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me and my crush,we known each other since last december,he's in marine,right now he's in Nevada dessert for his training,after that he have to go to Iraq.I like him so much.he can't take his phone or whatever{with him}he sent me a message to myspace one time{when he got a chance} and last two days ago,he called me around 3;00 am..I woke up at that time but I din't familiar with that phone number that why I didn't pick up the phone{I was so regret}he told me "he miss me very very much and thinking about me a lot!"{I never hope that}I was crying at that time,till this day.I kept his voicemail and listen that again and again..cuz I miss him so much too.he said he call me back if he can.I miss him so bad..that can make me cry everynight,,I just want him to know that I miss him so much too,,, (link)
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awww sweetie i'm so sorry i know how it is missing somebody in a different state i'm living in washington when the guy i love lives here in california and it's not very fun well just when people call you even when you don't know the number answer and tell him you miss him and if you love him tell him that too and explain as much as you can i know it was really scared when my uncle was in iraq and yeah but say your thinking of him a lot too and just tell him the truth i guess is all i can say sorry if it doesn't help
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Well I dated this guy for about two weeks before he left for a working vacation in California. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, and first guy I almost fell in love with. Everything seemed so perfect until he left.
He stopped calling or talking to me online. I thought it was because of the time difference being a pain and he was working a lot and catching up with friends. Well, he was gone for about a week and, long story short, I found out that he was hanging out with this girl and talking about hooking up with her.
I asked him over MySpace if he wanted to date other people while he was gone because I was fine with it considering we'd only dated for about 3 weeks. He said he wasn't dating other people and had no intention of it. Time went by and the girl he was talking to kept IMing me and telling me some stuff. I didn't want to believe her, but it was obvious that he was lying to me.
I made myself miserable and cried for days. I was physically sick over it. I finally broke it off with him because he was 1) ignoring me and 2) acting like everything was fine and 3) treating me like I was the bad guy for not trusting him when it was so obvious he wasn't telling the truth. I wanted to be friends with him still, but it's obvious that's not what he wants.
I thought he was serious about me. Everything he did made it seem like he was REALLY into me, and it's possible that he could have been the whole time. But something happened between him leaving and now and he became a totally different person and is now officially dating this girl.
I'm trying really hard to get over him and I'm not crying and stuff over it anymore because I know it had to be done, but I still can't stop thinking about him and every time I do I get sick to my stomach. It just won't go away and I feel sick all the time unless I'm out with my friends. And I can't do that every day.
How can I get over him? All I want is to stop thinking about him and feel better, physically. Is there anything I can do? Will breaking up always be like this? I'm so consumed with this. Help! (link)
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it will feel like that most of the time hate to say it but its true and it's not very fun either. your always feeling sick and upset and depressed. i was like that after my ex boyfriend schuyler and i gave everything i had to give to him if you know what i mean....but yeah i felt like that for almost a year and i still do i loved him i gave him my heart and all i got in return is pain and suffering so yeah...it sux if you ever want any help with relationships i'm always her ok!!!!!
Katie
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im a 15 yr old female.
Ok so theres this guy I met at my school.
and weve been talking and everything and he seems like a really nice guy and everything, but im scared of liking him to much or giving him a chance cause i dont want to get hurt. With pretty much all my last relationships the guys have fucked me over pretty bad, and im tired of it. I just want to be with a good guy who wont hurt me. But how do I know if this guys any different?
Help please? (link)
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ok what is it bout guys treating gurls or their gfs bad i'm getting sick of it well all i have to say is that i'm still looking for that guy to and right now i'm with this really sensitive guy and all you have to do is put trust in him just not to much trust and hope it will turn out good
sorry i don't really have any other advice see what he would do when he's around his friends when you two r together and things will hopefully progress from there
sincerely
Katie
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f/17
me and my boo, weve been talking for a long time like 6 months, and i think its time i ask him out since hes so shy. I seriously think hes never been in a relationship before and im surprised he grabs my hand wen we walk or puts his arms around me alot. I want to ask me out but dont know how. Hes really shy with that, and how can i ask him to be my boyfriend without flipping out, like getting a heart attack because he gets nervous?????I really want to be his girl, i need advice. How can i ask him to be my boyfriend??? (link)
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hmmm...well ok so you like this guy right? just go for it your gonna get embarrassed of course your probably not used to asking people out and either is he maybe if you want him to ask you out give him some clues saying to him that i wish you would ask me out don't be too obvious but just tease him a little and after a while if he doesn't get it then just ask him out i did and it worked!!!!LOL
hope it helps
sincerely
katie
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have you ever been cheated on or anything to do with cheating?
I just have a small situation. My friend Sam cheated on her bf Allan with my bf's best friend and his brother. She made out with both of the guys and gave on of them head. Her bf allan is good friends with me and my bf and we decided we should tell him-- so we did the next day.
