dating the guy you love just don't make her feel jealous cuz that fucks up to whole concept...hope I helped
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if you like a girl and she is goin out with someone what should i do (link)
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Tell her how you feel about her and don't make her break up with him but just hope she'll do the right thing in dumping him for you...but don't force her tell her up front I love you and blah blah more like that and then well just hope she feels the same way or close
hope I helped rate me plz
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i have been seeing this guy for 3 years now and we have made out a million times i want to go farther and so does he but i dont know what else to do..i just need some ideas...plz..
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well ok what u could do is like when you make-out start to reach in either his shirt or pants and then well eventually it'll jut happen and he'll go up your shirt as well then well things will happen and it's just sumthing you can't predict if you reach in it'll go further
hope I helped rate me plz:D
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my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him? (link)
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Um well I say your better off leaving him a message letting him down easily and tell him why and all that cuz also the fact of not seeing him for a while kinda makes you wanna break up with him even more so do the right thing and let him down gently
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hi ppl . ok well heres my problem . im not bragging or nethng but i think im pretty & hav a good personality but my one thing is , i hav NEVER had a boyfriend . and im 14 . its bothering me b/c all of my friends can get them , and i cant . i talk to guys all the time and im being myself , but it isnt working . nothing is working . i dono what to do nemore . any tips (link)
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I think it's cuz u have to much confidence about being pretty so you don't get what you want...just lay it cool and don't always go for the hot guys cuz their not always the right ones and they're very picky and heart breakers
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Whats like the maximum age difference thats considered normal?? (link)
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I'd say like 3 years cuz older then that the oldest is considered a pedafile and it's against the law and they can get charged so I'd stick with like 3 years in between...it's like 10 times better unless your in your like mid 20s it's more like 5 to 6 cuz your old enough to make your own decisions
hope I answered ur question...lol
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ok..im trying to help a friend out..and help him w/ his best man speech but what do u talk about when ur writing a best man speech?..id love it if people could help n fast! thanks!
i rate!
KiLeE kAe! (link)
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well in a best man speach you talk about um the past between the groom and bride...and you also speak of imbarassing moments to make pplz laugh and also at the end it's like a toast "to the best man I'v ever known and to the most gorgious lady you love" you know something sweet....he could even talk about the first time he met the bride and the first time he met the groom and say like wow when I saw you I was like "dude he's a nerd man"...lol...you know just stuff to make them laugh ans stuff to make them cry mix it up a little
hope I helped
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okay well last night me and a bunch of friends were at the mall and we were just hanging out and this kid i thank i kinda like was there we were hanging out and stuff and i guess you could say we were "flirting" and 3 of my friends came up to me at the mal and were like he likes you you should go out w/ him hes really pretty you should but i really dont know if he likes me or not and im not to sure if i want a boyfriend rite now im so confused (link)
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Okay well I think since your not ready to have a bouyfriend you should tell him how you feel and see how he feels about you cuz if he likes you you guyz might end up dating like you might change your mind and say hmm he likes me maybe I should try it I guess I could have a boyfriend before the guy I love changed his mind about me because I don't want one right now you...know...so just think about what your doing and the consiquences..or you can get your friends to ask him what he thinks about you and then well make the right choice either ask him out or just stay friends and have a free world of flirting
hope I helped...rate me plz
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Alrite my gf told me today that she kinda like my bestfriend.I do love her though but being with her and knowing she likes someone else it just wouldnt be the same.I want her to be with me but I can't force her to.What should i do or say to get this thing clear up? (link)
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well have a talk with her and say you can go on a date with my best friend and if you end up loving him more then we aren't meant to be...even though you love her his will be hard for sure...but try to bring back memories of you two and make her feel the love she had when you first dated
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HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
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Girl you did for sure the right thing that man didn't love you...it's like he wanted you to beg on your knees and do what ever he pleases...and guess what even if you still love him you'll be happy for sure ur not with him no more
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I find myself really attracted to gay guys. They are very cute and a lot of them are so sweet! And they're funny and fun to be around! Is this abnormal? Since they are feminine, does this make me not straight? Can someone please help me??!!?! (link)
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ok well um no it's normal ok and um guess what if you get along with a gay guy and you like him is because the straight guys are asswholes some times and well gay guys are funner to talk to and you can say like alot of shit which guy you find cute and all that and also you can um get along way better with a gay guy then a straight girl...so um yeah it's normal and it doesn't make you love girls doesn't make you les or fu** all
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dont think i'm weird but all my life i've looked at girls and never thought it was weird but now i might think that i acually like girls as well as guys but i'm not sure what to do?(i'm a girl)
i dont wanna be sean as weird for liking the same sex but i think i acually do its weird....so should i react on these feelings or just supress them and not do anything for fear of rejection? (link)
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um ok well for one your not weird and well guess what it's normal for pplz to have that kinda feeling it's called mixed emotions you don't know what you want and shit and well...I say you should try it with a guy and a girl and then choose which you like the most cuz you never know your maybe Les or straight and you'll never know unless you experience with both sex so just go ahead and try it out
hope I helped...buhbyes
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Ok well I got alot of advice on weather I should like a girl or a guy and why do I like the same sex and the opposite and I don't know alot say it's normal some say it's life and well I want an honest opinion is it weird liking the same sex? (link)
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Hey it's fine if you like a person of the same sex and the opposite it just means your curious...and since your curious I suggest you to try it out with a girl and with a guy and choose which one you prefer...and then you'll know weather you like guys more or girls more...it probably happens to alot of peoples don't worry it doesn't make you weird in anyway
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Well. I'm 14 and I have been madly in love with my neighbor ever since I moved here when I was 9. We write each other e-mails and we sometimes talk on the bus and stuff. He's 18 and he's going to be a senior this year and I'm going to be freshmen, many people that are freshmen date seniors so I don't think its the age. My mom said that he's probably just waiting until I'm older cuz I'm young but I dunno. He knows I like him because my friend would always yell out the window to him that i was in love with him. He asked me last year if he wanted to get a ride to school with him everyday this year, and I said yes. I really like him alot. Should I tell him? Or should I get a friend to ask him stuff?! I dunno what to do. PLease help!! I rate!!
*amy (link)
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um I say you should probably get a friend to ask stuff like who does he like what does he think about you and well if he shows signs that he likes you tell him cuz guys don't care if girls tell them what they think they find it cool when otha chicks dig them you know so just tell him and believe me I'm your age and a freshman and I know alot of guys that I like and they know cuz I told them and they only find me cute for a kid and said maybe like net year you know so just be patients he might love you but wait for a sign to pop out or w.e....but tell him in the car for sure ok...lol
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