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I like this girl who I am good friends with. We've been hanging out recently a lot and we've had a good time. I don't know if she likes me or not and I'm not sure if I should tell her I like her or not because that might ackward our friendship. But in contrast to that she could like me and I wouldn't know. So if u were in my situation what would u do? (link)
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if i were you i would say something..but me myself am i very random person and say what i think...id by you saying something like that is out of your element maybe you should take a shy way around it and hint to her..like hug her alot or kiss her on the cheek..and one of those times when u hug her..hld her tight and be like..i like you (:
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Well, i started at a new private highschool this year and i've met alot of new people. In this pool of new people, there's one i think about all the time: We'll call him John.
So, i just met him this year and he's kinda quiet and shy around people he doesn't know well. But he does have a lot of friends and he's well known throughout the grade because he is just so cute. Some girls go right up to him and tell him he looks like a cute lil teddybear and how adorable he is. He just kinda shrugs it off and smiles a little. Of course, I've never dared to do this.
But anyways, back to the point. I really really like him. He's in 4 of my classes, and at my new school we have three classes a day and on one day i have all three classes with him. So we've become friends and can talk to eachother comfortably in school and sometimes out of school. Now, it used to be me starting all the conversations- but i've noticed lately he's been starting them too. On a certain day when i have spanish then modern history, we always walk with eachother from the 3rd floor down to the first. I try to hint that i like him, i smile alot and make eyecontact. The only signs i've been getting back are a few times i've caught him looking at me, and he walks with me to some of our classes, and we usually end up next to eachother when we're leaving one of our classes to go to the next. I dont know if its just coincidence, or if he's doing it, because i of course am also kind of shy and wont take the initiative to stay back a bit for fear that it will seem too obvious. ( although i do do this sometimes)
(( Sorry this is so long ))
But we talk at least once a day and we joke around with eachother and he makes me laugh alot. I know i like him alot...but do you think he likes me back? Thanks for your help! (link)
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actually i do think he likes you...ust remember that boys show their emotions VERY differently than girls do..guys get nervous around us..i mean we do to but they get EXTREMELY nervous..when you walk with him try and figure out how he moves along side you..if he walks a little stiff or if your looking at him he usually isnt looking in your eyes..those are KEY signs that he does..along with many more...its really good that hes taking the nitiative to start convorsations with you though..see if u can start hanging out with him after school..like just say simething simple and easy such as "we shopuld hang out sometime""it would be fun(:" i hope i helped you..GoodLuck and have fun :D
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ive never kissed a guy b4 but i want to..how without making a fool of myself? (link)
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well all i can tell you is if your "making out",follow him, you wont make a fool out of yourself its a pretty natural thing actually
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Well... (im a girl)ever since about a year ago, ive reckoned i was gay.In year 5(im now in year 8 and im 13)i yoused to sort of make out with this girl when we slept over each others houses but i just put it down to experimentation. Now i really like girls and dont really like guys and i keep having dreams and watch movies with lots of gay/lesbian people in them. Im not to bothered by the fact of being gay but i was wondering that seeing as i dont have a girlfriend and im not about to tell my parents anytime soon, what should i do? (link)
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i would say just keep going on as you do..
you can be gay and not tell your parents, its totally up to you..i have this friends and when he was younger he was afraid to tell him parents he was gay because they were against that..when he turned 16 he told them and even though they were upset they accepted itbecause he was old enough to decide what sex he prefered..so yeah i think you should live your likfe as you are...i hope i was of help(:
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Is it bad to just hook up with someone even though you're not with them? It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I just need reassurance that it's okay. Please let me know! Thank you. ♥ (link)
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hook ups are totatlly..fine and healthy..
the only thing is if you let too many people find out, they might start saying things..so just try and keep it on the downlow..either way as long as you like it :)
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considered a slut if she has sex on the first date? (link)
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well alot of people consider being a slut many things..i personally think a slut os someone who has sex with ALOT of people in a short span..i mean its not always a good thing to let yourself go early but who cares...its your body and do what feels right..if people judge you, let them go. most of the time when people judge they are to discouraged about themselves annyways
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Yeah i could do that, but i dont want to feel annoying, and he did, but my bestfriends really effing pretty, and i know that im no comparessen to her :( (link)
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see now by saying that hes not gunna compare you two..but if you have self confidence u never know the comparison..and beauty doesnt always matter:) but just chilling with aLL of your friends might be good for you and talk to him everyonce in awhile and maybehe will realize what hes missing...