Sam and I weren't completely good friends but we were close somewhat. But if he did this to her, I would probably tell her too. So she's pissed and she has all my friends against me. Even my bffl. But i know i did the rite thing. All this time, past 2 weeks I've been there for Allan; even pickig him up at midnite because he was so depressed and taking him 2 parties to help him get his mind off her. And she does everything she can like for example- she cuts hereself- for attention. Allan and her are supposed to talk 2morrow and i want to kick her ass so bad but I'm not going to be there.
there's only one lil thing that i messed up on. at the party i told her to go for--to cheat. and when i told my bffl the story i admitted i told her to go for it.....and allan doesnt kno that. i told him i never said that and he believes me. but now sam and kayla my best friend have this against but my bf was there but will tell alan that it never happened, but im still afraid he'll beloieve her. he want to be with her but knows he shouldn't.
what do u think i should do now? kayla keeps telling me to back off when sam from the beggining said she was gonna break up with him.kayla and sam never even liked each other? everyone feels sorry for her because all she does it cry and they give me stuff like "you have no idea how much she has been thru" blah blah when this is all for attention and i'm not stupid.
now i really don't know what do or even say?
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ok you were a good friend for telling him but now your getting bit in the ass because of it i personally did the same thing and i still do i just want my friends to be happy so when someone is hurting them so you know it's shit i know but they don't they've probably never been in the situation and they need to give you a break you were just trying to help maybe to get them to believe you set her up for something or just go and talk to her say your sorry and record something that she says that proves you're right they'll never know and just say you wanted to prove your point but of course being right is always the best well i'm sorry if i didn't help you that much but at least i can say i tried
♥Katie
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my boyfriend , who i like very very much, tries to get me to sneek out alot. and i dont like getting into trouble very much with my dad because hes the kind of person who does not forget. but when i try to tell my boyfriend that i dont want to sneek out because i dont want to get into trouble, he gets angry at me and tells me that he would do anything for me and that i wont get caught... how do i tell him to not push me into getting in trouble. (link)
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ok girl i hate to break it to ya but if this guy who says he would do anything for you wants you to sneek out and knows there is a big possibility that you might get caught and he doesn't seem to care he isn't much of a boyfrind he's more of an asshole (no affense) but you deserve better ok
sincerely
katie
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I'm 14/M there is this smokin hot girl on my soccer team. I'm the golie for my team. I'm pretty shure she likes me too. How do I flirt with her in practise? She is dating another guy, not going out with him but dating. How do I flirt with her, and in the proses get her to like me? (link)
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ok you can never make any one like you but maybe when you get the chance at practice go talk to her it might do you some good
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I have a what I call "steady hookup partner", for the past few weekends we hang out, and 80% of the time.. We hook up.
I guess you could say we progress verry slimly every weekend, and I'm kind of worried about if I were to give him a handjob of how I should go about that. Do I make the move or does the guy normally?
Oh yeah, while kissing does touching face/hair/neck/body Help.. or is there such a thing as too much of that?
Confused, Help? :)
PS: Any other information or advice about hooking up or whatever would be greattttt. (link)
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ok number one is he single and not cheating on a girl...two if not go in and ask him out...because if you don't it will get really weird and once you give him what he wants he my just get up and leave and you might never hear from him again.
for the other question it depends on who the person is and yes there is such a thing as too much but it usually does help by touching face/hair/neck/and body
it's ok to be confused but don't do anything you would regret because that is never good and by the way i'm probably not that much older then you and sometimes i have the same thoughts but it's ok it happens and it's normal
hope it helps :D
Skittlez
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Hi, i am a 19 year old guy and just last night my girlfriend of 1 year and 3 months decided we needed to break up. she said that she had problems and just couldnt be in a relationship any more. she said that she does still love me and i belive her. the problem is that i dont think she has any problems and i wasnt to be with her more than anything in the world! How do i prove to her that we can make our relationship work and that we can be happy again. she said that she still wanted to be with me but didnt think she could be right now. what can i do? (link)
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well i'm a girl and i'm used this excuse many many times. and usually it means she's into another guy, but hey i mean look on the bright side try to make her see what she gave up get a new girlfriend that you know you could never love or even like show her a good time and if she still says she loves you and wants to take you back then take her back and explain to the other girl that you just aren't as happy with her then your ex-girlfriend..
hope it helps ;)
Skittlez
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15/f. my boyfriend is 17, a senior in high school. this is a long one...
my boyfriend and i have been dating since march 26 (you do the math). we've seen each other approximately 3 times since then. we've hooked up 3 times; twice while we were going out and once before. we've been to second (his hand under my bra).
