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moving on
the quote "here's a little something that every girl should know, it's okay to hold on, but eventually, you'll have to let go."
i know its time to let go , my brain is ready to but my heart just wont give up . i still talk to this guy all the time and he always says he loves me and junk , but i know he doesnt mean it . i have tried to stop talkin to him &nd it works for a couple of days , then he starts callin &nd sayin he misses me &nd junk . i just give in . i dont know what to do . someone help me !
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Well, dear, the best advice that I can give you is that love is sometimes a choice and something a feeling. If you really want to move on, you need to make the pro-active choice to do so and really stick to it. I know its hard, trust me, I have been there! But, it is possible. Just remember that he isnt the only guy out there and there re plenty of great guys that you would meet. *Smiles*. If you need anyting, or just someone to talk to to take your mind off on him, just IM me or write me on here. Hope this helps! Have a good one... and Good Luck, Dear!
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i could say a million words but nothing will change how you feel about someone if you love them then you love them your gonna have to take it step by step and eventually you will move on ive been in love with someone for a while now he dont like me what so ever we dont even talk much but i still love him and always will but im working on moving on and its hard but i know it will all work out how God wants it to and im ok with that and you should be to it will get better i promise good luck
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ugh.
i know exActly what you mean. he keeps calling you, saying he loves you, and you fall for it. to sum that up.
well the same thing happened to me.
except one of the days after calling me and saying that, he got a girlfriend. and my best friend.
so he probably knows..no, he's not over you either. but sooner or later he's going to "move on" anyways. and even though even then he might not be all the way over you, it will hurt you a lot and you have got to try to prevent that from happening...as much as possible.
so i dont know exactly How your going to go about doing this...but i'm just going to talk.
there is a lot of guys out there, and pretty soon your going to find another one you really like. and aside from that, there are a lotta hot ones to look at for the time being. you just need to start noticing, you can do a lot better. you know he doesnt mean that he loves you, which is good on your part, so since he's 'just saying that' you can know to look for someone who will treat you a lot better and mean it.
just keep letting yourself know that, and whenever he calls next just tell him no you dont mean that and you need to give me space to let me get over you...because i need to. it is the best thing for me and i know you Dont love me, but if you care at all you will want the best for me.
xoxo helpachick
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well it sux i can tell you that much and it does take time to get over someone but just because you want to get over him doesn't mean you can't be friends with him. explain to him what's going through your head, explain to him how you feel and if he doesn't get it then he's not worth your time.
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