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okay, so today, my bestfriend, gave me her password, and i kinda looked at her messages...and one was from the guy i liked (remember me tell you about him) and there was a whole bunch of things telling her that when we went to his house, he wanted to kiss her really badly and stuff, so i decided not to goto the airport and tell him how i feel since he probley just likes her anyways. awe, why can't good things happen to me?? :( (link)
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awwe well what if u call him or e-mail him or even talk through instant messenger?...if you do that, that way you can be like so whats up with you and (your friend) do yah liker her?..and try figuring it out that way..but its still worth a try because didnt u say he wanted to kiss you too?..who knows it wouldnt hurt to try now would it?..if you dont want to dont..im just letting you know that you hae nothing to lose..
:)
-Bri
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Female/sophomore in highschool
Guys just don't see me in "that way"
I'm overweight and I feel ugly all the time
It's really bringing down my confidence.
I try to brush it off, but it still hurts.
What can I do to give my confidence a boost?
Sincerely, ME. (link)
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the best thing i can tell you is to havea confidence in yourself..if you have high self esteem people will realize that and love it..if you have low self-esteem people might take advantage or just have none at all...talk to people and your friends. your still young so i wouldnt be worried about the whole guy thing. just please try to start thinking that you are unique and pretty and feel good about yourself..trust me it will hep you in the long run(:
-Bri
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okay well my EX is trying to get with one of my CLOSEST friends and i dont know what to do,i mean i know that seh likes him and i dont want to ruin that for her, but there are 3 things:
1. he still is tryin to get back with his EX
2. he treated me like shit so i kno hell do the same with her
3. hes MY EX!!!
how do i tell her how i feel and that i disagree with them getting together???
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well ill tell you what i did because surprisingly enogh i was in the same situation.
-if she is one of your closest friends dont you think she should know how you would feel with the situation?
-tell her that even though you guys broke up it would really hurt you if they went out or got together or anything.
-make it personal and have feeling, let her know your emotions about the situation and dont hide anything
-if she is a true best friend she wont go with him or she will at least wait until your ready.
i wish you the best of luck!
-Bri
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14/f. i like my guy best friend. he's so awesome and i feel like we can have a really good relationship, but i don't know if he likes me. plus, there's this other girl he's friends with, and during a field trip we had friday, they were together the whole time. they're not going out, but it really made me SOO JEALOUS. and i don't like feeling jealous, but what can i do?! there's times that i feel like asking him out to make sure he's mine and cuz i've been waiting for so long. i really really do like him. the people who knows that i like him told me to just tell him, but i'm scared as hell. this is not like the other boys that i've liked, cuz i wasn't such great friends with them, and i don't wanna ruin our friendship. so what should i do? (link)
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i personally dont think that by you telling him you like him is going to ruin your friendship. if one day you two are alone and are just talking about randon things be like (lets say his names john=P) be like "john im starting to realize i like you than more of a friend.. and i dont want that to affect how we are now so what is your input on it. that might work (:
good luck!