we were very close friends before we started dating. we acted rather like boyfriend and girlfriend. we only needed to make it official. so we did.
he said "i love you" very early on. it took me a few times to answer. he was amazing, the perfect boyfriend. when we saw each other or even when we spoke, he treated me like gold. when i couldn't sleep, he'd answer his phone at midnight and talk to me until he fell asleep (i'm a bit of an insomniac). we had great conversations.
last time we saw each other was a week ago from yesterday. it was a perfect day, except that he was supposed to drive me home and my mom ended up not letting him and made me take the train home alone. he paid for my train ticket, being as perfect as he is, and i left. and things started to get weird that night.
about a month ago, when talking about another couple, i compared ourselves to them, not thinking it would stick with him. superficially, we were similar. however, the other couple broke up. the statement that i made started to haunt him this week. he was acting weird and he stopped saying "i love you" and every time i tried to hint to him that i was noticing, he'd ignore me. finally, i confronted him yesterday. we talked out the statement, but there was still something wrong.
we ran out of things to talk about. we always joked about that before, but we seriously did. i fell into a depression last night and for the life of him, he couldn't figure out what to do.
i still like him. hell, i think i may even love him. i don't want to break up. but he and i are both confused and a mutual friend is not making it better by telling us to break up with each other. i know he wants to stay together, but it's just so weird now. what do you think i should do? (link)
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ok so one thing you never want to do is compare your relationship with another couples. that will just make things harder and obviously it made it awkward so i guess what i'm trying to say is see how it is apart maybe for like a week maybe not even that try to get things straighted out or maybe so it's not so confusing...i know it might be awkward but ask your mom...i was in the same spot about 3 months ago with my boyfriend and i talked to my mom about it and it really did help so i mean parents aren't always that bad they can be embarrassing but they love you anywayz even through the toughest time. they will always have you back no matter what
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the quote "here's a little something that every girl should know, it's okay to hold on, but eventually, you'll have to let go."
i know its time to let go , my brain is ready to but my heart just wont give up . i still talk to this guy all the time and he always says he loves me and junk , but i know he doesnt mean it . i have tried to stop talkin to him &nd it works for a couple of days , then he starts callin &nd sayin he misses me &nd junk . i just give in . i dont know what to do . someone help me ! (link)
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well it sux i can tell you that much and it does take time to get over someone but just because you want to get over him doesn't mean you can't be friends with him. explain to him what's going through your head, explain to him how you feel and if he doesn't get it then he's not worth your time.
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ok 18/m
shes 17
going out 4 months
then she tells me she loves her x
we break up
2 days later she comes back cryin sayin she made a mistake blah blah blah
wants me back blah blah blah
doesnt want him or ne1 else blah blah blah
i ask her if she has even kissed any1 else. she says no
i say ok
we get back together
Then i find out through trusty lil myspace that in those 2 days she fucked a 20 year old and lied about it.
Confronted her. She admited it. Shes crying over it. Shes givin me all the "im so disgusted in myself, i hate myself for it blah blah blah"
i cant take this pain anymore, every time i look at her i break down cuz i picture her and him.
But i also cant walk away from her. I love her.
And i also cant go on a break with her, becuase im to afraid of what she will do if shes not with me cuz i cant trust her whatsoever anymore. HELP (link)
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no affense but she sounds like a bitch personaly. i mean if she really did love you she wouldn't of done that. i mean come on i love my boyfriend and when we broke up i didn't do anything with anyone else because i loved him so much more then anyone and anything i'm 17 now and we've been together for a year and a half and he's has given me everything that i've ever wanted.... so you know tell her you'll still be her friend and you'll always be there for her but untill she decides wat she wants you don't want to be with her and if she tells you that she wants you tell her she doesn't because if she did she wouldn't have slept with that 20 year old. And she would have never broke up with you for her ex. Tell her that she didn't know what she had untill she lost it and make her think about your guys relationship and see what happens give it about a week or two and so yeah hope this advice helps write back and tell me how it goes
~Anna~
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omgosh ok...me and this guy have lockers right next to each other at school and we barely talk...ok so he added me on myspace and i left hime a msg to see if wanted to go to the movies or hang out over thnxgivin break (just as friends)....he didn't answer my msg back so i started feeling omg was i too forward? then i sent him another msg joking about the whole situation and he sent me a "?" now i feel like such an idiot because if he read one msg without the other he's just gonna think i'm crazy or something and i have the urge to call him but i don't have his phone #...what do i do? (link)
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what i would do is i would be like straight forward with him at school when we were at our lockers so yeah then ask him if he wants to go to the movies and explain what you meant in the myspace message. hope this helps.
