hi i just want to know whats a crazy place to have sex...
Well your normal places are anywhere private like anywhere inside a house. Crazy places are most often times outdoor like in a car, at a park, behind a bar or store, or even at school (if you're as young as you sound). Now the most important thing to remember is that have sex in public is illegal if you get caught, so i find it best to do such things after midnight when most people are asleep. Just be smart on the place you choose and be safe when you do do it. It's best to always think ahead.
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I'm really just not into this guy at all any more... we've been dating for like six months or something and I can't stand him. He likes me way more than I like him. But he recently moved like an hour and a half away and we're still dating i guess and I have a car but I really don't want to drive an hour and a half there just to break up with him and then drive back so is it completely cruel if i just text him? I'm just so done with him UGH
Even though it is a long drive just to break up with him it would be better to see him one last time before it all ends that way everything gets out in the open. It would make moving on easier for the both of you. If i can't convince you to go see him then the least you should do is call him, a text is just too mean of a way to end it.
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me-16/f him-17/ okay so here's the thing, there's this guy i've liked for quite some time, he has a really good relationship going, they're perfect for eachother so i try really hard not to flirt with him. but he does just the opposite, he's always flirting with me (he's a really big flirt, his girlfriend doesn't mind) and when we hang out outside of school he's always pushing or rubbing me in some way that really REALLY turns me on... and he bites me alot too... which i think is just soooo hot!!! well anyway, my question is, do you think he knows how much all of this turns me on? and also what can i do to not be turned on... because i really don't want to mess up his reationship. and we're kind of drinking buddies and i get even more sesitive and horney when i drink... and the will power i have when i'm drunk isn't soo great... thank you sooo much in advance!!!
As soon as you said that he pushes and rubs you... he's trying to sleep with you, trust me i'm a guy i've tried these things myself. i bet you anything that he knows that this is truning you on and from my point of view it's doing the same thing to him. Somethings you can do to keep yourself from getting turned on is when he tries it again just get up and leave. About his relation you aren't messing it up he's doing a find job all by himself. all that i can say is that i think you need to find yourself a new drinking buddy because if he's doing this to his current gf then just imagine what he'll be doing to you if you two ever get together.
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see heres the deal. my ex boyfriend and i are amazing together i love him but of course there are things about him that bother the shit outa me. but me and him are gettin bak together. i've been thinkin about the future alot lately and i dont like the way i've been thinking. see.... and him and his dad all hang out alot of the time! his dad is THE shit! well i've been thinkin about the perfect man for me, and the perfect man is.... his dad! his dad is 34 yrs old! hes the greatest. im sooo comfortable around his dad! i take showers at his house and chill around the house in practically nothing while he sleeps! hes walked in on me naked and just went about his business talking to me normally not even glancing twice or nothin like nothin was wrong or even wierd! now dont think his dad is a petafile and dont think im into the older men, cuz normaly im not. i mean i dont wanna b with his dad but his dad is everything i've ever wanted to b with...... is that normal? cuz it makes me feel uncomfortable. and im not sure if i sould b worried or not
it's normal to think about being with someone older it's just a way that your mind explores things but it doesn't mean that it will happen. it is said that father and son are very much a like. one possible reason for feeling the way that you do is that you are picturing what your boyfriend will most likly become and since you have such a bond with the father in the first place that when you are picturing the boyfriend older you jump to the father as that is who the boyfriend get most of this traits from. i would take it as one of those things that the mind does without thinking just wondering at possible solutions as to what your boyfriend might become in a few years
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This may sound really dumb but I get really nervous just before I see my boyfriend. Like I start shivering and not feeling hungry or sick and I get a weird feeling in my stomach. I usually have to pretend to my bf that I'm cold so I'm shivering. If someone asks my a question my voice trembles ans I have to swallow about 3 times during the time I'm talking. I hate it, it feels awful and I really want to be able to see him without feeling so nervous and edgy all the time. Please, does anyone know what this is and how I can fix it???
Thanks
there is nothing wrong with you you're just in love. it's just a feeling in the heart that you have that sends it to your whole body. don't worry about it cause it's just something natural.
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When i ask him out should i be like" hey i was wondering if you would like to go see a movie with me?" or what should i say. Please help
13/f
you need to start small. baby steps as i like to call it. start with hw, a class, or teacher. and just go with that. after a bit into the conversation talk about a new movie coming out like the new bond. then go for the kill as i like to call it and ask him, note that this might be a off on conversation throught the day, starting in the morning and finishing after school or on the phone if you deside to give him your number. just take your time.