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okayy. So is it possible for a guy 2 years older than you to like you. Last year we went to the same schoool, this year, we go to different schoools. Last year, he was like "well ill go out wtih you in like 3 years" just like randomly as im talking to him online. And at that point, i had no feelings for him so i thought it was kind of odd. then through the year, after talking to him, i really started to like him. And now that we dont go to the same schools, i barely talk to him. And i dont know if im wasting my time and should move on? Or if i should really consider going out with him. Last year some of his friends would be like yeah i think he likes you. But i always am like "no thats too good to be true" I just want to know some other peoples opinions on this. Thanks so muchh! :] (link)
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yes it is very possible and it happens ALL the time, i also have aboyfriend two years older than me so i get what your saying..but just try talking to him more. call him or im him. let it be known that you still think about him and care. ask him to hang out and just be out there. in the meantime if nothing works just go on as you do and eventually you will figure otu what is oing to happen with the both of you.
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okay, im 14, and hes 15.
He lives in Edmonton we went to school together last year, and then now hes going to a private school, he is really like into girls, and i dont know what to do, i really like him, but so does my bestfriend, and everytime hes down, he is like all over us, like cuddling etc, but i dont know which one he likes, i dont know, i feel like crying all the time, and he always knows the right thing to say, he never makes me feel like discluded he always like involves us both, but hes like we should make out and i always turn him down because i know he will go and ask my bestfriend in a couple of secondes, i dont know what to do, please help!
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alright, if i was you, i would talk to him. ALONE. w/out your best friend. and just be like listen i "really" like you and the only reason why i keep saying no is because i dont want you to go and ask "her" in a few minutes or even tomarrow. be like i juat dont want to be put in that situation and if u want me, you can have me, but just me not her. yah know?..and maybe if you tryed talking to your best friend about it too because say either you or her get him, you dont want the other to be mad because there is no reason to lose a friendship over a boy. trust me i have gone through it and its not fun. you have to remember that friends stay forever, boys come and go. some might eventualy come back, but only if its right. Hopefully i was able to help (:
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15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering. (link)
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well :)
i am a 15 year old girl and to tell you the truth
i LOVE guys who wera cologne..it is a HUGE turn on..at least for me it is...i love to be next to a boy and have him smelling good..Def. try it its a wonderful thing =)
-Bri
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i REALLY tried to make this short but ya... im a girl, im 15, a soph in high school, and i like a guy who's also a soph at my school and i think hes either 15 or 16, basically ive met my perfect guy and i dont know if he likes me
lets say his name’s Ed, Ed is in my 0 period english class, here are some situations that had happened... (1)for some reason he is not the type of guy to follow a girl with his eyes when she stands up and walks across the room, and he didn't do that to me either but now i notice that he does (2)he look at me “secretly” in class (3)whenever im walking with my friend after 0 period to my next class, him and his friend will coincidently be always behind us (4)at games, when im cheering on the sidelines, he will look for me in our cheerlines (5)sometimes when we just get to watch the game (instead of cheering) and he isnt playing yet (hes a football player), I’ll look for him in the group of football players and our eyes will meet and we’ll quickly look away (6)BUT: in english class we do a lot of group work, and my group is usually right next to his, and when we are done and just have some free time, I will go over and talk to random groups and in turn talk to his group and him, but when i will ask the simplest of questions to get a conversation going, he will with a short answer and wont keep goin(as if he is a shy and quiet guy, but he's is SO not quiet around everyone else, guys AND girls) (7)To make things worse: I’m getting REALLY mad that he cant talk 2 me, and im noticing that he now might watch another girl in our english class in “that” way and maybe hes not noticing me and...am I losing him?? what do I do??
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im a 15 soph to and i have def. tryed doing the same thing you are..
first of all stop being shy..when your talkign to him, be like why are you being shy..i have noticed your not. because maybe he IS being shy beacsue he might hae mixed feelings about you..let him know u want to talk to him and be a little more straight forward. if you have noticed that he is looking at other girls now,,maybe its beacause he wants to make you jelous or maybe he thinks that will make u give the initiative to talk to him more or something. trust me it isnt a coincidence that he follows you our of your english class..try asking him if hed wanna hang out sometime or something..that usually works for me..but im not the shy type so who knows..wel i hope i was a help
-Bri
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Hello, I am a fifteen year old female. In the past I have dated two guys but broke up with them after a very short time because the relationships seemed boring, and I was (obviously) not ready for sex to "spice it up."