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My friend who i have been friends with since first grade is very flirty and wants to grab my ass. he like said "so i can look but can i touch..." i dont know how to respond to that. i want to be flirty back without saying yes or no. can anyone help pleaseee? (link)
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so as i understand you want him but you don't want to say yes or no am i right. well what i would do is say the same thing back and do what he is doing if it gets to far tell him you want to stop. do you like this friend of yours more then a friend or just as a friend??? if you like him more then a friend tell him that you do maybe something will happen between you and him.
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well there is this guy i like his name is ian. i have had people tell me he likes me to; two of his closest friends told me that. & we write notes back & forth, tell each other we love them & we flirt like crazy. We can talk on the phone for hours at a time. I really like him & I want to start to date, but I dont want to ask is there anyway I can get him to ask me? (link)
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i was in the same situation and i had his friends engourage him to ask me out and he finally ended up asking me out after he's friends encouraged him to and he got up the guts.
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Okay, i made a huge mistake while my boyfriend and I were fighting, and i said i was questioning his feelings for me. I wish i never said it..because I really do believe that he loves and cares for me the way he says he does, but now like he thinks I dont trust him..how do I make him realize that I really really do believe he loves me?? (link)
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tell him you do believe him and say your sorry that you said that say you were just really mad at him at the time and you said something stupid and that you regret ever saying it. it might work it might not just let him hang out with girls by himself and prove to him that you trust him. well i hope this helps.
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Okay, so, they guy i like, has a girlfriend, but he told me that he liked me and to wait for him. Should i continue to wait for him? (link)
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well if this guy likes you then he should break up with his girlfriend and you should tell him that because it's not right that he is doing that to her. If she finds out she is going to be really upset she probably really likes him. so i don't know. tell him to either break up with her and go out with you or you shouldn't go out with him because you deserve better every one does my friend has gone through this like 15 times before she found the right guy and i helped her through it each time i hope this will help good luck.
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Sorry in advanced if it is long. I'm 16/f. So, I broke up with my bf of 4 months a month ago. And the same exact day he got a new gf. And he didnt bother telling him, I found out at a party, I saw them together. And it didn't feel right to me, like he shouldn't have moved on so quickly. But I wasn't really jealous I don't think. And we are still friends, which I'm glad for, and I'm constantly going online to see if he is on. And when he is, my heart starts to race like crazy, and I'm like so happy. We can talk forever but little stuff, we just always find things to talk about. I also think about him all the time no matter what, it drives me crazy. And when I'm not talking to him, I feel a little depressed. I'm just scared that if we do get back together, it will end up like the past. I really don't want to hurt him again, I would just hate myself. And after we broke up, I told myself that I did love him, but just that it was just friendship love. But now I"m not too sure. Can I really still be IN love with him? And I just also need some advice on how to deal with these feelings if they won't go away. I'm just really confused and need some advice. (link)
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omg i just got over this same problem. i know it sux that he is with another girl. after i broke up with my ex he went back to his ex then when they broke up he came back to me and then he broke up with me and that same day he waqs going out with this chick and didn't even tell me and we broke up once in five months and it was for like 1 hour he was only going out with her to get back at me for dumping and he said i still love you brianna and i told him that i still loved him too. but i was sick of being his go back to girl and so now were friends but barely tell him that you love and it was a mistake that you broke up with him thats is how i got schuyler back but i hope this helps. good luck.
*~Brianna~*
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okay so im 16 and i have never made out. i now have a new boyfriend and im nervous. like a part of me doesnt want him to kiss me and i dont know why. am i just nervous or am i still not ready? i mean im fine with the quick peck on the lips but i dont want to make out. i dated a guy for like 6 months without making out.. i know this cant go on forever but ah i dont know... also in a way the whole tounge in the mouth thing grosses me out... and i dont know how kiss so i wouldnt know what to do. everyone tells me to just go with the flow.. but sitll. wont your teeth knock together?
anyways..
what is wrong with me? (link)
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no nothing is wrong with you just wait until the right moment comes i didn't make out with a guy until i felt comfertable with it either so don't worry and sometimes your teeth knock together but it's okay and i thought that the whole tounge thing was kinda nasty too so don't worry and have fun.
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ok. so my mom is going to iraq and my dad is moving me from west bloomfield, were my boyfriend lives to clarkston where my dad wants to live. we are moving next week. should i keep going out with him and do that whole long distance thing or should i break it off and explain?
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ummm hate to break it to you but long distance relationships almost never work out and that really sucks when you care about the person because you care about that person adn you don't want to hurt that person. so yeah i totally understand what your thinking. But if that person wants to stay in contact then stay in contact with that person. ummmm it also depends on if you guys love each other or not soooo it all depends if you love him then don't break up with him. but if you guys don't love each other then one of you guys are gonna end up cheating on one another.
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