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How exactly should i ask this guy out? What should i avoid? i was thinking of asking him to the next dancebut i'm afraid that he'll go off with another girl at the dance. I have real self-confidence problems, espically with Guys. Everyone thinks i am a guy beacuse my hair is really short. i don't think he'll go out with me because i don't look like any of the " popular" girls. please Help!!!
first off take it from a guy's point of view, all guys think about the "popular girls" is how to fuck them and then leave them, not really have a relationship with them. there is no sence in going big at the first step, start slow like hw and then a class or teacher you know, and then a movie (if you are so worried about him leaving you at the school dance) take it slow and steady. the moment someone tries and rush you then step on their ball. really do that, guy don't like to admit it but they like a girl who knows who she is and can take charge even if it means stoppin things. it doesn't matter what others think about you only what you think about yourself, everyone else is just a hater so frak them and what they think. stand tall and proud, and be the great person that you know you are.
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yeah i like her but i can never get the first step and just be her friend cause i get tongue tied this has never happened to me before so can anyone help me with what to say?
sounds like you really like this girl and don't worry it happens to the best of us it just a little thing called love. the reson that you can't be her friend is that you don't want to be just her friend you want to be dating her. their is nothing wrong with that just go for it like one day pull her aside and ask her to a movie of something like that. go for it don't worry about the crash and burn if you don't try it then you'll always be second guessing yourself. go for it what the worse that could happen? don't think about the worse thing it's just a saying to just go for it.
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Ohkay. so i was going out with this guy. but like we always seemed to break up but wed go back out and break up and og back out. so on and so on. this has been going on sense march. our longest relatoinship was only about 2 months. but the moment i saw him i knew i REALLY REALLY liked him. - he treeated me pretty good- i never really saw him that much though. cause hes a grade older then me. so we go to different schools, but like when we would break up hed tell me how much he loved me . and how he would do anyhting for me and stuff. and i am fully inlove with this guy. he now though. somewhat likes my best friend. but my bestfriend. doesnt like him even the littlest bit. - anyway. i was hanging out wtih him yesturday. and he was like holding my hand and kissing me and stuff. and it makes me like him even more. but then i asked him if he liked me and stuff. and hes all like i dknoo im not sure and stuff. then right before he signed off line hes like ill ttyl and like a cabillion hearts. so what im confused about is
if i should move on. cause hes not sure if he likes me or not. or just leave things where they are .
well it sound like the two of you get along really well but he just has a problem of commitment. for the momment move on and just end things or make it seem like you are. give him sometime to just think about you and trust me he will. when comes back, give it like 1 month or 2 max before you start other guys, but if he comes back tell him to eather stay with it for the long run for you won't put up with his short term bs that he is giving out.
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But rumors spread about us, and i know he hates my best friend and im like 70 % sure he hates me to.
But i like him so much!
i dont know what to do!
ive said sorry and so on.
please help
well first off you never have to be sorry when it comes to your feelings and who you like or don't like. you sound like you already know what he's going to say but just need someone else to make the choice for you but no one else can only you can. i can point you in a direction, just go for it even if you are 70% sure he'll say no there is that 30% that you'll spend the rest of your life wondering what could of happened so just go for it crash and burn if you must but lits better to be shot down then always wondering what could have happened.
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she is going to drive me crazy. there's this guy that i truly and deeply care about, and have for a few years now. however, he has a girlfriend. I'm close to some people that he knows and they have confided in me that he is with her because he is jealous of this guy who SAYS he's my boyfriend. So, he went out with this girl because he was trying to make me jealous. But, I did not know that he found out that this guy was saying these things, so I thought he was with her for other reasons. So, then I meet this guy and we get together. now, there are three guys involved in the picture: the guy i've loved for years, the guy who says he's my boyfriend, and my boyfriend. so, i know that i have something special with the guy i've loved for years, but, at the same time I wanted to make him jealous, but I really grew to kinda like this new guy. Now, my mom says that she can't stand him, after she told me how much she liked him. my mom has moodswings and I don't wanna listen to this anymore. I know that I like this guy but I just know what I'm doing. suggestions?
well first things first this guy that's telling everyone that he's dating you, you need to go up to him at school and like knee him in the balls or something like that and tell him to stop and make sure other people hear and so the word would travel around your school. about the first guy, the one that you've liked for a few years. i would have to say that until be brakes up with his gf or tells you himself that he really likes you, what his friends can't be taken like it's true, for all it spells out they could be lieing to get you to make a fool of yourself. about the thrid guy that you're dating right now. even though the start of the relationship was for a questionable reason to say the least, it sounds like you are moving on and that's good love and relationships are never easy but it's important to keep your head up and keep on moving forward and moving on. if this new guy (the thrid one)doesn't seem like he's for you then end it and if the first guy that you really liked brakes up with his gf and comes for you just see where things go.