Now I feel like I do not want to date anyone again. I am unsure of the reason, it may be stress, nervousness or the fact there is no one whom I like. In the past I have been hurt a lot by guys, despite only dating two of them, and I do not trust anyone with my feelings. Nor do I think that anyone should be burdened with them.
I am wondering if I should try to look hard to find a the right guy, or if I should continue on as I am, basically avoiding relationships.
I want to have a good relationship and find someone who makes me happy and who I can make happy in return, but I also fear it. I know I feel lonely often, though.
How do I let myself trust / search for someone? Do I feel like this because I am young, haven't found the right person or what?
If you have any words of advice at all that relate to something I have discussed, I would really appreciate hearing it. Thanks so much. (link)
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well..i am your age as well and know what your going through..but dont go seaching for him..live your life and have fun..dont avoid either.. your still young and more than likely your not going to find the "right" person now.. jsut dont do anything your not ready for. if you party....go out and party meet new people BE A KID! i hope i helped in some way !
-Bri
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Can you be a Christian and be bisexual?? Because I know a lot of people that go to church but they are bisexual. Personally it doesn't bother me but it bothers other people, so is it ok?? (link)
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i have many gay and bisexual friends so i hope i can help!
Personally, through what i know and think it does NOT matter what religion you are. It is YOUR right to be what ever sexuality you want. like im catholic and they dont beleive in homosexuality but yah know what, even though the bible doesnt say jesus was gay, they never said anything about t he other deciples :P 11 guys always together? come on now lets be serious.
But yes it is perfectly okay with you beingchristian and bisexual. everyone just has a problem with it because they dont beleave people should be like that. they just need to face reality and realize the world isnt how they picture it :)
-Bri
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ok i miss my exboyfriend like crazy! and i hung out with him for the first time sence we broke up (2 months) yesterday and i fell right back in love with him. he is the first gut ive ever been in love with and so i had my freinds ask him if he still liked me at all and he said he didnt which made me really upset and i want him soooo bad!! i talk to him alot but never see him. none of my friends understand what im goin through but when we were goin out he told me he was in love with me. i need advive on how to get him to love me again. i miss him terribly!!! (link)
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Alright i always like to start my advice with something personal so you know that i can relate. I went out with a boy for 7 months and we thought we were in love. We broke up and all of a sudden i didnt love him anymore, it was the weirdest thing.
--now for you, all i can say is you have to try and let go..everything happens for a reason, so if you and your ex were meant to be, then someday you will get back together. but for now you have to live your life and esp. BE HAPPY! i am sure he still cares about you and wishes the best or he wouldnt be talking to you. You have to let him "think" your over him and just want to be friends..let him know what hes missing out on!
i hope i helped in some way
_bri
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Here it is. The famous kissing question. I know you are all probably sick of answering this question, but please I'm desperate.
A few weeks ago this boy and I started liking each other. I went over his house,but nothing happened because of a certain reason that has nothing to do wtih this story. anyway, and then the other day he kissed me on the lips, and so soon I'm pretty sure that soon we're probably going to make out. A lot of my friends just said go with the flow, do whatever feels right but is that really it? Can anyone relate me back to there first make out and what happened and how they felt? My guy friends always talk about how when someone is a good kisser, they just want to kiss them over and over again. How do you be a good kisser, liek what qualities does a good kisser have? Please, no one send me links to teen magazines telling you how to kiss. I want the real deal from actual people.
Thank you so much :) (link)
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Alright hunnie i know how you feel. I was soo nervous with my first kiss i thought i was going to puke! But your friends are right, go with the flow. Really there arent any "certain" qualities in being a good kisser. Everyone is different and if this boy doesnt think your a good kisser, trust me someone else will think so. Whithin the first i dont know...4 seconds of making out, youll figure it out :) follow him lol..and do what feels right..dont do anything you dont want! (: i hope i helped.
-Bri
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