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I'm in love with this one guy and I don't know if I should go for it. I guess I'm a little scared thinking he'll say no. Help
i going to guess that the way you're using love is that you like him a lot. if so the follow the same rule that i use, just go for it the worse that could happen is that he could say no but if he does then he doesn't desire someone as great a person as you are. so just go for it and crash and burn if it does bad but you'll move on trust me you will but if you don't then you'll always be wondering what chould have happened if he said yes that he liked you . so just go for it he'll only say no top a person like you if he's a jerk and doesn't know what he's missing out on
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yeah yeah yeah another one of those questions..
okay so theres this boy in one of my classes and i think he's really cute and i want to get to know him more..but how do you like "get to know someone" ...like if i just randomly went up to him and started talking he'd be like "um?" ..because we've never talked before..so how can i become his friend without being too weird about meeting him? if that makes sense?
today i added him as a friend on myspace though...(he hasnt been on though so he didnt accept me yet.)
well the basics would be that to take it slow and there is no need to rush on to him. you said that you had a class with him why not ask for help on something like a short homework thing. now the trick is, and take this from a guy's point of view, if he stays with you after then homework is down then he might be interested and is trying to find out if you are as well. it also helps if you start up a conversation start small like something in class and then go out into a movie as the conversation goes on like the new bond movie or something that interests you.
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Ok...so i'm a 15/f and I'm talking to my friend. She has liked me forever and she just told me she loved me. I just wasn't expecting it at all. Is it too soon for her to love me? Is it ok since we have been friends for about 2 years? I didn't say it back either, because I don't love her yet, but I eventually could.
the important thing is that you talk to her about how you feel and ask her how she feels about it. you can never measure love and time because the two of them share nothing in common. time is the same all the ...time, but love is always a mystery and you can never know what it is really after or how things might end up. just one last thing and i guess it's the most important, when you do talk to her and i'm guessing that you'll tell her that you don't know if you love her (not trying to put words in your mouth) but make sure you mention, from what i'm getting from you, that you are unsure about the whole love thing and that you still need time to sort it out but until then you don't want anything to change. now you'll most likly not use that and i agree but it's the message that it gives that's important to follow. follow your heart, it always knows the true path, even if you don't.
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15 y.o. freshman girl. So, I've liked this guy for just a couple of weeks now. He sits next to me in one of my classes, but he usually didn't talk to me that much. But lately he's been talking to me more frequently. Today, we practically talked the entire period because we had a substitute and she just gave us busy work, so we didn't get in trouble. He even grabbed my knee and held on for about a minute or two, which surprised me. About a month ago, my friend told me he liked some girl that went to another school, but maybe he's over her? Should I pursue him? Was he flirting, or does he just want to be friends?
take it from a guys point of view the whole grabbing your knee was flirting. just make the first move, it'll throw him off a bit, but most guys like it and don't mind. about the other girl it seems like you don't have to worry about it at all cause like you said he spent the period talking to you which means that he is over her and wants to move on
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What do you do when you have a boyfriend who you love and you have been goign out for 5 1/2 months but you statrt to fall for your best friend and your best friend likes you?
I think I'm starting to fall for my best friend who I am always with and I know I flirt with him. He likes me too but the problem is I have a boyfriend. I feel like each of them has one of my arms and they are both tugging away and I can't decide whos hand I want to let go of because I don't want them to fall.
What Should I Do?
~Confused in Love
breaking up is never easy it's like moving away from your friends and changing school. unlike moving away from the life you know, love shares one important similarity life changes and you need to move on or be left behind living in a past that you loved but no longer exists. love is a interesting subject to say the least the only right answer is the one your heart gives you but the important thing is to never second guess yourself. when breaking up from your boyfriend, in your case, someones heart gets broken it's a sad truth but it happens when you open up your heart to someone else in hopes of getting the samething (love) back. things change and people move on it's nothing to be afraid of, the important thing is that your boyfriend hears it from you first and no one else, word travels fast so don't tell anyone not even your best friend, even if that they promise not to tell anyone, the important thing is that he hears it from you and not a little birdy.
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